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Well I'm sold. Wondering about his oral skills...

I've since reached out. Good communication. Personable. Cute. I'll report back...

Yet they list an "Oral" tag... 🤔

There's one in Cleveland, right?

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I've made contact! Nice guy,. Responsive. I'll report back...

If so, I hope it was very very recent.

Anything recent? How do you reach him? No phone for him on RM and messenger just hangs...

Anal not my thing, but yes all day to Coltonn. Will be seeing him regularly...

I feel like this has to have been covered already, but I'm not finding anything. Is it typical to discuss all aspects of an appointment via text message? I don't want to put the provider or myself in any compromising position. But today, a provider asked what I was wanting in a text message after giving me rates. I just don't like that texts hang around forever. Thanks.

Now Atlanta. Then Florida. He's a Where's Waldo kinda dude lol...

In NYC now? Any new intel?

Typed his name into the search box there three times and nothing comes up…

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Last online four months ago, Still active?

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Guessing you never took the plunge? Anyone?

Ditto that.

Anything new?

I have so much to learn lol

Am I the only one here who's never heard of any of this? I'm turned on by a lot of things, but suffocation isn't high on the list.

Idk man. It’s a people business. Anyone who’s put off by conversation won’t last long so ii doubt that’s it. Unless you just rambled on incessantly. But to others’ point, probably not worth obsessing over. Move on.

This is all good sound advice that directly addresses my concerns. Plus a few tidbits that I probably needed a reminder of. I'm happy I asked. Thank you all for weighing in.

I'm posting because I've been searching...

So I'm new to this game, and I joined the site to educate myself (and it's been great). There's a provider I want to reach out to, Maybe I'm officially overinformed now, or just overthinking it, but I've got a case of cold feet. I see advice here saying I should lay out all details (payment, logistics, services, etc.) with the provider in advance, so there are no misunderstandings during the meet up. Then I see advice saying that talking rate or desires too soon sends the wrong message. I also see a lot of "I reached out to so and so and he blocked me instantly." I mean I wouldn't be so bold (stupid) as to open with "Hey what do you charge?" or "Hi! Do you swallow?" But I also don't want to waste anyone's time exchanging pleasantries till it feels like the right time to discuss gritty details. I actually feel like a good provider will help lead the conversation, but I don't have that expectation either, so I want to be prepared. Do you all have a standard opening greeting when making contact with a provider for the first time?