Good to see that other people are finding success on this site. It has been pretty much a bust for me in the Boston area. I joined after my previous SB (bisexual, unbelievably drop-dead gorgeous from head to foot and everything in-between), after a wonderful 2-year relationship, was convinced by his therapist that if he really plans to marry a woman, he ought to stop cultivating relationships that don't support his going in that direction. Unfortunately, I was very vulnerable at the time we met, and allowed myself to fall DEEPLY, deeply in love with this sweet, smart, charming adonis. Better to have loved and lost than never to have loved, I suppose ... but I am now in a dizzying tailspin. In despair at this loss, I joined seeking, and have been not at all impressed. The best-looking guys seem to be charlatans, scammers, or guys who think they can get 4 figures monthly by doing private videos. Ah well, such is the SD life ...