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I appreciate that, but not all men are sexually active with multiple partners.

What is a good website for Latin America, specifically for Colombia? I am planning a trip. My straight friends tell me that there are ample very hot women available there at reasonable rates. I am hoping the same is true for male providers ...

I have been working with a new provider in NYC. He looks healthy, is athletic and offers an excellent service. During our sessions, he is adamant about safe sex only, which I value and appreciate. So far, all good. In between sessions, he likes to keep in touch with me via text. I don't know why, but he tells me how much he likes going to The Eagle in NYC on Friday and Saturday nights. In his words, the 1st floor there is a real bacchanal. Sexual acts going on between patrons all over the place, not just the rest rooms. And all unprotected sex. He says most men in the US are all on prep anyway. It sounds like a bath house, which I didn't think still exist in NYC. Home - The Eagle NYC (eagle-ny.com) One time, he had to cancel a Saturday afternoon session with me because he had been at The Eagle until 5 a,m. But overall he is reliable, courteous and professional about things. A bit too honest maybe? I am now confused how to proceed with him. Having safe sex will protect me against HIV but not against other STDs. What would be your advice?

Nice find, @dutchal You know how to pick them. In this case, I need to know more ...

I agree with that 100% I would encourage the OP to think about what he disliked about being an escort. Going forward, which 'extra' services is he comfortable offering, now as a masseur? He should communicate those clearly to his massage clients. From my perspective, as a client, I like to when a provider has both a masseur and an escort ad. It takes away having to guess and to have unclear expectations. I do not expect escort services at massage rates.

Naked, Stark naked - except for a crisp white towel barely covering his anatomy. Pumped from a visit to the gym. Glistening from a shower immediately prior to my arrival. Since we had played several times, no need between us to suggest, coax or request. The experience flowed effortlessly, ending with a perfectly poured gin n tonic served in bed.

LOL You can't possibly be serious

No I don't. $300 is ample for an escort experience. But if it is really mind-blowing I will tip more. Unusual though.

I agree with that.

No. It needs to be fully interactive play time.

If it is sensual massage and the fee is 180-200 I give tips ranging from 20 to 40. If there is any fully interactive play time involved I pay a total of 300 because it was an escort session really. I don't expect an escort experience at a massage rate. I never have a problem getting multiple repeats and nobody has complained about my tips. The above is for 60 minutes, incalls in NYC.

Ask me that in pvt please

I didn't. Asked the question about availability of private shows in a very neutral, non-lecherous way. But no response.

That is astonishing really

We are in NYfor 2weeks! Hit us up 💥 @thefookinglads Thank you 🙏 @vk_photograhy 📸 | Instagram I would absolutely never wish to get anyone into trouble but his is public information 'We are in NYC for 2 weeks now. HIt us up"

The Lads Official (@thefookinglads) • Instagram photos and videos The Lads are in NYC. Does fooking refer to fucking? They are soliciting private shows via DM. An interesting departure from the traditional rentmen ads ... I am not sure yet what it all means, but I did send that DM.

He is in Dallas, not in NYC ... Does he visit often?

TuckerNYC He has ads on rentmasseur and on rentmen There are a few threads about him on this forum.

Indeed. That was totally wrong. I did thank the massseur for being thoughtful about my feelings. Although we only met a few times, I felt he was genuine about making a connection. We are re-scheduling for next week, I would like to thank all of you on this thread for sharing your thoughts. You guys are amazing. Appreciate it very much.

I did tell the masseur that I appreciated his thoughtfulness in disclosing it before my arrival. A forum member, via personal message, mentioned to me that having the room mate hanging around might also impact the masseur. What if it causes him to hold back? What if the room mate needs something from the kitchen while we are hanging around naked, in the living room, post coitus? It is an unnecessary complication.

I live in NYC. Cost of living here is high. I understand that young people starting out in any field need to live with room mates to make it work for them. Here is what happened. I had an appointment booked with a masseur that I had a few previous appointments with - all incall, erotic massage. I did not know he had a room mate. A few hours before another scheduled appointment today, he calls me and asks whether it would bother me if the room mate would be at the apartment during my planned visit. The room mate returned earlier than expected from a business trip, The masseur clarified that the room mate has his own room and I would probably not see him. The masseur was professional about it and offered to reschedule. I was a bit concerned because we do usually fuck and hang out naked in the living room for a while when the deed is done. I did thank the masseur for his honesty up front and said that I would not be comfortable with this arrangement. We are tentatively rescheduling for next week. My question is - am I too squeamish? Am I a prude? Has anybody else been in an appointment while a room mate could be lurking in the background? I would greatly appreciate your advice.

Accurate, But those are the massage rates. If any 'play time' is involved, escort rates apply. In his case, very reasonable ones for the NYC market. Just ask him. After a 60 and a 90 minute session during the last 2 weeks, I am now booking a 120 minute session with him. We are comfortable with each other and decided to take the experience to the next level.

I find it exciting when a guy has ads both on rentmasseur and on rentmen. It shows he is willing to go all the way. The difference is in the fees you are willing to pay. I do not expect escort service at a massage rate.

You are right. Defintely more of hunk next door. Thank you @dutchal for discovering TuckerNYC and mentioning him initially on this board. I think I wll keep seeing him more often than just a few times.

I am pleased to report that I did have a session with TuckerNYC this afternoon. Finding new talent in NYC, from a client perspective, can be daunting task. Competition among providers is exceptionally intense. There are hundreds of profiles to look at. I did decide to move forward with Tucker because the pictures on his profile are exciting - the muscular but cute boy next door I could have a crush on. The carefully written description of himself - he is a professional writer. The ease of interaction with him prior to the first meeting - thoughtful, informative, patient. My appreciation to two forum members who kindly gave me their thoughts based on their meeting - I know who you are and thank you. The setting - an incall at his upperwestside apartment, I can be a bit shy meeting someone for the first time and therefore requested a combo of erotic massage, just to warm up, followed by play time. As he opened the door, I was struck by his athletic, muscular appearance. No signs of exaggeration anywhere. A warm, yet inquisitive smile, Dressed in a form fitting t-shirt and jeans. Naked, he showed perfect proportions front and back. He understood my shyness and took his time to massage me, As I relaxed, he sensed it was time to turn up the heat. And he did! While the details do not need to be revealed in a public forum, I did absolutely love being in the presence of hot and intuitive lover. I am already looking forward to our next meeting. I have no hesitation to recommend him.