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Yea, I don't agree with that analogy.  It's gross and ageist.  

Update!
W Man Spa
Ocean Bodywork in Brooklyn
East Men Spa 
Yeah Man Spa (LES)
27 Men Spa 
Time's Square Men's Massage
Bonus suggestion was Russian Turkish Bath House, but a) I already knew about them and b) I don't find the guys who work there are as fun as they used to be pre-pandemic.  
*NEW*
Renew on 8th Ave and 48th St  
Rainbow Spa on 49th St between 8th & 9th
So now we're at 9 places.  All ya gotta do is ask, I suppose!

I think you're more confused by the notion of someone asking for recommendations. 😂  You know if someone asks for something, it doesn't mean that thing they're asking for doesn't exist, right?  They're just asking where/how they can get it?  And I wasn't suggesting that you're wrong, I'm just telling you that just because your understanding or experience of something is contrary to what I'm looking for, it doesn't mean you're right (or that I'm wrong). It just means that you don't know. 

Anyway, thanks to the *actually helpful* people who have written to me privately.
W Man Spa
Ocean Bodywork in Brooklyn
East Men Spa 
Yeah Man Spa (LES)
27 Men Spa 
Time's Square Men's Massage
Bonus suggestion was Russian Turkish Bath House, but a) I already knew about them and b) I don't find the guys who work there are as fun as they used to be pre-pandemic.  
So, there you go.  Less than 24 hours and seven suggestions.  If any other *helpful* people want to chime in or write to me, I'm happy to post any updates.
 

I think you're more confused by the notion of someone asking for recommendations. 😂  You know if someone asks for something, it doesn't mean that thing they're asking for doesn't exist, right?  They're just asking where/how they can get it?  And I wasn't suggesting that you're wrong, I'm just telling you that just because your understanding or experience of something is contrary to what I'm looking for, it doesn't mean you're right (or that I'm wrong). It just means that you don't know. 

Anyway, thanks to the *actually helpful* people who have written to me privately.
W Man Spa
Ocean Bodywork in Brooklyn
East Men Spa 
Yeah Man Spa (LES)
27 Men Spa 
Time's Square Men's Massage
Bonus suggestion was Russian Turkish Bath House, but a) I already knew about them and b) I don't find the guys who work there are as fun as they used to be pre-pandemic.  
So, there you go.  Less than 24 hours and seven suggestions.  If any other *helpful* people want to chime in or write to me, I'm happy to post any updates.
 

Sweetie, I grew up here.  New York has everything.  You just need to know where to look.  And whom to ask.  Obviously you're not one of those people who knows, so... why even say anything?  If you're not going to be helpful, best to just keep your opinions to yourself.  Also, there have already been two different guys who have messaged me personally with recommendations.  😂

But some parlors *do* offer masseuses who are older. I have had them in other cities, just not in NYC.  Which is why I'm asking *which* parlors do.  You know?  
Here's a more adequate analogy: Just because you can't find pho at most restaurants doesn't mean some restaurants don't serve it, you just have to know where to go. 
And it is ageist to compare people who are older to old food. Old food is gross, hazardous, unwanted, and actually shouldn't be served.  It's not nice to compare people to things that should be in the trash.  

Yea, I don't agree with that analogy.  It's gross and ageist.  

Hello -- this is my first time posting on here.  I've so appreciated everyone's comments and topics, so hopefully I can find some help here!
Seems like a lot of guys on here (and I'm not trying to say this in a judgmental way, its more of an observation) are really into classically "hot" guys.  Younger, smoother, more toned, boyish features, etc.  Which is great, but my experience with a lot of those guys is that they're usually a) pretty inexperienced and/or b) kind of checked out, which leads to a really, really subpar massage.  
I'm into guys of all ages, but I really like getting massages from older men.  They're more experienced, more present during the massage, and ultimately leave me feeling like I actually got work done.  I *know* getting a good massage isn't always the #1 reason people choose a masseur, but all-around, I love getting worked on by an older guy (of any race and nationality).  
I know I can find some of these guys on the obvious websites (rentmasseur, masseurfinder, rentman, etc.)., but I like going to an actual parlor.  However, it seems like most of the parlors in NYC are only staffed with young guys and never older ones.  I know this may be laughable to some of you ("Uhm, why is this guy wanting to not get touched all over by a hot young guy?!" lol), but if any of you know of any parlors in NYC that have guys 40+, that would be great.  Like I said, I'm open to any type of guy - Asian, Middle Eastern, African, White, but I do prefer them to be from a different country. 

Thanks for reading!

Yea, I don't agree with that analogy.  It's gross and ageist.  

I think you're more confused by the notion of someone asking for recommendations. 😂  You know if someone asks for something, it doesn't mean that thing they're asking for doesn't exist, right?  They're just asking where/how they can get it?  And I wasn't suggesting that you're wrong, I'm just telling you that just because your understanding or experience of something is contrary to what I'm looking for, it doesn't mean you're right (or that I'm wrong). It just means that you don't know. 

Anyway, thanks to the *actually helpful* people who have written to me privately.
W Man Spa
Ocean Bodywork in Brooklyn
East Men Spa 
Yeah Man Spa (LES)
27 Men Spa 
Time's Square Men's Massage
Bonus suggestion was Russian Turkish Bath House, but a) I already knew about them and b) I don't find the guys who work there are as fun as they used to be pre-pandemic.  
So, there you go.  Less than 24 hours and seven suggestions.  If any other *helpful* people want to chime in or write to me, I'm happy to post any updates.
 

Update!
W Man Spa
Ocean Bodywork in Brooklyn
East Men Spa 
Yeah Man Spa (LES)
27 Men Spa 
Time's Square Men's Massage
Bonus suggestion was Russian Turkish Bath House, but a) I already knew about them and b) I don't find the guys who work there are as fun as they used to be pre-pandemic.  
*NEW*
Renew on 8th Ave and 48th St  
Rainbow Spa on 49th St between 8th & 9th
So now we're at 9 places.  All ya gotta do is ask, I suppose!

Update!
W Man Spa
Ocean Bodywork in Brooklyn
East Men Spa 
Yeah Man Spa (LES)
27 Men Spa 
Time's Square Men's Massage
Bonus suggestion was Russian Turkish Bath House, but a) I already knew about them and b) I don't find the guys who work there are as fun as they used to be pre-pandemic.  
*NEW*
Renew on 8th Ave and 48th St  
Rainbow Spa on 49th St between 8th & 9th
So now we're at 9 places.  All ya gotta do is ask, I suppose!

Sweetie, I grew up here.  New York has everything.  You just need to know where to look.  And whom to ask.  Obviously you're not one of those people who knows, so... why even say anything?  If you're not going to be helpful, best to just keep your opinions to yourself.  Also, there have already been two different guys who have messaged me personally with recommendations.  😂

Yea, I don't agree with that analogy.  It's gross and ageist.  

Sweetie, I grew up here.  New York has everything.  You just need to know where to look.  And whom to ask.  Obviously you're not one of those people who knows, so... why even say anything?  If you're not going to be helpful, best to just keep your opinions to yourself.  Also, there have already been two different guys who have messaged me personally with recommendations.  😂

Yea, I don't agree with that analogy.  It's gross and ageist.  

Yea, I don't agree with that analogy.  It's gross and ageist.