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On 2/27/2024 at 10:58 AM, rojjodc said:

Does anyone know if a dance that goes by the pseudo name 'Michael Shaw' is dancing there regularly now?  He posted it on his social media that he danced there this early Feb. but I don't think I am allowed to post his social media on this site, but he is on the BestFlex website.  

I’ve been chatting Michael up on Insta and if we’re lucky, he’ll be coming to headline AdonisLA one of these summer months!

I’ve not made it to Johnson’s Tampa yet but Michael is one of the reasons I’m salivating to make the trip! 
 

I forget are pics allowed on this board?

I love to go to the bars solo but if I did, I wouldn’t have a retirement fund anymore! Have fun!

When are you coming to LA? What do you prefer?

On 1/6/2024 at 7:00 AM, hwic04 said:

I’m curious if anyone attended the New Year’s Eve bash at LeBoy. Wondering how crowded it might have been, what the cover charge was, and if porn stars were there as advertised.

I was not there for the New Year’s eve bash, but I learned my lesson in 2022 and went on December 30. I ran into the advertised headliner that I wanted to see. This past December 30 I only wanted to go to see Felix Fox and he was there, stunningly beautifully muscled. I paid that cover charge to go to that back room with him and we had a blast! I was with friends and we had planned to go to Johnsons and Felix was getting called up to the stage anyway so we left LeBoy and went over to Johnson’s where I always have a good time!

But I had seen all the dancers at Johnsons for the two nights before and Felix and I had a great time in that back room. So I told my friends that I would meet them at home because I was returning to LeBoy. I went back and waited for Felix, who was talking with patrons and other dancers. And when he saw me, I asked if we could go back to the back room again. He obliged. I paid that fee again and enjoyed a half hour with some of the funnest Muscle, I’ve seen in a while! 
 

I absolutely agree with other posters that Johnsons is a much better deal for $10 and an all night pass to the private space. But when you find a good performer who wants to play like Felix did, it was financially worth it to pay the cover twice and have about an hours worth of fun with all of the money going to Felix! While I have done everything short of anal sex in the Johnsons private space, I had just as much fun with so much more privacy in the larger, nicer private space at LeBoy.  

I’ve gone a couple of times a year since the end of the pandemic, and have always enjoyed my time there! I’ve never been to one of the men only nights, but that is my plan for the next time I go. The last two times that I’ve gone. I’ve also had just as much fun with one of the waiters. I don’t get a drink until I catch the eye of the one I want to take my order and I make sure he is well compensated such that he understands he has just as much chance to make money as a good dancer.  So I don’t leave Tijuana unhappy at all!

1 hour ago, FLJock said:

Getting then same day on a long wknd may be difficult, but what kind of guy/session are you looking for? 

Thanks FL Jock. At least one really good therapeutic massage from a good looking masseur.  Friend prefers good massage over nuttin at the end.  I, on the other hand am fine just getting manhandled by a muscle guy and calling it a massage. We don’t have to have the same guy.  As long as I can drop him off then go to mine. I’ve been on RentMasseur and there are some great candidates in the WM/FTL area. Just wanted to check the wisdom of the board.  

Friend and I are visiting Fort Lauderdale, staying with friends and Wilton Manors. Does anyone have any good masseur recommendations? Need for Friday/Saturday 12/29-30

The improvements look nice! But to clarify: there’s no extra charge or different cover to get into the VIP room?

On 9/1/2023 at 2:35 PM, LocallySocally said:

Not all bars allow you to smoke on their patios, and if you leave the bar to smoke, you can't take your drink with you. Plus, some cities don't allow smoking at bars or restaurants, even on patios, (Los Angeles does allow it, though, on a patio or similar outdoor section).

However, there are bars in the Los Angeles area which do have smoking patios where you can keep your drink with you.

I'm wondering which gay bars have them. Thanks. 

