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Yeah, on reflection should have recognized him as psycho from the beginning messages he sent me. And a lot of his talk was frenetic nonsense. Unfortunately, like a lot of people, I tend to give a pass for beautiful men. (For those who don't remember, that's how Jeffrey Dahmer managed to rack up so many bodies.) Speaking of beautiful men, is that link to your ad? Drool-worthy silver fox!!! Maybe I should visit OKC again.

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I said I could do the time he suggested, but that didn't stop him from continuing to negotiate a different, midway, time. After a few of these, just reiterated I'd be there at the time he first wanted. Seemed a little flaky or unstable to me. Second, the lack of preparedness. After agreeing to a later time, I arrived at his hotel to find messages from him 15 minutes earlier saying he thought he saw me (how? he had no idea what I looked like) and was in the lobby. Messaged him back for the room number and he didn't give it to me, just told me the floor. Got up there and no one. Messaged him again and he popped out into the hall about halfway down and beckoned me. Went to the room to find it wasn't made up, i.e. he hadn't prepped even given an extra hour. Clothing, packages, and personal items everywhere. Cleaned off a part of table for my things. Took time out of my paid time to put a fresh sheet on the bed and clean up in the bathroom. When I asked to use the restroom, he didn't want to vacate, instead holding my penis (NEVER had anyone do that before, EVER) while I tried to urinate--didn't work for me, so ended up skipping it and went on to the bed for massage. He had his dog (which smelled like wet dog) in the room and never once asked if that was okay or if I was allergic--these days, I would think anyone would know to ask. Third, he never stopped talking the entire time I was there. Very distracting subject matter and not calming to me (even though I usually like a bit of conversation). The massage itself was limited to my legs and rougher than I would like. Then some stretches that hurt a bit. Spent too much time doing the same things over and over because, he finally said, I wasn't relaxed enough. Didn't say that, though, until he had used up most of my time. Then, he asked how much time I wanted, which I thought had been settled when I booked. Told him I hadn't brought much extra money with me (I don't generally carry more cash than I need when I see a rent guy), but had enough for an extra 15 minutes (seemed ridiculous that he would even hustle me for so short a time). At one point, he told me he wasn't a sexual person (which I can confirm) and doesn't react to physical stimulus the way most people do [paraphrasing]. He went through his final routine and arranged himself over me in reverse (to put it discreetly, but use your imagination--nice view, btw). I don't generally respond to HE, but he tried without success. Then the time was up. When I went to pay him, he asked if I had an electronic payment form (I don't). This was odd, since he had said upfront cash only. I told him I had enough cash for the extra time we had agreed on. Then, he told me there was an upcharge which he had not disclosed before or during the session. He said he didn't want to mention it because he didn't want to spoil the mood. I told him how much I could offer and asked if that would be okay. No. I was supposed to know that there would be charges for anything not specifically described in his ad. This is where he turned insulting and unkind, totally negating any positive effect of the body work. Finally counted out all the money I had and gave it to him, turned out to be only $5 less than he demanded. This session ended up costing me as much as a full service rent man would be, without the full service! Felt really awkward and uncomfortable, but it didn't seem to faze him at all. Then, he walked me down to the lobby, which was unwelcome and a bit creepy. By the time I got to my car, he had sent me a message that not saying goodby wasn't cool. Again, weird, since we had done goodbyes in the room. Never have I ever had another rent guy insist on taking me down to the lobby or send me a message like that afterward. On the plus side, he has the most beautiful flawless skin I've ever seen and all the right muscles in the right places makes for a vision (if that's all you want at premium prices, but be sure not to touch). He told me he's actually 37 but claims 25 in his ad. He could pass, but it seems unnecessarily deceptive to deduct 12 years from his actual age, especially given the number of years of experience he claims in the ad don't calculate with the age given. In short, I wouldn't repeat and suggest you avoid. Putting together the odd talk and behavior, I'd say the guy has some mental issues and might possibly become scary if triggered. ALSO NOTE: This provider has dozens of reviews, most of which are more than 5 years old. Although the average score is 5 stars, there are a number of low reviews--the way both RM sites calculate stars, after a certain number of high reviews are posted, low reviews have no effect.

Yes, definitely. Saw him. Knowledgeable about massage, but not shy about being sexual. Friendly and sweet. Recent Mr. World Columbia. Would recommend.

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Paranoia for me meant he refused to provide a face pic on his ad or via message, avoided looking at my security cameras when he came to visit, asked whether I had cameras in the house (no), and closed the shades even though my windows are covered by trees. Seemed overly obsessed at not having his face seen or photographed. I suppose it could be interpreted as normal behavior, but no one else I've met behaved that way. Glad you haven't encountered his bad side, but his proficiency at vitriol tells me I'm not the only one who has. As I said YMMV, so enjoy.

