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The pictures are impressive, if they are indeed of the guy who shows up. I find the pictures of a professional quality that is rare to see on a newbie's profile. How is it possible that someonewith a body like that would not have been known to this community? I am sceptical.

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Here is an example: NYC_jockd - Pornstar Performer, Rentboy, Gay Massage in New York City, NY | RentMen The pictures, if real, show promise. He is entirely new to the scene. There are no reviews. He is cordial enough in his communication. Incalls possible but only on weekdays, morning and early afternoon. Wants $400 for an incall. Sorry, I am not pulling the trigger on this one. Wait and see until reality sets in. I wish him well. The competition is brutal out there.

You must be picking expensive guys. I am not paying $400 or above. Period. I routinely get quoted 300 for escort rates, sometimes 350. For a sensual massage from a top-rated provider I get quoted 180-250 but if the massage is good and the playtime exceptional, I pay 300 anyway because I feel they gave me an escort-like service. I will say that I see one escort and 3 masseurs regularly. They all seem happy with their compensation. I have no problem getting repeat appointments with them.

Was that for an incall?

Truly a nice find ... Is he based in Singapore or in Manhattan? Hard to tell from the ad. I would love to meet him.

I will say that he is a very sweet guy, with a lot of personal charm. He contacts me once in a while asking to get together again. But his RM ad is frozen at the moment. Probably busy with his regulars - or just taking a break.

A simple search of 'BigboyJoey' on this website yields 35+ results, The guy has been around for a long time, I tried to schedule him in NYC few times but was not successful. He is that busy. Probably with his OnlyFans which must yield him far more $$$$ than his escort business.

When I started hiring, say around the year 2001, NYC had 200 escorts listed on Rentboy, Today, Rentmen has 870 listings. I would say that is a huge increase!

Encouraged by the comments on this forum, I did visit alex.blessings this afternoon. Blessings, Male Male Massage in New York City, NY (rentmasseur.com) A studio with breath taking views of midtown and the Hudson River from the 64th floor. From the moment he put his hands on my shoulders, I knew I came to the right place. The experience was a blend of solid massage technique, gentle stretching and true eroticism. It is rare to meet someone who truly understands the male body. Blessings DOES. I felt transported to my very first gay experiences in Thailand, 30 years ago.

I did reach out to him. Currently traveling, said he'd be back in NYC by mid-January.

You are right. It could be awkward. That is why I haven't discussed it with them. And probably won't. If they weren't friends, it could have been an amazing experience.

For NYC, I am pleased to nominate: Samgl, Erotic & Therapeutic Gay Massage in Manhattan, NY (rentmasseur.com) LuisNYC, Male Male Massage in New York City, NY (rentmasseur.com) Both have a strong physical presence and superb massage skills. They are true masters of their craft. I understand they both worked together at a well-known massage parlor in NYC a few years back, before striking out on their own. They are friends. It is tempting to organize a 4-handed massage with them but I haven't pulled the trigger yet.

Never with anyone outside this forum. I have discussed my exploits with forum members over the years, via PM. Of those, I ended up meeting 3 gentlemen 'live' for a morning coffee or a lunch. Great guys! I enjoyed meeting with them, sharing stories and recommending escorts and masseurs to each other. One of the guys was well-connected with off the grid providers. That is how I got to hire JustinHerringgg a year before he put up his escort ad. Back in the Club 20 days, I did once meet with a group of forum members. That was great fun as well, although I got pretty tipsy and spent more time getting lap dances from the strippers. I have not done the Palm Springs event yet.

Sorry to read it happened to you. It is too bad. 'Dale Parducci' is such a hot man. With a physique and an intelligence like his, he could have been one of the greatest ones. And probably make a lot more money than with his continuous scams.

That is a 20-year track record. Congratulations! I would think that it is very rare in this industry. It looks like the passage of time has had no effect on your revenues. Or not that I can see, Has there been an increase in your hourly fees, say in 2021 and 2022?

Thank you for posting this. As a New Yorker, I found this article very interesting. It is all about female and, to a lesser extent, transgender sex workers. I would have liked to hear a view on male sex workers. I have hired for 30+ years but never seen trafficked male sex workers or underage male sex workers. The pimps, I have seen as a handful of escorting agencies but they are all of out business. The dynamics of the male side of the business seem to be quite different from what is described in this article.

I could be wrong but it looks like a fake ad to me. Pictures are too perfect. With a haiku-like text. A combo I have seen on countless fake ads. I would be sceptical.

I am not immediately impressed with the pictures and the profile. Does he not know he is in NYC where clients have ample choice?

It looks like his partner Jose aka SugaringJohn on IG set up a gofundme for the funeral costs ...

Has been around for a while. Many name changes. Usually not a good sign, But the pics look hot.

I follow TheValentino on IG. The profile pics on RM are totally consistent with the IG pictures. He did quote me $400/incall in NYC. More than I would like to pay, but he intrigued me on many levels. Regrettably, he moved to Ft Lauderdale before I had a chance to pull the trigger.

He looks impressive ... if real. My understanding is that you now need to be a registered RM user to leave a review. Which leaves many clients out of contention, so to speak. And, therefore, fewer reviews.

Interesting! He has been around since 2018 but today is the first time I see his ad. Totally my type ... and seriously tempted.

I am the oldest one of five kids. My parents frequently walked around naked in the house so I knew what adults looked like. When I was 11, my dad took me aside for the 'talk'. I knew of birds and bees but had no idea what human sex was like. I remember clearly being horrified when he told me that the penis needed to enter the v*g*n*. I was told that this act was, in principle, only for the purpose of procreation. He added that, at times, it could be pleasurable. The word, he used was 'itch' I seem to recall. I then asked if it was a sin if this 'itch' were to occur - we were catholic. The response was - it is not a sin, if one prays afterwards. There was no talk about masturbation or other forms of sex. I was a late bloomer. I masturbated to ejaculation for the first time when I was 16. I masturbated every day, always looking at my own body in the mirror. In college, I attempted sex with women a few times but it was disastrous. I was intrigued about going to a gay bar to meet men but never did. When I was 24, I had my first sexual experience with a man while on vacation in Thailand. He was an escort I met at a bar. It was probably one of the most liberating and unforgettable experiences in my life.