On the strip in WeHo I know the following allow smoking on their “outdoor” sections: the Abbey, MotherLode, Stache, HiTops, Rocco’s, Heart, GymBar, Cantina, Micky’s, Revolver, Trunks.  
 

So basically all of them.  And I must admit that by “allow” I mean I’ve seen folks smoking in there outdoor areas and are fine. I don’t know what each’s official house policy is. 

On 2/22/2022 at 12:27 PM, SirBillybob said:

My best experience of about 25 tricks qualitatively in Brazil these past months, unrelated to the appeal of lower rates overall, but just simply an extremely edifying sexual encounter in a structured setting with stable fixed charges, was a full hour at USD$60 that included 20% tip (not that I just got the tip). I don’t know what he turned over to the venue but I think he kept $40-50 for himself. In my neck of the woods I would consider this a $300-400 guy and he could easily bank $1,000+ in a Montreal strip club. Gorgeous and a natural vibe. He did not seem to be of desperate circumstances, had his own vehicle to get to the setting, and spoke a fair degree of English. I think he was in it for lifestyle perks but cars there are very expensive and he would take forever to cover that cost at what he was earning. 

Can you please share what venue this was? And how were the men chosen? Did you have an online reservation option?

On 3/5/2023 at 8:29 AM, socurious said:

I'm in Monterrey right now. I went to a club full of strippers last night and one of the guys (the only one I found hot) was charging me 200 pesos (11 dollars) for a private dance of 3 minutes lol. I said no. Three minutes is not long enough for me and he looked straight. Amazing body and skin though. The best-looking one out of the guys that worked there. Any sugestions where to get hotties? I'm only into gym bodies. I was looking for saunas online but most look sketchy. I am afraid. 

What was the stripper bar in Monterrey? Are there multiple stripper bars in Monterrey?

So any updates on Mexico City? Looking at a fun possible weekend in June.  

And is there another board similar to this with info on gay bars and sights?

Is there a site for providers to share information about potential scam clients? Obviously, asking for a friend who needs some clarity.

On 3/9/2023 at 1:19 PM, jeezopete said:

Just posted on their instagram story:

Tampa is on my visitation schedule but if you tell me this man (with the emerging hairy chest and muscles!) is a regular, I'll step up that date! What's this gorgeous dancer's name?

20 hours ago, Cliff said:

The name-changing thing is a red flag for me. Why would he keep changing his name? I see some very trusted forum members attest to his wonderfulness back in 2021 and I guess his videos with famous porn stars say something but typically I feel better about the escorts who choose a name and stick with it, solidying their brand and therefore instilling confidence with existing and prospective clients. Frequent name changes, to me, signify running from something. No pointed jabs at this posts, please; this is just my own personal feeling and based on my own personal experiences. Cheers. 

I've known Bo for a while and while I understand the name changing as a red flag, in this case, I  really don't think it's the case. If he's running,  he sure does live in plain sight of a lot of us who he knows are on these boards and could "out" him of anything shady  He's always been up front with me (I admit  I've never hired him for a private) and super sexy and sensual. I agree with tonyward - love  kissing his lips and when I play with his muscles, it's always fun on the playground!

I was there for Mardi Gras week and went to the corner pocket. I usually find some diamonds in the rough there, and enjoy myself immensely. There was absolutely nothing! I was sad because I brought some friends with me in hopes that they might enjoy seeing some strippers but that didn’t happen.

However, we had a fantastic time at Oz mainly because they brought in West Coast talent! Had a great time there two nights in a row!

On 2/28/2023 at 3:49 PM, jeezopete said:

However, these guys were entertaining! The one on the right smiled & winked at me while he was on stage so I went up and tipped him. Later in the evening on stage again, he motioned me to come over. When I walked up with dollars in my hand, he smiled again and said, "I haven't seen you in a while I just wanted to give you a hug." And he did. 😁 Now, I do like a dancer who flirts....

