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The pics don’t do him justice. He’s more than classically handsome - no exaggeration, he’s one of the most attractive men I’ve ever met. And he’s hot as hell. Furry everywhere. Very playful, and a great combination of smoldering and intense versus silly romantic. I really had fun with him over several months a few years ago. I liked him. Honestly I’d consider hiring him again, but we had a misunderstanding and he won’t communicate with me. By all means, hire him and have a great time (his kisses will bowl you over, btw).

Met him about a month ago and definitely recommend!

Yep, met him about a month ago. Really hot guy - beefy in a sexy as hell way. Had a really good time with him. And it seemed like he had a really good time too…3 times!! Sometimes works with another guy but I haven’t had a chance to meet them together yet. He travels a lot for work and that’s why he’s all over the place.

Hi all. Having read all this, I have questions about RM safety. Posted in the Questions about Hiring forum because I thought it more appropriate, but still an off-shoot from this thread.

I am starting to be really concerned about hiring from RM. Given the info shared in the long thread in The Deli about a provider who is clearly mentally ill and at least wants to appear dangerous, I’m wondering why his profile is still active and lists no negative reviews. Adding a couple of my own experiences: one in which a provider threatened me with several actions like sending dangerous people to my house and showing up at my workplace unless I gave him money, and another in which a provider stole money from me. In both cases, I submitted RM reviews and had email conversations with RM customer service in which I submitted our messaging which clearly showed I was being truthful. In both cases, my review was not published and the profiles remained active, with RM explanations that it’s not their responsibility. So no wonder most providers have all 5 star ratings, I know that aren’t legally responsible, but doesn’t seem like great service to either providers or clients if clients bail from the site because it isn’t safe. I suppose I have 3 questions for the hive mind: Is RM safe and do others also think they need to be more responsive to security issues? If I give up on RM, are there any other options? And lastly, what do y’all do to ensure your safety when hiring? Thanks, all.

Oh, he probably is laughing all the way to the bank, but at least in that case he would be wrong. I’m a REALLY good repeat client when it clicks. Of course, he’ll never know he’s wrong - but I’m going to let that take just a tiny bit of the sting from the experience. I may be a dumbass in this who threw some money away with a stupid as fuck decision - but I’m not the only one.

You’re not wrong. Stupid of me.

Dude requested Venmo or cash only, so I stupidly sent Venmo since he said he was on the way. Instantly ghosted me, blocked me on RM, and of course never showed. Okay so I’m a dumbass and out $600, but at least I’m not a damn crook. Someone else might post the link, as I’m blocked and can’t get to it. Thanks

Yep, met him last week in DC. Hunk of beef is right - he is smokin’ hot! Very personable, funny, lots of fun. Highest recommendation I can give!

I met him yesterday in DC. So, so much fun. Great kisser to start with. Definitely hoping for a round two and I’d give him a strong recommendation! If you want more details pm me.

I’m curious to know why one should be wary of that…doesn’t it show that clients had such a good time they returned? I looked at it as a good thing to see that. Also, I’ve given multiple reviews when I’ve hired multiple times. Does that look bad for a provider so I shouldn’t do it?

