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I just want to put in a good word for Giovanni. He is super cute, v friendly/nice, totally focused on you, and gives a really thorough massage that includes going deep where necessary, stretching, etc. And I left happy both times 😉 Definitely recommend.

If I’m that masseur, I would then NOT consider you a preferred client, and would stick to the absolute basics if you ever came to see me again. But clearly I’m in the minority here.

First half of the movie is great; 2nd half falls apart; and at 3.5 hrs, it’s far too long in general. Brody is solid but hasn’t he done quite similar roles before (so not exactly trying something new)? Personally not interested in seeing him nude. I don’t love Timothy Chalamet, but think he was incredible in the Bob Dylan movie and should win the Oscar. But it’s all so subjective.

Agreed but talk about belaboring the issue. Pot kettle. and talk to my masseur who, though he may provide (unrequested) services that would make YOU consider him an escort, absolutely does not consider himself one.

lol - again, relating this profession to that of doctors, lawyers, plumbers and others with a reliable income, health insurance, paid vacations, etc. it’s just beyond ridiculous. Yes, it’s (most likely) their choice to do this, but try putting yourself in their shoes anyway. your dentist diagnoses a health issue and treats it bc that’s their job, and bc your condition will worsen if they don’t. your massage therapist decides to go above and beyond (not necessarily at your request; mine was a pleasant surprise) for whatever reason — that’s NOT their job. Will it kill you to reward them, as they have rewarded you?

I went to see a guy who I personally think is 🔥🔥🔥 for the first time about a month ago on the West side of manhattan for a therapeutic/erotic combo massage. His rate is $250. Had the massage been solid w basic extras, I would have probably tipped 10-20%. But we ended up having sex that I thoroughly enjoyed, so I tipped him 40% (bc he went well above & beyond the expected). I would have been embarrassed / felt guilty had I not, and wanted to see him again…soon. After I saw him the 2nd time, he sent me a price promotion for our 3rd mtg. I say tip all of your providers guys — and tip the ones at the spas even more — esp if they’re making you happy. If not - well that’s a different story. PS I do not get these comparisons to other professions. Doesn’t equate for me.

He’s fantastic — super nice, passionate, eager to please, sexy, great tools, w/in your budget. Highly recommend. Hope he’s here when you are. Also recommend TopMediterranean from your list. Younger and less passionate, but still hot fun. Enjoy!

I thought some of you here might be interested in listening to the prolific gay literary icon Ed White talk about his new book, The Loves of My Life: A Sex Memoir: https://www.kirkusreviews.com/podcast/2025-01-28/

I haven’t been in years but I believe The Cock in the E Village is still the best known in NYC.

The guy I met w/ accepted PayPal, but again, his rate was much lower than what it would be in the States / NYC, so still what I would consider a bargain.

HE seems standard w Sandro, & extras are possible 😉

I’m a fan of Sandro — slender but toned Clark Kent type (wears glasses) from Mexico. Massage is light & sensual — but goes deeper if you ask.

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Any chance you’d be willing to share who these guys are @MmM? I’ve just begun this adventure and have seen only 1 guy (via RMasseur) a few times so far. From what I’ve read here, he gives a good massage, but within 5-10 minutes, he’s already topping me, so…? I know I could say something to him, but…

Also loved The Swimming Pool Library and The Line of Beauty, and am looking forward to his latest. But I’m currently listening to the audiobook of Candy Darling, the bio by Cynthia Carr, which is good so far.

@Deadlift1 RMen. Booked my trip and then started exploring @Yukon21 😉

I would be beyond shocked if you could get that rate in Buenos Aires today. My guy was 200/hr, which I thought was a great deal — at least compared to NYC.

Argentina is no longer cheap but you can still find guys for much less than what you’d pay in the States, or at least NYC. At least the 1 guy I hired (a few times) a couple of months ago was.

Do any of you feel obligated to go back to the same masseurs when you’ve had good experiences / they’re working the day you plan to go in? I have seen a couple of ppl at 27 more than once, and wouldn’t mind trying others, but feel a little guilty for whatever reason. Am I being ridiculous?

Here’s hoping Madison stays healthy, doesn’t get pregnant (yet), and can keep it going for the rest of the year. With her game, she should be top 5 and a threat just about everywhere, except for maybe on clay. I’d love to see her and Sabalenka play more major finals this year and beyond.

I would highly recommend Lucioc in BA. I met with him 3 times while there — nice guy, hot body, etc. Lucioc - Pornstar Performer, Rentboy, Gay Massage in Buenos Aires, Argentina | RentMen RENTMEN.EU Pornstar Performer & Rentboy in Buenos Aires, Argentina - Lucioc: LUCCIO

I just spent a month there from mid-November to mid-December, and I just wired money to myself via Western Union, which was v easy. Otherwise, I used my AmEx (accepted most places), and sometimes paid in US dollars (also accepted most places). Many places give a discount when you pay in cash (en efectivo). I wish I’d had 3 months to stay but I was there at the beginning of Summer and spent a lot of time at the pool at my building in Palermo. The food scene is much much better than it used to be (when I last went around 15 yrs ago), with quite a few restaurants included in the Michelin Guide. Check out this list. I also took bike tours, went to the museums and sites, and walked all over. It’s such a chill, relaxing city — in comparison to NYC. I’m jealous.

I just asked a provider about cumming and he said he usually doesn’t bc he needs to keep working. I assume that it’s probably more likely w later sessions.

What does Danny @ 27/ HK look like @dreamboy13?

Or a good…?!? 😜 I just found a masseur (who has been discussed on this site) who is a fantastic fuck (to me) and spends barely any time on the massage. While I’d love an excellent, or even solid, massage, I’m not complaining about getting escort services at current masseur prices. I’ll probably keep going back, and find someone else for a good massage.