ChurkDobe

Thank you for your suggestion. I originally planned to invite him out for dinner, drink some beer, and then go to the hotel. I won't make advance or one-time payments for overnight payments. Due to your suggestion, I will change hotels every day and I will not inform him of his accommodation in advance. Thank you again.

Thank you for your suggestion. I will be more careful. The man I wanted to meet replied to me, maybe because I contacted too early and talked too much. He thought I was a scammer and ignored me. We have confirmed through video that it is him. It's just a bit strange, he looks younger in the video than in the photo, but it's really him.

It is not easy to explain. The reasons why I have been refusing to engage in sexual activity with others before are complex, mixed with many things such as fear, idealism, and a sense of responsibility. But these cannot restrain my desires, I am just an ordinary person. I'm almost 30 years old, but I still haven't been able to meet the guy who caught my eye and tried to date. I feel like I need an outlet, and when I found the website Rent.men, it really allows me to spend money and freely choose the person I think is great, and satisfy my sexual fantasies. I don't fully agree with the statement I see that providers are cleaner than those that can be booked on the dating app because they need to run their own brand. So, in terms of safety and health issues, I have made sufficient preparations. I want to try it, not a toy, but a real cute man, just like Eve yearned for the forbidden fruit. I don't think this will be the only one-time experience in my life. Who knows what will happen in future, but my plan is to continue waiting alone after this date.

But Rentmen are charging them high monthly membership fees, aren't they? And if the real person doesn't match the photo, can the meeting continue? In my opinion, the cost of counterfeiting is a bit high😕

Hi, I am a new here. I'm almost 30 years old, but I don't have any sex experience with anyone yet. I am not ugly, I had many boys and girls suitors before. However, due to safety concerns, fear of illness, and previous thoughts of considering future partners, I don't want had a sex with anyone else. I prefer to use toys, but they are not real after all. Soon I will no longer be young. I want to give myself a chance to indulge before getting old, and I am well aware that this indulgence will only happen once, becoming a secret in my heart, and I will continue to live like a monk. Therefore, I want to ensure a safe and enjoyable date that lasts for several nights. When I was planning to travel to Istanbul next month, I saw a man on Renmen and he didn't receive any feedback from customers. But I still contacted him through WhatsApp, even a month in advance We have determined the cost of the overnight stay. He took the initiative to send me a few photos, and based on the phone case he used for his selfie, it should be photos from different periods. But I really like his looks, and I even prepared an expensive gift for this meeting. When I asked him about his health issues and asked if he was willing to undergo a rapid strip STD test before sexual activity, he just reassured me that he was very healthy. I have prepared condoms and some preventive drugs for diseases, so this shouldn't be a big problem. (I'm not sure how many people are willing to undergo testing, whether it's an offensive behavior. But in my country, as far as I know, many strangers undergo mutual testing before having a relationship, which in my opinion is a guarantee and respect for both parties' health.) But when I asked if it was possible to make a video call to confirm that he was the same person as the photo, he no longer replied to me, even if I asked him again a few days later, he still ignored me. Does this mean that his photo is fake? English is not my native language, his English is even worse than mine, and I am also considering whether it is a communication issue. But I have tried my best to express my doubts and thoughts politely and friendly. Is it common for rentmen to use fake photos? Should those boys be required to have video meetings and paper tests? I won't find a man like him in rentmen again. 😔But I am considering canceling this meeting. For me, receiving a message but not responding for a long time is an extremely bad behavior.