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When I met a masseur (I had my eye on for a long time) for the first time last year, I asked up front what 'mutual touch' meant during the session (I was a little intimidated by his incredible body). He responded , 'MT means you can touch, feel, lick, kiss or suck any part of my body below my neck'.  WOW! Once I got on the table and saw this incredible body a few feet away from me, I asked again to be sure - and he told me again...and encouraged it  I appreciated how he handled it and I had a great time (the second time we met I was more comfortable with him and knew what he liked).
A few weeks ago, I went to a new masseur (early 40s)  for a sensual massage, who (via text) kept reminding me he allowed 'mutual touch' but nothing sexual, as he's strictly professional. Once I got there, he told me again: he doesn't offer erotic, just sensual with mutual touch with my hands (no mouth, don't try to do oral on him).  I asked if we would both be naked, and he said no - he wears gym shorts (which he did).  He also said he doesn't get aroused, so expect no erections - he's 'immune' to other naked men as he works on so many. Fair enough, I knew the rules. Let's get started...
About fifteen minutes into the session, he's in front of my head and has a complete erection in his shorts...so I started rubbing it through his shorts, and he told me to take his shorts off for him.  So much for non-sexual / non-erotic / strictly professional. We had a great time. (He did tell me he rarely let that happen with a client - said he was very attracted to me, which made my day - I don't hear that often enough at 61).

A traveling escort has been advertising in my city since mid-May. His travel schedule was Washington, DC all of last week, then Boston MA for this past week (Memorial Day - June 1) then my city from June 2 - 6. Then back to his hometown (I think in NYC). I had my eye on him as he checked all the boxes. I inquired about him here, but no responses. One nice member was kind enough and  PM'd me to let me know what a great guy he was and highly recommended (and I appreciate the PM, as I trust this member). So I put him on my 'yes list' for this upcoming week.
I did check his ad each day this week to see if there were any changes - perhaps he was cutting Boston short and coming to Providence early, but no - the schedule stayed the same. He did post new photos and he looked sexier than ever. 
So this afternoon I text him (his last day in Boston) and send him a nice message - I see you're coming to Providence this week, and I'm interested in booking an appointment tomorrow night. What is the rate for an hour ?  Where will you be staying ? (I also let him know if he needs hotel suggestions, I can provide hotels near the highway to make it easy for clients, and with plenty of free parking). 
He responds politely - thanks for reaching out, yes, tomorrow night will work for him, he's $359 for an hour, check the list he attached for what he offers, and a separate message thanking me to help him with hotels, because he's never been to Providence before, as this is his first time.  It would be a big help if I can send him the recommendations tomorrow morning, so he can book something before leaving Boston. 
I respond, yes I will - and politely remind him he didn't send the 'list' he mentioned in his response. 
A few minutes later he responds that he's not coming to Providence, he was here all this past week, and he just arrived in Boston. HUH ? But he comes to Providence all the time (No, he doesn't) so we can meet next time. HUH ?
I let him know he wasn't advertising in Providence all this past week - so he must've had no clients. He was advertising he was in Boston. I let him know his ad is still up for Providence, and it says he'll be here tomorrow. I also reminded him he first said he's never been in this city before, then he's telling me he travels here all the time. I let him know it's a confusing way to do business. 
He responds about thirty minutes later - 'Sorry, my bad. Change of plans! See you next time. '  About two hours later he changes the travel schedule on his ad - now saying he'll be going somewhere else this week.
I've written him off for the future - I can't deal with idiots. I work too hard for my $359 (what a strange price) and rather give it to someone who's willing to earn it. Still, I'm wondering if someone else is traveling with him, and they were the one who grabbed his phone and responded the first time around ?  Something weird going on there - I believe I dodged a bullet. 

Not sure if this has been posted before but posting it just in case. 
 
https://www.gaydudesfucking.com/videos/43143/gr-gayroom-the-bearded-clien2/
 

Ok guys, I took one for the team. I met with him earlier this week. Nice enough guy, but probably won't repeat.
 
