Jasrb36

Oh ok i see. The pushiest dancers at Adonis and Nowhere bar i generally do not see at Spunk and BD so that is now the biggest difference other than nudity and BD and Prince are easily visible and available if needed. The vibe at BD used to be more relaxed and laid back when they had parties in the loft and the playlist was generally older songs and it was quiter. Now it feels more like a regular bar/club with louder more modern music so the differences are less noticeable. Monster is a great venue i agree and always a great time.

Yeah im not trying to argue or anything. Im just wondering what exactly you’re expectations were going in as in what did you think was going to be different for example? I admittedly preferred when BD had his parties in the loft but i still prefer the experience overall at BD compared to Adonis. I think Spunk has better venues currently.

Its an $80 difference just to get in and if you want privacy that is another $150 for a private room for 20 minutes or you are in a large room with multiple people . If you mean the weekly Adonis events (of which I havent seen any consistently for a while) then yeah kinda similar but the dancers are nude at BD and the lap dance areas are better separated. Last few times Ive done Adonis the lap dance area was shared at Red Eye and Side Door. Some of dancers are far more aggressive with customers as well at Adonis because of less oversight. Ive seen drunk/high customers get taken advantage of more than once at Adonis. Go to each and observe and you'll immediately see a difference with some of the dancers and know who to avoid. Even the dancers Ive talked to would rather work at BD as its a better event to work at. Sorry you didn’t have a better experience. There is a lot of crossover at the events because local dancers need to work multiple days a week like in any other job.

Well to be fair it is much less expensive than the Adonis nude party, the dancers are far less pushy, and you aren't sharing a lap dance space with other customers. Its all around a much better experience and Prince and BD are present if you have any issues. The entire vibe is more relaxed overall though i do admittedly miss the parties in the loft. What exactly were you expecting though out of curiosity?

I wasnt there last night but generally there is at least some crossover at Spunk, Adonis, BD, nowhere etc but I usually see at least some new faces at Spunk and BD. I never had any trouble getting anyone to pay attention to me (when i wanted at least) and there are generally multiple dancers without customers at any given time in my experience. I do have my favorite that I will normally see but I certainly don't take up all his time. Maybe an hour or so out of a given night and thats not always all at once. A dancer is understandably going to pay more attention to a customer they know is going to tip them well so maybe try tipping something upfront next time if you weren’t already doing that. Other than that maybe try approaching them first if you weren't already though haven’t felt the need to do that for the most part.

Some Wednesdays yes. I dont know of the future dates yet. I go to NYC relatively frequently and plan on going if he they land on wednesdays im there .

The Sunday events are more or less a similar vibe sometimes with more music from the 70s/80s depending on the night. But expect a similar vibe overall. Spunk and BD events are nice because there are less pushy dancers. Adonis and nowhere bar on Mondays can be a lot worse.

Ive been there dozens of times. I agree they have the best variety and least amount of pushy dancers overall. And Monster bar is always a good time. Spunk is probably my favorite of the events in NYC.

Hahaha. Last Saturday when I was there getting a dance the drag queen yelled at the people in the booth next to us “get your hand out of there.” Then she kept coming into our booth to peek through the gap in the partition to check on them discreetly lol. I had fun regardless but that sure was distracting lol.

Ive been to most of the events. The monthly Adonis nude party is comparatively expensive and with often more pushy dancers and less variety of guys. I like the loft they use though. The weekly Adonis events are ok but again often with less variety and more pushy dancers. Could be worth checking out but i prefer Spunk and Buffdaddys.

Yeah there are generally a lot of dancers downstairs as well as a lot of people just drinking and dancing. Private dances are $5 a minute/$20 minimum. There is a tablet you can see how much you are spending. You can tip dancers as they perform on stage or as they walk around interacting with customers. There is some diversity so you’ll likely find someone you like.

Nope no sexual activity is allowed and they have someone constantly checking. It’s still a fun time though.

I havent been able to go as much lately due to my work schedule changing but you can hand them a tip or put it in their socks, shoes, or underwear if they have those on. I usually like to give at least $5 for tips but i still see lots of people do $1 but that seems a bit low to me. As for private dances that can be up to the dancer but id say $5 a min or $20 a song seems to be the standard and minimum id aim for though i spend more with my favorite. Just discuss prior and pay attention to how much time. It is hard to keep track of songs sometimes so i usually just set a timer on my phone and tip based on time.

Tip well on top of the coast of a dance. Be polite and respectful of boundaries. Ask what the dancer is comfortable with you touching and dont just grab. Different dancers are have different comfort levels. As for you set a budget you are ok with losing/spending and just have a great time. Dont spend more than you can afford.

Has anyone ever been here? Tomorrow they are advertising exotic dancers 10p-2a and private lap dances available. I will probably check it out and see how it compares to the places in new york.

Has anyone gone to Pieces for the Spunk event? What is the lap dance set up like at Pieces? Is it semi private booths away from everyone like the Monster or more of a shared space like adonis fairytail or nowhere bar? Ive been to the Monster a few times and enjoy it so was wondering how it compared.

Im traveling to nyc this weekend with a coworkerand was wondering if there was anywhere to see strippers or get dances in the manhattan area this Saturday evening.