I’ll often ask questions about their clients, but more so for curiosity from their POV - like “are most clients nice, what was one of your worst, have u ever traveled anywhere with them, what’s one of the more interesting places you’ve been, etc.” I don’t mind them talking about whatever, I’m just genuinely curious. And honestly i think it kinda keeps the relationship transactional, which creates a natural boundary. I’ll ask about their boyfriend or who they’re dating, and they share stories too that feel relatable. I find it interesting just to learn about other people and their day-to-day drama or relationship woes. I don’t mind it at all.