It was easy texting and setting up the appointment with him. He asked me to let him know when I was about 30 minutes away from his location, which I did. When I reached the hotel (on time) he asked me to wait a few minutes in the lobby as he was 'getting into the shower'. Hmmm - I made the appointment 24 hours prior, and let him know when I was 30 minutes away - he didn't have time to shower until I showed up in the parking lot ? He could've made it really sexy by inviting me up and letting me 'watch him shower' or join him if I opted to do either. (I would've given him a nice tip for that).
It gets better - he texts me his room # five minutes later, so I go up to his floor and find his room. I knock on the door (it had the 'do not disturb' sign hanging on it) and some handsome, tall, blond guy answers - wrapped in a towel, the door slightly open. I ask for 'Shawn' and I'm told I have the wrong room (I would've taken this guy in a heartbeat'). I'm confused because I'm reading my text he sent me, and I'm asking the guy if I got the right room #. and he looked a little scared and said, 'You got the wrong room'.  In the meantime, I hear someone in the distance yelling, "Hey - over here ! I'm in here! " and I'm thinking 'Sensualista' is being held against his will in this guy's room. It was a very confusing few minutes. I look over my shoulder, directly across the hall, and there's Sensualista, also with the door ajar and wrapped in a towel. I look back and forth and see these two incredibly sexy guys looking at each other nude, wrapped in towels. I thought I walked onto the set of a gay movie and I was going to have a trio. No such luck. I apologized to the blond guy (who was still in his doorway watching us) and follow 'Shawn' into his room, where we did have a laugh and he apologized for the mix-up. He's a very cute guy, nice body (though his arms at as muscular as they appear to be in the photos, nor his chest) and pleasant personality. 
Don't know if I can go into detail here, so I will skip the details for now (if I'm told I can post details about the experience I will). Overall just an average massage, but the eroticism was great. Maybe next time I might book him for a 'full service' appointment, but I will probably pass on another massage.

Try “Sarum” by Edward Rutherfurd. It’s a cleverly constructed (and long) novel that covers many centuries in the real place of Sarum, England.  Rutherfurd makes it interesting by weaving characters from early in his novels into later parts through their descendants. Kind of like what Follett did from novel to novel in the Pillars of the Earth series.  Rutherfurd has written a number of novels about different cities using the same device. “Russka” is also very good.  Though fictional, all of his books give you a goodd sense of the place and its history.

He has been on my list of people to try...

I booked him Sunday Evening. 
He was great. 

Just an fyi…this is the guy who tried to extort money from me.  Starting texting me pictures of contact info he found online for people I work with, threatened to show up at my workplace, etc.  it only stopped after I called and had a meeting with the LGBTQ liason in the county police department.  I don’t know what happened after I met with the police officer, but that’s when it stopped. 

VIDEO CLIP - THE YOUNG MAN BEING DISCIPLINED CANNOT KEEP QUIET:
https://va.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_raiaimkvtK1zunigy.mp4
 

5” & under

Anyone else into them?

I saw him a few times when he used to be in my area for business, before the pandemic. (Since then he's not coming up to RI that much). He was very polite, and interesting to talk to. 
I don't know anything about his massage skills, as he would always offer an 'escort' experience at no extra charge, and I would take him up on his offer (he was very affordable - not sure how much he charges now). His anatomical parts are on the smaller side, yet he does know how to please a guy with what he has.
Anyway, he was okay - quite honestly, a little too 'feminine' for my liking. I do advise you to Facetime him the day of the appointment - he changes his appearance (especially hair color) quite frequently.

He looks so vulnerable.

I've had some good luck.    I love the verify feature, makes it easier to weed out who is on it and all talk and who actually meet guys (if someone has been on the site for five years and says they are an expert with zero verifications that is usually a good warning sign).    
 
I'd also recomend some of the events.   I went to hot seat this last weekend and had a lot of fun and there were a few younger guys that enjoyed spanking or being spanked by older guys.   Colby Jensen was there this year (didn't see him play with anyone) and Dravon Navarro has been to a couple of them and I was able to get spanked by him and a friend spanked him for free   Dakota Brittan who has done some spanking porn is one of the organizers   

VIDEO CLIP:
https://va.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_r1r29mPedR1s8l0wd_720.mp4