Despite initial good experience, have to agree with this. Guy with serious issues, paranoid about showing his face and schizoid about meeting. Can be nice or vicious, depending on the day. Saw him a couple of times, got ghosted, then some mean messages. Would not repeat. AVOID!

Anyone have any recent experience with this masseur? Specifically, what does he consider sensual massage? Means different things to different people.

Skip him. Hired him. Disappointing, at best. First, his pictures don't convey the real person. None of his pictures really show his face and he appears aloof and distant, a perfect god. IRL he is like the typical college jock. Big, beautiful blue eyes and an engaging smile that you never see in the pix. The kind of guy you'd be proud to bring home to mother. Pictures show flawless skin, but IRL lots of moles and pimples on the back, which is kind of a turn-off for me. Flawless skin is my fetish. Obviously works out daily, but also obviously never misses a meal and a little fuller than the pictures convey. Down to earth and friendly in a really hetero guy-next-door way. Good conversationalist, a grad student in business. So, turns out to be a nice friendly hetero boy-next-door who seems resistant to having sex with another man. A real problem when that's what you're paying for. Claims "bisexual" but actually means "gay for pay." Also, doesn't really engage in role play, if he even understands the concept (although he lists it as a service in his ad). His limits seem unlimited. Before he quoted a price, he asked what I wanted to do. He told me he was okay with those things and that he topped. I emphasized I was expecting the "versatile" in the "versatile top" he advertises and I expected activities to be mutual. He said he was down for what I wanted and we agreed on a price. Turns out, he's not really versatile and declined in person to do what he agreed to beforehand. (Of course, after he was paid.) RED FLAG, he demands payment up front. He told me he had been stiffed five times by guys who he didn't collect from up front. After my experience, I'm not surprised they didn't want to pay him... he didn't really earn what he charges. Basically, you get a mediocre hand job and some half-hearted sucking (not really sucking, but putting a dick in his mouth for a brief time). I was so uninspired by him I gave up trying to get hard and pointed out the time as soon as the hour was up. He told me I was getting a bargain rate because usually he only does overnights, goes out to dinner and a movie with his clients before going to bed. IDK, Maybe he does more with those guys. Plus side, if you care, he isn't a clock watcher and wouldn't have left if I hadn't told him the hour was up. He's proud of giving plenty of time... On the scheduling... he cancelled the first 3 appointments we set up. Each time with a legitimate good reason, and I rescheduled because I wanted to meet the guy in the pictures. 4th time, he showed up at my house no extra charge. Seems reasonably reliable, no drugs or diseases. The rest, decide for yourself if you like what I've described or you want to waste some money. As always, YMMV. Fun note: In a confirming text the day before, I asked him to "call me sir." He interpreted "call" to mean "telephone" and he did the next day. Wasn't expecting a call from a rent man, so was surprised when he said I had told him to call. No, I hadn't. A little while later, I realized the confusion and had a laugh.

I saw him and had a mixed experience. The photos are of him, but somehow he.came across differently IRL. First, he’s larger in person than he looks in the photos. Taller, more muscular. Not the twink in the pictures, but a full-on muscle guy. Yeah, the pictures are accurate but the proportions don’t show. He’s warm and creates a clean room. The massage itself was, well, strange. He straddles your head and works top down toward the ass. Gives a sensual feel, especially when he’s nude, but doesn’t really do much in therapeutic terms (he advertises a combo of therapeutic and erotic). Obviously trained but doesn’t use the training in a useful way. The erotic part was more tease than anything else. Lots of full body contact. He has the moves but also has a boyfriend he’s devoted to. No kissing, even though he brushes your lips, or anything really sexual. He does 4-hand massage with said boyfriend and maybe it’s different when they’re working together. They really push the 4-handed, but I didn’t do that. No happy ending because of the way his attitude deflated the atmosphere. Because he’s charging premium prices that are at the escort rate in my area, this doesn’t feel right. What really bothered me, though, was that he shorted the session. I paid for 90 minutes and got 70. Again, this is ridiculous at premium prices. From closely reading his reviews, others have had the same issue. Apparently, other people this happened to weren’t bothered by it, so consider what matters to you. I pointed out the time wasn’t over and he gave me a half-hearted neck rub for a few more minutes, but I didn’t leave feeling happy or relaxed.

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Yes, he's a little slow to respond. Doesn't keep his phone with him when he's in session. He travels a lot, so may not be in DC any longer.

That bad? What sort of experience did you have?

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