Hey there, I’m the original poster of this thread. I haven’t looked back on it in a while - and it’s really gone off the rails. Just to clarify, the poster who named a provider wasn’t me, and I never named the provider. What finally happened in my situation was that the provider kept contacting me from differing numbers, all of which I blocked and stopped responding to. Finally I did what some responses said was a bad idea, but I felt like I had to do something. Luckily I live in a county urban and large enough to have an LGBTQ liason on the force, so I found that officers info and emailed him. I met with him the next day in person, he was quite supportive and there was no threat of any legal action against me (I even asked him about that and he said they had more important things to do, which might not be the case in other jurisdictions). He told me to continue what I was doing in blocking any communication, which I did. He did not say he would be following up in any way, but he did tell me not to worry. I don’t know if he did anything. The communications stopped almost immediately, and I heard nothing else from the provider until several months later. He messaged me once on Telegram (I didn’t know who he was at first). He said he was sorry about all of that and said “I just had bills to pay.” I didn’t respond, just blocked it. I did not hear from him again. He does still have a RM ad, or at least did - I blocked it when I saw it more than a year ago and don’t know if it’s still there. So it all came out okay for me, and I appreciate the input I got on this site a great deal. Most of what’s been posted since the last time I looked has nothing to do with me, the provider in question, or anything factual that happened in this circumstance. I will say that I readily admit to some seriously flawed judgement in my actions. I screenshot all of our communications and I just went back and read them again. I did some stupid things and wasn’t entirely honest with this man (although we weren’t friends and I didn’t owe this person I barely knew any explanation or info about my life). And I should not have met him again, although it was his suggestion and not mine - that decision came from somewhere far south of my brain. It is clear from our communications, however, that I stated plainly that I would no longer be paying for his services, and he clearly acknowledged that. So the messages, social media postings, threats to contact or show up at my workplace, all of that was unjustified. If it makes any difference to some who were so adamant that I tried to do something underhanded and get away with not paying a provider for services after the fact, I have a great deal of respect for providers and what they do, and presuming to take advantage of some else’s person is not something I’d do. I’ve met a few bad apples, as there are in any profession, but for the most part I think the providers I’ve known have been really good guys. I think most of them have enjoyed and taken to heart the impact they can have on how a client feels, not just physically during a session but also emotionally after they’ve left. I think that’s a gift to be able to have that impact on a person you don’t really know, and I don’t for a minute assume it’s an easy thing to do and I wouldn’t try to swindle it out of someone. Not too long ago I met with a provider that I’ve met with several times. The day we met was a few days before I had the funding to pay for it (and it was his suggestion, not mine, that we could go ahead and meet and I could send along the fees a few days later). Anyway, he was to send me a text and let me know a final amount. He didn’t, and after a little while it became clear he’d completely forgotten. It was a decent amount of money, and if I’d been so inclined I could have gotten away with it and he wouldn’t have remembered. But I didn’t even consider that, and texted him saying “hey, don’t I owe you something?” He didn’t remember, but I did, so I responded that I did, and I sent it. All that is to say that after all that post a long time ago and all that has been tossed around since and the judgements that have been called out about those who’ve posted, please don’t interpret any of it as a suggestion from me, the OP, that a client doesn’t owe a provider for services. Someone else’s body isn’t mine to use at my will, and I wouldn’t suggest anything of the kind. Thanks, all, for all the input on my post.

Yeah, I’m curious too. Just saw his ad for the first time. With that many reviews and it looks like based in DC, I’m wondering why I haven’t seen his ad before now. Maybe he’s back after a long break? Anybody have anything to report?

See, this is why you look up someone on Company of Men BEFORE hiring. I had much the same experiences. Right after we he got there, he left to supposedly go to the gym (wearing jeans and heavy clothes) - I suspect he went for a quickie with someone else. After he got back, he insisted on inviting someone else, whom he was clearly more interested in and wanted to wait until they got there to do anything. He was charming and nice to talk to, incredible body which I barely got to touch, didn’t get hard, did some g and fell asleep. After 5 hours watching him sleep to make sure he was still alive, I packed my stuff and left him in MY hotel room. The next day (today) when I contacted him I got an angry response accusing me of drugging him and doing something to him in his sleep, and then asking for further payment because he “discounted” for me. I’ve had some doozies, to be sure, but nobody ever left me feeling so awful.

Spent some time with him today. He is a very nice guy to talk to, but was pretty uninterested in me. Hardly any contact at all. That was a lot of money for the pleasure of conversation.

Just an fyi…this is the guy who tried to extort money from me. Starting texting me pictures of contact info he found online for people I work with, threatened to show up at my workplace, etc. it only stopped after I called and had a meeting with the LGBTQ liason in the county police department. I don’t know what happened after I met with the police officer, but that’s when it stopped.

Something about that got screwed up. I posted that first one on June 26th. I posted the follow-up today.

I met him on Wednesday. Way fun! Cute, good kisser, and the fur is hot! Definitely versatile, and a nice guy too. He told me he’s traveling a lot over the next several months. If you get a chance, take it. I’d give him a top recommendation.

I will. Booked for next Wednesday.

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i saw him when he was in DC a few months ago and I’d definitely recommend him.

Alright, I’ll take the bait. Not booked yet, but traded some messages. Good communication for a start. I’m hoping to set something up for next week.

Something seems odd about this. Only one pic and no reviews in 4 years?

Messaged me also after I looked at his profile. I haven’t tried to set anything up yet, but thought about it.

Some overnights but not many. Usually 2-3, sometimes 4 hours. But I keep going back when I like it - that’s probably accomplishing what you’re talking about. I don’t want to be a one-and-done client, or a rushed 1 hour client either. If it’s not obvious, I want all the pieces of this pie! lol