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BigAppleJay

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    BigAppleJay reacted to LookingAround in Hudsonn in New York and Long Island?   
    His tats are very hot! Victim? Are you kidding me?
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    BigAppleJay reacted to JackNYC in NYC - Massage Parlors w/ Older Masseurs   
    No, that’s not what happened or why people are upset. The fact that older masseurs are not part of the standard business massage parlor model was actually acknowledged by the original poster which is why he was asking for some exceptions that may have some older masseurs on staff. 
    You replied with a crass restaurant analogy that was basically a false equivalency; nobody wants old food and clearly many people reading the forum prefer older masseurs for a variety of reasons, regardless of whether or not you think it’s a fetish.  Then you doubled down with more immature, inflammatory comments (“stale bread” “old-man fetish” etc), and insisted you that all you did was state a “FACT.”
    To put it more simply, you yucked somebody’s yum, and that’s just lame, unproductive, and not in the spirit of the forum. 
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    BigAppleJay reacted to sfhairyman415 in Scary Looking Clients   
    I feel seen. Even daddies need a daddy. 
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    BigAppleJay reacted to + azdr0710 in Sensual vs Erotic   
    It's been debated since Christ was a child. 
    Keep in mind that the ads are as masseurs, not full-on "escorts". 
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    BigAppleJay reacted to CuriousByNature in “Negative On Prep” Liars.   
    Some of the posts in this thread make my eyes roll to the back of my head, and not in a good way.  A provider is not responsible for the health outcomes of their clients.  It strikes me as ridiculous that websites even include HIV status as a descriptor, because there is no way for someone having frequent encounters to be absolutely sure they are negative or undetectable 100% of the time, even if they were to be tested daily.  I think the most honest thing a provider can do is leave that question blank, which also puts the onus back on the client to determine the level of risk they wish to assume.   
    If seeing the words 'negative on prep' causes a client to take unnecessary risks and forget about safety, that decision is on them.  The profiles on RM are advertisements, not sworn affidavits.  
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    BigAppleJay reacted to Daniel84 in Hottlatin in NYC   
    Not sure what that means but okay if he's not your cup of tea.. the people that are usually so fast to say "Does not give me hot Vibes" hide behind a computer and doesn't show their face... 
    A simple not my type would have been suffice.. vs your above comment. I see you were born the 1950s I guess respect went out the window the older you got. 
    I was raised if you don't have something nice to say don't talk... 
    Well anyways I hired him numerous times and he was amazing in bed and is a very hot sweet guy. He's respectful, and not crazy on Tina like a lot of providers lately.. 
    When I visit NYC and have time I would book him again. 
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    BigAppleJay reacted to IamAdamRose in Hiring Straight Guys(No politics)   
    As a provider myself, I’ll never understand calling them “straight guys” I’m sorry, but if you’re a man having sexual relations with the other male paid or not, you’re/they’re NOT straight 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️
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    BigAppleJay reacted to Medin in Identical Twin Brothers?   
    It's shocking on this board to see so many people talking about "choice".   Who chooses their sexual orientation?  Do you wake up one day, sit down at the breakfast table when you are about 5 years old and make the decision with Mom & Dad?   How you "choose" to live your life is a different situation.  We are in our infancy in regards to genetics.  One of the first big studies was done by Dr. Dean Hammer at the NIH back in the early nineties if I remember correctly.  My partner at the time was a participant with his brother.  It was later found to have some flaws but set the groundwork for future studies; one of which was released a few years ago.  Even if scientists were able to prove the genetic component with 100% certainty, many Americans wouldn't believe it anyway and we have the recent COVID epidemic as proof of Americans' distrust of science.  You can blame the right for that-not a bunch of liberal activists.  
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    BigAppleJay reacted to KevinHere in Any info on this hottie CzechDavid?   
    I asked for info not critiques -  Y'all must be hot af 
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    BigAppleJay got a reaction from mecloud in Spas in NYC   
    Tried Bert at Alpha and did not have the type of experience many have described.  Decent massage with some sensual elements but the session itself ended rather abruptly without explosive anything.  Also, when I left I realized the actual session was maybe 45 minutes at the max.
    Don't know if it was because he was rushed due to the close scheduling of other clients (before and after me) if it was chemistry - while not an ogre, I'm not as young and built as I used to be - or he thought I wasn't interested.  As for the latter, while it was obvious I was "interested" it does take more direct stimulation than he was providing.
    Overall, not what I expected and not sure I will visit the place again given my experience with Bert and the reviews of the other therapists.
    If you want a decent, cost efficient therapeutic session Bert is probably OK to fit the need.  As for the rest, YMMV definitely applies.
     
