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it's all chemistry, which is the exciting thing about seeing a new provider!

YMMV is the correct answer

I had my first massage recently (excluding a purely therapeutic one at my gym several years ago); the masseur had two options - sensual therapeutic and VIP full service for everything.   I chose the latter.  The masseur was nude which I could feel before I could see.  A couple of times he lay on top of me and I was able to hold his cock. I rolled over and he used his hands to give me a happy ending and at one point his cock was in my mouth.  
I don't have enough experience to know if it was a "good" massage, but I enjoyed it.  He would've topped me if I'd wanted.  I'm usually into kissing and this was just a few pecks and that was fine.  I would definitely repeat this experience and see this masseuse again (he travels and is in Seattle once a year). 
The question:  is that a typical experience for an erotic message?  I know that's a generalization and that YMMV. 
And, in looking at both Rent Masseur and Masseur Finder it feels to me that I'm more likely to find what I'm looking for on Rent Masseur. Is that a correct assumption?
I appreciate the group's input. 
Thanks!

Held captive and helpless...so I can use them when I want / how I want.
I'm sure this bondage fetish comes from watching reruns of Batman when I was a kid.
 

I'm Lindsey Graham. The escort is Rachel Maddow.

This isn't weird at all. I'm a bottom who can switch between being submissive, dominant or somewhere in the middle. A lot of it depends on the chemistry with the other guy. 

I adapt a lot as well. With men, I am normally versatile, purely depending on the person I am with. I call it my "opportunistic versatility". I like joking about it.
However, when I am a bottom, I tend to always want to keep control over the situation. Especially when I am with remunerated escorts. 
Thanks for your comment!