On two separate occasions, separated by almost a year, Shane has totally blown me off. Both times, we had interacted extensively via text, and I was really looking forward to it. First time, he just stopped responding before we had made a specific plan. Months later, I restarted thinking it was just a circumstances issue the first time. Second time, I drove all the way to Orange County from San Diego (he had given me a nearby intersection and was to text me the address when I was nearby. Bad sign in retrospect) and once again he just stopped responding. I really don’t get him at all. If you were able to connect with him, then maybe I was just unlucky. But he didn’t ever explain himself or apologize. He’s really just a d**k.