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Is it rude if it's true? Just being real. Your therapeutic-only masseur is someone else's erotic + more. In the end it really doesn't matter what they list on websites. All that matters is the vibe or lack thereof. Every experience is personal.

If you're ugly AF, yes. Nobody on rentmasseur is therapeutic only.

Steel Gym is ungodly cruisy. If you don't know that, you haven't been there. "People are there to workout" No, people are here to show off their assets and check each other out on the gym floor before heading into the steam. Guys workout in their underwear, boners clearly visible, cocks popping out accidentally all the time. The wet area is built for cruising. You can literally stare at guys in the communal shower while you're sitting in the sauna directly across. The steam room is very, very dark. None of this is a coincidence. It's all built intentionally for guys to play. Steel Gym is one of those gyms where you can drop to your knees and suck cock, and if someone walks in on you, no one bats an eyelash. In fact, guys will join in on the fun. When a visitor witnesses these homosexual atrocities and reports it to the front desk, the front desk just rolls their eyes and tells them to carry on because it's just the vibe of the place. If you don't like it, leave.

What happens when your home city doesn't have a bathhouse. You get creative. 🙃

Update on Honolulu spas/beaches: Island Club has been permanently shut down due to financial issues. It may change hands and reopen at some point but no official date in sight. Polo Beach: Authorities chopped down all the vegetation AKA the bushes where people go to have sex. The beach is all exposed now to discourage sex, and it worked. It was already hit or miss before, and now it's really dead. It's still a beautiful beach to visit if you want peace and quiet and to be alone. Sand Island Beach: Same thing as Polo. They cleared all the bushes so it's an exposed beach. I don't recommend visiting here, lots of homeless. Waikiki Diamond Head Lighthouse Beach is now the unofficial outdoor bathhouse. Cramped little beach packed with naked horny tourists and locals. It's quite fun, active, and worth a visit. While parking, make sure to also pay attention to the other cars parked on the beach road. A lot of guys park there for car play. Look for cracked car doors and windows, make eye contact, if they invite you in, have fun! I've been exploring different 24 Hour Fitness gyms throughout the island: Kapolei 24H Fitness is cruisy. There is a co-ed sauna, steam room, pool and hot tub. The steam is very nice as it gets super foggy and makes outsiders unable to see into the room. Guys discreetly play in the steam room and then take it into the men's locker showers which are private stalls with fully closing doors. Ko Olina: Marriott is very, very cruisy. The steam room is located in the men's bathroom by the pool in between the fitness center and towel return center. The door is unlocked most of the time. Other times I have only had to wait a minute before someone walked in or out. It has a beautifully luxurious steam room and sauna, free towel service inside the bathroom, clean private showers, free lockers with passcode locks. This place reminds me of the old Island Club. Everyone is totally butt ass naked. Everything is so immaculate and clean. Highly recommend visiting this place if you're in the area. I'm going to draw a map for you folks to find the Marriott Ko Olina men's steam room:

He is charging erotic rates for therapeutic only. Pretty overpriced. Thank you for saving me the trouble, gentlemen.

I was with Tomasz again recently in September. He has gotten beefier than before. This time he let his chest hair grow out. Nice, soft fur. I love his pecs the most. They are just so big and meaty and now hairy. Gave me nice but brief massage again on his table (I really appreciate that he travels with a massage table). Moved over onto the bed and had intercourse. This time I elected to cuddle afterwards in the bed together instead of jumping back on the table for more massage. He is really easygoing and rolls with whatever you want to do with him. The price was $120 for the hour, a steal.

If you believe PDC is "perfectly safe", you're ignorant. Your money there also goes into the pockets of cartels. And the #1 reason not to visit PDC is as you've already stated: it's a wasteland for gay things. Avoid avoid avoid.

Yes. It's expected for that to be asked. If you don't ask, the masseur will most likely ask you "What kind of massage are you looking for?". You can either request for a therapeutic massage and then talk about sensual extras later, or you can request for a sensual massage from the beginning. Arranging a sensual massage is usually the best experience if that's what you're ultimately looking for. It allows the masseur to incorporate sensual elements throughout the entirety of the massage. In my personal experiences, sensual massages can escalate into an erotic experience very easily. Sometimes the masseur will ask for more money afterwards. Sometimes they ask for no more and include it with the sensual price. If you want sensual and possibly more, always try to arrange a sensual from the start. Don't play coy with therapeutic if that's not what you're truly looking for.

I don't recommend visiting PDC. It is owned and run by cartels. The police are paid off, the government are paid off and if you are not paid off your life and your families lives are at stake. The last time I went there, one of the ferries that go between PDC and Cozumel was rigged with explosives which were thankfully discovered by a detective before they were detonated. Disemboweled bodies and severed heads are casually left on the street next to hotels in garbage bags. Shootings occur on the beaches regularly, injuring and killing tourists in the crossfire during turf wars. I highly recommend avoiding PDC.

Tell us more about the erotic? Please don't tell me the HE = erotic.

Does Ross offer extras?

3 months ago when Ian's ad was up again, I texted him. He responded very quickly, almost instantly, with "I only take a couple clients a week and I'm sorry but this week is full". On one hand, I appreciated the prompt response. On the other hand, it felt a bit rude that he didn't offer or even attempt to schedule me for a future visit. It felt disrespectful to brush off a new potential client, like I was insignificant. And I probably am. I'm sure this provider has no trouble finding clients. Still tho.

What are you going on about? Stop. OP is asking for recommendations for older masseurs, and here you are on your soapbox spewing bullshit. You're like the vegan lady with dreadlocks meme. Stop trying so hard. Yeah older masseurs are rarer shut up about that. No one cares about your "this is reality" rant. We're here looking for something specific. Contribute.

Haven't been to Velvet Video yet but I heard good things about it. I don't like the idea of being stuck in a booth, though. Do they make you stay inside your booth? I like being able to walk around freely to cruise, and then head into a booth together for privacy once I connect with someone.