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So, I have a question. I have had a couple of providers that I enjoyed. When I go to the cities they were in there is no longer a profile. When I search All Locations using their profile name or hashtag I get 0 profiles. But if I enter RM/their name the profiles come up but say they are expired. However, they continue to get visitors to their profiles. This happens whether I am logged into my account or not. Do a lot of guys search for a provider entering RM/name for the URL or have they set up some kind of setting that shows me their profile expired when it hasn't? Just curious

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I am 65 and have really never had a problem hooking up with younger guys, like in their 20's. Of course hiring a younger provider is the easiest way to have fun with someone younger. That said, I have been seeing a guy for the past couple of months who turned 24 a couple of weeks ago. On our second or third date he asked how old I was and I told him the truth, even though I hesitated. He's at that age when he thinks guys my age, who are decent looking and take care of themselves, are in their late 40's. In another 10-12 years he will think someone in their mid-60's, no matter how good they look, are in their mid 70's. 😄 Anyway, I doubt it will be anything long term but we both seem to enjoy each other's company at present, so I am just going with the flow.

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Good for you! I was in a blackmail situation about 14 years ago. I paid him a small amount twice then blocked him and he left me alone. My situation was different in that I was on probation at that time and he threatened to go to the authorities and expose me. But if scared the living hell out of me! Very good advice given by the gracious men here.

He has some great content on OF with Damien Grey (one of my absolute favorites) and Boy Bangers

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Yes I am working with one. Things are much calmer for me now anyway. I am coming to grips with all of this and I am stepping through the tunnel to the light that is there. Thanks to all :-)

Just to pop in a new tidbit. Provider has moved in with a friend because "things got complicated" with the couple. I'm like No Shit! He said the one half of the couple he fell in love with and said loved him tells him everyday how miserable he is in his marriage and without said provider in his life. My only reply was that this guy is having his cake an eating it too. Has a partner of 20 years, married for 10, and at this point things a dull but he keeps talking to and having sex with you. Nice set up if you can get it. My emotions over this are kind of strange. In a way I am glad it seems to be falling apart for him. But I also hurt a little for him bc he is a very kind, trusting, cute, hung, unpretentious and passionate who uprooted himself to move in with them. At one time I thought if it fell apart and he returned I'd be happy. But now, tbh, the sexual desire to be with him has waned.

Yes he was just here over the weekend. Very pleasant company. Had to shuffle schedule around due to unforeseen circumstances on my part. We spent all day together yesterday and was a lot of fun. He's friendly, cute, polite, engages in conversation, very comfortable to be around. No like most guys I have met/hired who are his age. I highly recommend

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They both have side boys so who knows how they feel about each other after 20 years. At 40 & 43 some start to wonder if the relationship is what they want for the rest of their lives. I know. I broke up with my partner of 18 years at 41 only because I could not handle all of his baggage any longer

Yes. I was told by the provider who left that the one he prefers told him he would divorce his husband and marry him so he could stay in the US. After 20 years together and in their 40's perhaps they have tired of each other. But perhaps he doesn't know his husband is thinking this. Although I do find it strange that the one the provider is really hot for came to our city and spent a month with him before they went back to HI

I have not been dating. In my last relationship I told him and myself if it didn't work out I was not going to try again. It's not worth it. He died in December 2009 and I have been single ever since. Over the past 14 years I have been on a few dates with men my age, a few older and a few younger. I never felt any physical spark with any of them, even after dating a few several times to see if it would ignite. No luck I'd like someone with many of the same life experiences as me. And if there is a great emotional and intellectual connection but not physical on either party I would be fine with him finding sex outside of our partnership. He would have to feel the same way. If we really clicked sex outside would be just that. I would not look for a replacement for him. When I have clicked with a couple of guys on a more mental level and they seemed to click with me. With no sex between us they were quite hurt when they asked how I felt if they found physical satisfaction elsewhere and I said it would be fine. At 65 all I can do is be honest. That's why I have said that I would have honestly liked the one who left to have honestly set me straight about our arrangement when he knew I was blurring the lines. I think all of this would have been easier on me. Thanks guys. I feel like I have monopolized this subject. I apologize. I will try to start keeping a lower profile

Haha. No I actually am not. My only offer for help is because he is just learning English and has never had to register a car in this state. He does have friends who can help and are bilingual. That has been the direction in which I am steering him.