I know both of these boys personally and they are loads of fun! I wish I didn’t know them so I could enjoy their muscles more! Haha

On 10/27/2022 at 6:36 PM, novaman said:

Tried to set something up with him pre pandemic.  Required a small deposit before meeting, $50 maybe, lost interest.   Many good reviews and he's been around for awhile, based in Miami.  Has Instagram profile with same profile name.

Can someone share his Instagram?

I know Johnson’s is the best spot for muscle but I’m looking for some other opinions on where else to go. I’ve had great luck at Boardwalk and there was some promising talent at LeBoy last year around this time of year.  But I miss the “raunchy” side of the strip clubs in FTL and while Johnson’s has the muscle, they also have the lights and the crowd. Matt runs a great club and I enjoy myself there but it’s a tad “sterile” in the bar. 
 

Thoughts from the peanut gallery on where else has some muscle fun to play? I could just “order in” but that just gets so pricy!!!

On 11/23/2022 at 3:54 PM, RadioRob said:

I'm actually heading back this weekend through Friday till Tuesday and then will be back again most likely for New Years.  

Can you give your estimation of the crowd at Boardwalk? Last year there were some great muscle guys from Argentina that literally made it worth my while to sit and wait for them to let me worship at the bar or in the corner. 

From the looks of the ads, I haven’t seen any muscle there. But they don’t do a great job of using their social media to “show the goods”! Anyway, just looking for some opinions to help with my next few days here…

I used to be pretty clear on this topic, thinking it’s just part of gay male neurosis because of how we learn about loving with our sexuality. As young boys we hide our feelings and don’t have healthy models of his to love people to whom we are attracted. So our “crushes” are hit or miss - falling for unavailable guys, “straight” guys, or o sensing over other gay guys who have made clear they are not attracted to us in the same way that we are attracted to them. 

However, I’ve come to the realization that straight men, those who “identify” and those are actually straight, are just people who, like us before, do not have words to explain what they are going through, models to follow, or clear ways to express their own attraction. Currently, a straight man who I am in love with but I know I can’t be with loves me incredibly deeply. He is not sexually attracted to me but he is emotionally attracted to me. We are very close friends and he likes to see me be pleasured by being with him, even though he does not get sexually aroused by my arousal. However, he loves to “perform” sexually with me because he knows how much I love him and he wants me to be happy and to enjoy myself by enjoying him. (No, he does not receive money from me nor do I pay his bills or anything of that nature.  We met at a gay club where he was a dancer. But we’ve known each other for six years and we’ve grown to be friends.) 

So I don’t have the answer to it all. I just am coming to a deeper understanding that people are people. And just like I don’t want to be categorized and put into a box, I don’t need to do that to anyone else either. So, if we truly want to allow love to win, I think we need to let each person “love” how they love.  
 

Of this era I don’t have many stories.  I was young and just starting out with these kinds of shenanigans. But probably the only famous ones started in the 90’s. Marco Rossi and Jon Vincent come to mind…

I have a very bad habit of befriending providers and enjoying friendship well beyond the normal boundaries. In a few instances, in return for my hosting them when they travel to my city, even though I do not engage their services, some of these providers have given me "freebies." I have a few who have become very close friends and so I now decline any of the freebies just because we are closer friends and I would start feeling weird.

Of course, there's always one. And this one and I are so very close. We talk or text every day but we are not in a relationship. We are super close friends but I've broached the subject with him about our "relationship." I love the guy and he's "my guy" as much as I have a guy. We are not sexually compatible but I'm convinced he is emotionally attracted to me and our relationship. When he stays we hang all day and we cuddle. When he wants to release, he invites me to enjoy it with him. But deep in my heart, I know we are only friends. This is the closest I've gotten to what i think this post is about.

7 hours ago, Coolwave35 said:

I’m going to ask Matt if he’s open to me flying him to New York for this weekend.  

Haha I'd be happy to ask Jake for you!