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    BigAppleJay reacted to foleynyc in HandstoTouchNYC   
    Nah. It was years ago but can't imagine it's any better now. Strange guy.
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    BigAppleJay reacted to + EVdude in Monkey Pox & Massages   
    I hear ya! While not exactly in your shoes, yesterday I decided to step back from massage until I’m vaccinated. A more active friend of mine has it, and the husband of a friend is awaiting his results. My married friend is obviously distraught on a number of levels. I don’t think either has anything to do with massages or spas, but odds of exposure here in NYC seem high enough to me to warrant a break.
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    BigAppleJay reacted to Luv2play in 3 some with Brothers? Yay or nay?   
    I'm trying to wrap my mind about having to offer $2000 to give a blowjob to a stripper. What am I missing here?
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    BigAppleJay reacted to Quincy_7 in ESCORT DISCLOSES POSITIVE HIV STATUS ON PUBLIC FORUM BUT NOT TO CLIENTS   
    A client can't bareback without prep and be upset by the consequences. Either wrap up or go on prep.
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    BigAppleJay got a reaction from Beef-a-roni in Spas in NYC   
    Tried Bert at Alpha and did not have the type of experience many have described.  Decent massage with some sensual elements but the session itself ended rather abruptly without explosive anything.  Also, when I left I realized the actual session was maybe 45 minutes at the max.
    Don't know if it was because he was rushed due to the close scheduling of other clients (before and after me) if it was chemistry - while not an ogre, I'm not as young and built as I used to be - or he thought I wasn't interested.  As for the latter, while it was obvious I was "interested" it does take more direct stimulation than he was providing.
    Overall, not what I expected and not sure I will visit the place again given my experience with Bert and the reviews of the other therapists.
    If you want a decent, cost efficient therapeutic session Bert is probably OK to fit the need.  As for the rest, YMMV definitely applies.
     
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    BigAppleJay got a reaction from Redwine56 in Spas in NYC   
    Tried Bert at Alpha and did not have the type of experience many have described.  Decent massage with some sensual elements but the session itself ended rather abruptly without explosive anything.  Also, when I left I realized the actual session was maybe 45 minutes at the max.
    Don't know if it was because he was rushed due to the close scheduling of other clients (before and after me) if it was chemistry - while not an ogre, I'm not as young and built as I used to be - or he thought I wasn't interested.  As for the latter, while it was obvious I was "interested" it does take more direct stimulation than he was providing.
    Overall, not what I expected and not sure I will visit the place again given my experience with Bert and the reviews of the other therapists.
    If you want a decent, cost efficient therapeutic session Bert is probably OK to fit the need.  As for the rest, YMMV definitely applies.
     
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    BigAppleJay reacted to Cliff in Kinky and piggy NYC tops   
    But ya know what’s REALLY gross, man? Judging others. 
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    BigAppleJay reacted to dfwmassagelover in 411 on CzechDavidStar - NYC   
    Love the ink, very hot!
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    BigAppleJay reacted to phraughy in Gangbangs anyone?   
    That gang bang was painful for the bottom. I do not like overly aggressive and sadistic bangings. However, I was gang banged in a sling by 18 guys at a sex club in Atlanta. After dick number 6 I was begging for more. It was a hot experience. My ass was sore for a week.
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    BigAppleJay reacted to + RJD in Edu_brazil in NYC: wants your pics 1st   
    Basically, no pic/no chat.  He thinks he's on Grindr. 
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    BigAppleJay reacted to + BenjaminNicholas in Real Straight Guys.   
    ... And let's not forget self-loathing.  A boatload of self-loathing.
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    BigAppleJay reacted to + BenjaminNicholas in Real Straight Guys.   
    Y'know guys, if you keep feeding the troll, they never go away.
    The OP has asked this question in so many ways, so many times, that now it's like a well-worn Laurel & Hardy routine.
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    BigAppleJay reacted to sjmuktop in Real Straight Guys.   
    "Real straight guys" don't have sex with other guys. 
    This is not a realistic pursuit. 
    Oh, and "every straight guy has his price" is a load of BS; it's just something that many sad, pathetic gay men convince themselves of because they want to cling on so badly to their fantasies of fucking straight guys (for whatever reason, this seems to be an unhealthy obsession for a lot of gay men).
     
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