I don’t believe people are defined by their counterparts, and deserve benefit of the doubt regardless if the experience was good or bad. People can be polar opposites even by association.
I booked both of them separately in different locations. I took the time to know details of Thompson and TrueLMT on a personal level during my session. Which is why I knew they established a relationship and saw TrueLmT’s dog during my visit. At one point they offered 4hands, but nevertheless they have an established history.
I will say, during my visit with you in Chicago, I had a singular bad experience that I had wish was better. That is not to say that the quality of service you provide in general wasn’t good. It was quite memorable for me to even post in an open forum. I just had wish there wasn’t dog fur on my clothes after our session at that time and maybe now it definitely sounds like your dog no longer sheds anymore or switched diets. You have my benefit of doubt.
I also wish I wasn’t standing the entire time, while I was being serviced. I did not communicate ahead of time if the service would be on the bed or massage table. I had made a fair assumption that all services provided on rentmasseur and rentmen would be performed on a comfortable surface. It should’ve been a given expectation but it was my mistake for assuming that. I will take accountability for not asking ahead of time if our session would be conducted comfortably on a bed or massage table, and if there were different rates for that. It was a bit harsh to conduct the session standing up on the cold hardwood brown floors in your apartment. Even when I had asked if we could migrate to your bed or a massage table, you said no. You keep your bed separate from business, which I respect, but you could’ve at least thrown some cushion, pillows, or even towels on the floor, and I’d be a happy camper. I had already made the effort to travel to your apartment, and maybe you just had a bad day or something. You’re a strong guy, after reading your interests, I understand now that I’m definitely not your type which may allude to your treatment of this interaction in particular as I represent another paycheck (which is totally okay!) I was afraid to leave just based on survival instincts and how the interaction went. There’s always an element of uncertainty, and fear for safety when walking in any unknown territory in my opinion. So of course, my guard is always up, and that is what I assessed at that time. You probably are a very nice gentleman who’s harmless to flies, but am I going to background check this? No way. You are a clearly college educated, and care for your clients to even address these trivial comments. And you are on your way to upskilling your life and getting higher education in PHD. Mad respect. It’s just with out of all my experiences so far, you were the only one that did that to me, and made me stand up the entire time. I hope you take this as constructive feedback and not personally. After hearing your response, I feel for you.
I would not mind getting a do-over session with you, as I genuinely believe this one experience does not define you in particular. I agree with kindness going along way and energy reciprocating. I can’t speak for the others but accountability is definitely fleeting.
If you’re open to it, I’d be happy to meet with you once again, if you’re ever in my city or vice versa. Maybe then, you’ll have a chance to quell my fear for safety for just you alone. I spent way too much time transferring my thoughts here but I genuinely hope for your continued success and improvement.