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He is an immigrant with only experience in Construction and it slows down over the Winter. He said he was afraid of telling me because he didn't want to lose me, that I would judge him. He says he stopped for a few months when we got engaged but he needs to start again because he has no money and doesn't want me to support him. He was honest and vulnerable, but at the same time, had a "this is what I have to do" attitude.... I have no options he says. I think he wants me to accept that he needs to do this for now but also help him find a new something else to do. He does do a lot to show me he loves me, I never questioned that, so I am doing my best to remember that I have nothing against being an escort, but I saw his profile and my stomach dropped seeing "available now" so think this the hardest part, knowing he is being with other guys. I came to this site to try and find people to connect with similar experiences, either an escort with a boyfriend or a guy with a boyfriend that is an escort because I can't talk to my friends and honestly, that is killing me, but I know they all will tell me to leave him because they don't want me to get hurt, but thank you to everyone that commented. Truly some thoughtful and insightful comments that has helped me put things into perspective although I'm still uncertain what to do....

Thanks Everyone. I have a lot to think about. Yes, him telling me just now is it's own issue, I knew he was one in his past, but he told me it was his past and he stopped doing it....maybe thats my fault for believing him....but we don't live together and I did have my suspicions, so when he told me he was still doing it, I wasn't shocked and felt a little relieved I wasn't crazy for thinking he was... but now that it's confirmed I don't know how to feel because I love him so much and when one of you say as long as he comes home to me every night or if shit gets hard, he stays and we work it out, make me feel a little better....but at the same time, not knowing where or who is with may make me crazy. He says he wants to stop and get a new job but his circumstances don't allow him many options and obviously, won't pay the same. I've never hired an escort but I certainly go get massages at spas with HE while we've been together, so maybe I'm a hypocrite?

Hi-I just found out my fiancé is an Escort, so was wondering if any escorts on this site have partners or if anyone else has a partner that is an escort, and offer any advice on how to navigate this relationship. (Sorry if this is the wrong forum for this) please private message me, just need someone to talk to since he asked me not to tell any of my friends. Thread moved from the Deli to the Lounge. CoM Mods.

I went last week. On the 13th floor, small place but the room was nice. I had Kevin. I would say mid to late 20's, cute, short white guy with a beard. He was very nice, very chatty, but also checking into make sure I was OK. The massage was good but there is absolutely no reason for them to charge what they are charging. Based on their description on the website, you think it's going to be this amazing spa like experience, but there was nothing different than any other spas other than its a nicer room.

I went to this place a few months ago, I forget which of the two I had. They have their photos on the Craigslist ad. The massage was not very good, I remember he asked me for a body on body massage, but the massage was so bad and I wasn't into him at all, so I said no just massage, and then the rest of the time the massage continued to be bad, like he was massaging me in the same spot for like 2 minutes with one hand, so I look up and he's on his phone with the other hand, so I ended it early.

Found a new mens spa in Flushing called EZ Relax Spa. They advertised on Grindr. The massage was very mediocre, asked me after 15 minutes if I wanted a body oil massage, I said no. Tried to give me a HE but I was not into it, then sat on a stool and started barely massaging my leg with one hand and I look up and he's playing on his phone on the other hand, i said, ok we can end now. What a waste and I was happy to have a place in Flushing near the 7 train.

Went to the new Seasons Men Spa on 13th street. I had Jason, tall muscular good looking Asian. Massage was pretty good and he was nice, checking in on pressure. The room was a decent size but they are separated by curtains so not very private. Saw another good looking tall asian guy on my way out and the guy at the front desk was nice.

The roster of guys makes me think this is the same owner of Fifth Avenue Men Spa that closed a few months ago. Same names, Rustam, Kris.

I went yesterday and had Vlad. Younger European guy with dark hair and beard. Decent massage, nothing sensual but nice guy. Probably wouldn't go back to him though. A little too repetitive in his motions.

Sadly, Sergey doesn't work there anymore. He gave the best massage but always legit, at least for me.

I went last week and had Fernando, but he didn't really know what he was doing massage wise, was sensual strokes, and he expected a $150 tip for extras. Won't repeat. I've always had very good massages there and never any upselling. ICE is the only name I remember.

Last time I went I had Leonardo and is a beautiful latino, but asked for $150 tip for extras.

So sad. Ben was one of the first guys I ever got a massage from when he first moved here and worked at Greenhouse Men Spa. I remember him being so sweet.

I found Ciao Studio in Flushing on 161st street and 46th avenue. I thought it was fake based on barely any info on google, and it seemed in the middle of nowhere, but lots of other massage places in the area, assuming all females. Place wasn’t bad, although they made rooms out of shelving units and curtains. The guy Kurt was nice, maybe late 20s, kinda nerdy cute, Decent sensual massage. Anyone else been?

He’s beautiful and great body, massage was just OK, but said $150 if I wanted to touch him.

I went once. He started upselling halfway through and the massage wasn't that great but there was a very cute muscular guy with a tank top in the lobby area when I was leaving, so I would go back to try him but I didn't catch his name.

Ktown is more convenient but would love a location in the midtown east area near Bloomingdales or Grand Central.

Sergey is gone from the schedule again. Been about a month. Anyone know if he left?

Went today for the first time. While it was a good massage, it was over the towel and focused on the same area for too long. He didn't speak English, so all the sudden he shows me his phone to translate and it said "your time is almost up sir, do you want to add 30 more minutes" then "do you want body oil massage" and that it's $60 more. At the desk, I was charged $99 total for 90 minutes though. I asked his name at the end and I believe he said Kevin. Tall guy, I think I saw a small tattoo on his upper left arm. There was another guy there that was very cute, shorter, well toned wearing a tank top. Wish I knew his name!

I just started going recently because I heard these guys actually gave good massages. I actually went last night and had Sergey. He is a beautiful asian guy and gave a fantastic legit massage. Maybe he's not as legit with others but I didn't care the massage was that good. Had Ryan a few months ago and good massage but I don't see him on the roster anymore.

Nice place with showers in the room but way too expensive. The guys are usually pretty cute, but the massage and experience are no better than other than men’s spas for what they charge. Ive only been a couple of times over the years so don’t remember anyone’s names.

I second this. Do not waste your time or money. Place is dirty, negotiated tips and ended my massage about 15-20 minutes early.

Ugh, I should have come on here before going to Energy again. I was in the area so figured what the heck, it's been years since I had been there. It's so rundown and has a musty smell. The guy was cute with tattoos, earrings so started promising. Massage had some good moments but then other moments I was like, what the heck is he doing?? lol. Then as soon as I flipped over, asking for $80 tip. I said no thanks, I didn't bring that much with me, he said they have an ATM or I could venmo him. I said, no thanks, then after a few minutes he asked how much could I afford?? Such a turn off and he shorted me like 20 minutes, which I didn't even care, just wanted to pay and leave. Never again.

I didn’t see any upgrades but they said it was a “soft” opening. The coed area didn’t have any lounge chairs like it used to. The wet area only had one tub and I recall 3 tubs including a small cold one. Steam room extremely hot.

The Spa Club, formerly known as Ktown Sauna on West 32nd in NYC is now open. It’s exactly the same as Ktown with a men’s only area with tub and steam room but super expensive. $70 for the day and $90 on weekends. I went a day or two after they opened and I was the only one there.