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What are you going on about? Stop. OP is asking for recommendations for older masseurs, and here you are on your soapbox spewing bullshit. You're like the vegan lady with dreadlocks meme. Stop trying so hard. Yeah older masseurs are rarer shut up about that. No one cares about your "this is reality" rant. We're here looking for something specific. Contribute.

Haven't been to Velvet Video yet but I heard good things about it. I don't like the idea of being stuck in a booth, though. Do they make you stay inside your booth? I like being able to walk around freely to cruise, and then head into a booth together for privacy once I connect with someone.

I don't have much experience with sex-on-premises venues but all I know is this, Pleasure Emporium: don't go here. It's completely dead. Also there are cameras everywhere, literally everywhere, on the ceiling, on every corner, filming your naked ass. It's really creepy, on top of being dead.

Here are my spa and cruisy park/beach experiences living in Honolulu: ~SPAS~ Island Club is the cruisiest of all the spas. Guys walk around completely naked in the mens locker. There is a sauna, steam room, hot tub, and gentlemen's lounge all within the mens locker. It is socially acceptable and normal to be completely butt ass naked, naked as the day you were born. It's a great place for nudists. It's extremely cruisy. Guys are playing all the time. It's very much like an unofficial bathhouse. Sounds perfect, right? Nothing can be this perfect, right? Right... it's $250/month plus an annual fee, plus other sign-up fees. Residents of the building get a significant discount. There are no day passes but you can request for 1 free week to test it out. Only go to Herbal Spa if you have made arrangements to meet someone there. Otherwise, you will spend your day alone there. It is completely empty all day long. The facility itself is OK. It's old but everything works. There are lots of places to play discreetly; the issue is finding people to join you in there. UFC Gym has a sauna in the mens locker. Most guys go in wearing swim trunks, some wear only a towel. It gets cruisy late at night after 10PM. Most guys who train here during the day are serious about fitness and aren't looking, so be careful not to mess with guys who aren't looking. The gym itself has a very straight alpha vibe, so there's plenty of eye candy but not much play except late at night as mentioned. The mens-only sauna in the locker is a very nice amenity that is hard to find these days. It's a nice gym, too. Not crowded. $60 a month. Open 24h. You can ask the front desk for a guest pass. YMCA Nuuanu has a sauna in the mens locker. Lots of daddies. Lots of guys go naked in there but it's not very cruisy if at all. It's a very friendly, chatty atmosphere. It's almost too wholesome. It can be a nice place if you want to be naked with other guys but there's not very much playing here. ~PARKS~ The Banyan Tree https://maps.app.goo.gl/BfYoj3mJP6dTHeZa9 and tennis courts across the street around 8PM to 10PM. You should leave the area at 10PM as that's when the Honolulu police begin to patrol this area. Kapiolani Park officially closes at 10PM every day so the police kick everyone out at that time. The Tree is also active in the early mornings while it's still dark out, around 5AM. This area is extremely active. Tons of tourists and locals congregate here for sex every night. Lots of group play. It's like an outdoor orgy. It has a very anonymous vibe because of how dark it is. ~BEACHES~ Polo Beach up in north shore is the most well-known unofficial nude beach. Only go here if you've made arrangements to meet people here, because it can be very hit or miss. It can be completely empty which can be a bummer if you took a day trip and drove 40 minutes out there only to find no action. Diamond Head Lighthouse beach is another cruisy nude beach. It's conveniently located in Waikiki. Due to its close location to touristy areas, this beach tends to always be populated at all times of the day. The nude area is directly below the lighthouse. It is naturally blocked off by cliffs on either side, making the nude area very private. There are cave-like drawbacks into the cliffs where guys can go play semi-discreetly. Everyone is completely naked at this beach. It's very cruisy. It has somewhat of an outdoor bathhouse vibe but much more chill.

He offers sensual massage and extras like MN, MT, HE. He quoted me $250 for 120 min sensual with all those extras. His MasseurFinder page advertises $190 for 120 min therapeutic massage, so that's $60 more for sensual and all those extras. He does ask for a face pic before discussing sensual options, so keep that in mind. I ended up not going with him and chose my go-to David, as David and I have mind-blowing sessions together based on our mutual connection, and David costs significantly less.

Different clientele. DL, discreet, family men are more inclined to visit video booths and spas rather than full on gay bathhouses.

Tomasz is awesome. He has gotten bigger and beefier than his pics, a muscle polar bear now. His face is extremely handsome. Piercing blue/green eyes. I booked him for a therapeutic massage. I did not discuss extras. Massage was just ok. He was naked from the start. The actual massage part lasted 10 minutes. It got sexual really quickly. He pushed his erect cock into the side of my face. I sucked him. Then he got me off the table and we moved over onto the bed where we had intercourse. Afterward, he got me back onto the table and continued the massage. And then, to my ongoing surprise, he got me onto the bed again and we had intercourse again for round two. Got back on the table once again and finished the massage with HE. Will be booking him again but not for massage.

Spot on. I would describe Christian exactly in the same way, pretty but awkward guy. He has a soft, wispy, detached kind of personality. Pictures are semi-accurate; he goes through phases with his looks (for example, he is currently totally smooth shaven and waxed chest, twinky look). He is well-trained in massage technique, textbook technique. Spa-style therapeutic massage, very little to no sensual elements at all. I think he is priced too high. David on Oahu is pretty good. Warm, charismatic, sits you down to have a chat first. He looks 10+ years older than his pics, so be prepared for that. It's almost catfish territory; I was a bit taken aback at first. The massage is just ok. He uses very light pressure, more like skin polishing than an invigorating massage. Good sensual.