Thanks. I am really glad to see others have been in the same situation. I have seen a new provider who I really like in the sense that he is cute and nice to be around. We spend time together out of the bedroom too. The refrain in my head is virtually a constant "He's doing this for the money. Not that he doesn't enjoy your company. This is a business transaction. Just like paying for that wonderful Indian food you enjoyed the other night" 😀 This new one is trying to buy a car. After our last time together he told me he thought he had enough $, hence no login to RM by him for a week nor response to my text yesterday offering to help him navigate getting it registered. And I am, surprisingly, fine with it.

Well, I would say that flying the provider I fell for from the mainland to HI a few times, then one of the couple coming here to be with said provider for a month staying in a hotel, providing shelter, food, clothing, island hopping, catamaran cruise, etc, etc is a pretty hefty admission fee they are paying. But the provider is an extremely sexual being and likes to get as much sex as he can so it's probably working out well for everyone. Before he left he said that he thought this would be his new life from now on. Just wondering if it will last. .......and if he keeps in touch with me for support if it falls apart.

The couple that the provider I fell for left to be with met the same way 20 years ago. One was the escort and one was the client, which is interesting because there is only 3 years difference in their ages. Escort was 20 and client was 23 at the time. They've been together 20 years, married for 10.

This is an interesting question for me. I know a provider who has been at it for quite a few years. He is 33 now. He overstayed a visa several years back and is residing here illegally. Previous client couple together 20 years, married for 10 and only 7 & 10 years his senior, have invited him in to be the third in their lives. One used to be an escort and has never been gainfully employed but the other has a well paying job. So my provider will either be the third wheel on a bicycle for the rest of his life (or until he loses the twink look and is kicked out), or could be in the same residency status as he is now and have no prospect for doing anything after the demand for him is no longer

I am so sorry you're hurting. Some on here don't have patience for when something like this happens to one of us because we lost sight of what the arrangement is at it's core, work they get paid for and nothing else, and crossed boundaries when we knew better. This was the only time it has happened to me. I have only been on here a couple of weeks but this forum has helped me move on. I saw other providers of course even when he was around but to me he was special. The guys here have help drive home the point I already knew: it's merchandise that I am paying for, nothing else. It has helped me keep perspective and also helped me look at his HI arrangement. Would he be there without them paying him? Doubtful. My assumption has been that they are paying expenses so they can have sex whenever they want. He pretty much confirmed that. But they may also actually be paying him for his time too with actual currency. I know nothing about that part of the arrangement. The forum has opened my eyes to that prospect of their arrangement and has helped tremendously. You will get through this. It gets better. Practice keeping first and foremost in your mind what the arrangement is for both of you and it will be easier.

Yes I have had sex with him without paying. The point I was clumsily trying to make was that I have always assumed discretion was part of the arrangement between escort & client. That's what the majority of escorts promise. I am just puzzled why he shares so much with me about his life with them when he has never shared about other clients, and why he doesn't say yes or no to my question if they know we are still in touch. You are right about moving on. People come and go in our lives. Why should it really matter to me what an escort/prost***te does?

If you've flown people in before please give me some pointers. I have been hiring since I was in my late 20's but am flying a provider in for the first time in a few weeks. We texted several times before speaking on the phone. I liked what I heard and I've enjoyed staying in touch until he arrives. What if I discover within a few hours I've made a big mistake? Or what should I be on the lookout for? He travels around like many RM providers but says he usually shows he will be in a particular city on certain dates. If he gets good reaction and appointments he rents and air bnb. He's very young, so I am not sure if this is the first time he has had someone bring him to them.

Not yet. He will be in my city soon. We already have an appointment. I will let you know.