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I usually get the email sometime Friday evening. I haven’t gone for several months though.

Other than the drag queen constantly checking every minute or so lol but otherwise i agree

There are usually 20+ anymore.

I have a lot more fun at Monster as it’s a great bar even without the lap dances. Id probably save the $100 or use it on Friday at BD. If you haven’t been to the Adonis nude party id say maybe go just to see it but anymore i prefer to spend the money id be using to go on my favorite at BD and Spunk. Youll see some of the same dancers at all 3 though I do like the location. However there is no privacy at all in the lap dance area unless you spend another $150 for a private room and thats only for 20 minutes. That’s already $250 that can be better spent elsewhere.

I have done both on the same night multiple times heading to Monster around midnight. I dont really go to the Adonis parties much anymore though. Too expensive and Buffdaddys is a better alternative for nudity. Spunk events are better than weeknight Adonis for non nude lap dances.

Yeah I like the venues but Adonis is just not worth the money anymore. Buffdaddys is much better

Sometimes they work Buffdaddys early then go to Adonis later. But I would just recommend BD or Prince’s playhouse at this point for a better experience.

Sun Feb 15: 8p-2a Wed Feb 18: 8p-2a (Prince’s Playhouse) Fri Feb 20: 5p-10p Wed Feb 25: 9p-3a Fri Feb 27: 5p-10p

Ive never asked but i have had dancers ask me after ive done lap dances. I have only accepted one offer recently after I knew the dancer for a long time and have since asked him a few times. It wasnt something i really thought about doing prior.

Im not seeing anything wrong with the weather. It will be cold yes but thats all i see.

Haha. Im happy with the Wednesdays as well. Im not from NY and Wednesdays work much better for me than Fridays and Tuesdays because of work.

Sometimes it is because there are other parties booked later on as well. I guess don’t mind either way though I temd to stay out late when I visit NYC.

Exactly. The nude party is almost as expensive for the dancers as well. BD and Prince and Spunk feel far more relaxed and enjoyable for everyone.

I went for a bit. Next one is Wednesday February 11th i think. I think BD has something this coming Wednesday as well. Ill be at both. Nothing yesterday but Adonis used to be at Red Eye Wednesdays. Adonis is very inconsistent with their schedule anymore and they dont even try so I dont even waste my time. Dont even care to go to their nude parties now as the prices are unreasonable for both customers and dancers. BD and Prince are making Adonis irrelevant with much better events anyway.

Yeah its a great event and its low stress. Theyve made a lot of improvements since it started too. The chairs are much better and the privacy dividers are set up better.

Oh ok i see. The pushiest dancers at Adonis and Nowhere bar i generally do not see at Spunk and BD so that is now the biggest difference other than nudity and BD and Prince are easily visible and available if needed. The vibe at BD used to be more relaxed and laid back when they had parties in the loft and the playlist was generally older songs and it was quiter. Now it feels more like a regular bar/club with louder more modern music so the differences are less noticeable. Monster is a great venue i agree and always a great time.

Yeah im not trying to argue or anything. Im just wondering what exactly you’re expectations were going in as in what did you think was going to be different for example? I admittedly preferred when BD had his parties in the loft but i still prefer the experience overall at BD compared to Adonis. I think Spunk has better venues currently.

Its an $80 difference just to get in and if you want privacy that is another $150 for a private room for 20 minutes or you are in a large room with multiple people . If you mean the weekly Adonis events (of which I havent seen any consistently for a while) then yeah kinda similar but the dancers are nude at BD and the lap dance areas are better separated. Last few times Ive done Adonis the lap dance area was shared at Red Eye and Side Door. Some of dancers are far more aggressive with customers as well at Adonis because of less oversight. Ive seen drunk/high customers get taken advantage of more than once at Adonis. Go to each and observe and you'll immediately see a difference with some of the dancers and know who to avoid. Even the dancers Ive talked to would rather work at BD as its a better event to work at. Sorry you didn’t have a better experience. There is a lot of crossover at the events because local dancers need to work multiple days a week like in any other job.

Well to be fair it is much less expensive than the Adonis nude party, the dancers are far less pushy, and you aren't sharing a lap dance space with other customers. Its all around a much better experience and Prince and BD are present if you have any issues. The entire vibe is more relaxed overall though i do admittedly miss the parties in the loft. What exactly were you expecting though out of curiosity?

I wasnt there last night but generally there is at least some crossover at Spunk, Adonis, BD, nowhere etc but I usually see at least some new faces at Spunk and BD. I never had any trouble getting anyone to pay attention to me (when i wanted at least) and there are generally multiple dancers without customers at any given time in my experience. I do have my favorite that I will normally see but I certainly don't take up all his time. Maybe an hour or so out of a given night and thats not always all at once. A dancer is understandably going to pay more attention to a customer they know is going to tip them well so maybe try tipping something upfront next time if you weren’t already doing that. Other than that maybe try approaching them first if you weren't already though haven’t felt the need to do that for the most part.

Some Wednesdays yes. I dont know of the future dates yet. I go to NYC relatively frequently and plan on going if he they land on wednesdays im there .

The Sunday events are more or less a similar vibe sometimes with more music from the 70s/80s depending on the night. But expect a similar vibe overall. Spunk and BD events are nice because there are less pushy dancers. Adonis and nowhere bar on Mondays can be a lot worse.

Ive been there dozens of times. I agree they have the best variety and least amount of pushy dancers overall. And Monster bar is always a good time. Spunk is probably my favorite of the events in NYC.

Hahaha. Last Saturday when I was there getting a dance the drag queen yelled at the people in the booth next to us “get your hand out of there.” Then she kept coming into our booth to peek through the gap in the partition to check on them discreetly lol. I had fun regardless but that sure was distracting lol.

Ive been to most of the events. The monthly Adonis nude party is comparatively expensive and with often more pushy dancers and less variety of guys. I like the loft they use though. The weekly Adonis events are ok but again often with less variety and more pushy dancers. Could be worth checking out but i prefer Spunk and Buffdaddys.