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That would freak me out. Care to elaborate? I hope you are OK.

Professional in his communication. At the time we had a conversation, he was not offering incalls. Which was a deal breaker for me. Too bad!

You are right, mathematically it doesn't make sense. I can't speak for him, of course, but my impression from him is that he doesn't like longer sessions. I have been client of his since 2021 and have asked him a few times about longer sessions myself. He is just not encouraging them, Perhaps he should delete 'longer sessions available' from the text of his ad. I will say that i thoroughly enjoy his 60 minute appointments.

I was thinking the same thing. People like him give us clients a bad name. Blech!

Interesting. Lately, I have been receiving more solicitations from escorts and masseurs I hired before, with discount offers. That didn't happen before.

The escort, as he should, probably put your name and phone number on a 'Bad John' list. You will have a hard time hiring anyone who consults that list. Which is exactly what you deserve.

Seems to be a nice guy. He did send me his rate schedule. Not for the faint of heart! With a physique like his, he could very well be worth it. But the rates are above my self-imposed limits at the moment. I wish him success.

He has a nice perky ass. Firm. Good for fucking.

He quoted me 300 for the base rate - incall. I have yet to find out what that involves, and what the additional services would be.

I am delighted to read this. How do we know that? Thank you.

This is taking place in Colombia? I love Colombian OF and cam guys. HOT !!!

The pictures are impressive, if they are indeed of the guy who shows up. I find the pictures of a professional quality that is rare to see on a newbie's profile. How is it possible that someonewith a body like that would not have been known to this community? I am sceptical.

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Here is an example: NYC_jockd - Pornstar Performer, Rentboy, Gay Massage in New York City, NY | RentMen The pictures, if real, show promise. He is entirely new to the scene. There are no reviews. He is cordial enough in his communication. Incalls possible but only on weekdays, morning and early afternoon. Wants $400 for an incall. Sorry, I am not pulling the trigger on this one. Wait and see until reality sets in. I wish him well. The competition is brutal out there.

You must be picking expensive guys. I am not paying $400 or above. Period. I routinely get quoted 300 for escort rates, sometimes 350. For a sensual massage from a top-rated provider I get quoted 180-250 but if the massage is good and the playtime exceptional, I pay 300 anyway because I feel they gave me an escort-like service. I will say that I see one escort and 3 masseurs regularly. They all seem happy with their compensation. I have no problem getting repeat appointments with them.

Was that for an incall?

Truly a nice find ... Is he based in Singapore or in Manhattan? Hard to tell from the ad. I would love to meet him.

I will say that he is a very sweet guy, with a lot of personal charm. He contacts me once in a while asking to get together again. But his RM ad is frozen at the moment. Probably busy with his regulars - or just taking a break.

A simple search of 'BigboyJoey' on this website yields 35+ results, The guy has been around for a long time, I tried to schedule him in NYC few times but was not successful. He is that busy. Probably with his OnlyFans which must yield him far more $$$$ than his escort business.

When I started hiring, say around the year 2001, NYC had 200 escorts listed on Rentboy, Today, Rentmen has 870 listings. I would say that is a huge increase!

Encouraged by the comments on this forum, I did visit alex.blessings this afternoon. Blessings, Male Male Massage in New York City, NY (rentmasseur.com) A studio with breath taking views of midtown and the Hudson River from the 64th floor. From the moment he put his hands on my shoulders, I knew I came to the right place. The experience was a blend of solid massage technique, gentle stretching and true eroticism. It is rare to meet someone who truly understands the male body. Blessings DOES. I felt transported to my very first gay experiences in Thailand, 30 years ago.

I did reach out to him. Currently traveling, said he'd be back in NYC by mid-January.

You are right. It could be awkward. That is why I haven't discussed it with them. And probably won't. If they weren't friends, it could have been an amazing experience.

For NYC, I am pleased to nominate: Samgl, Erotic & Therapeutic Gay Massage in Manhattan, NY (rentmasseur.com) LuisNYC, Male Male Massage in New York City, NY (rentmasseur.com) Both have a strong physical presence and superb massage skills. They are true masters of their craft. I understand they both worked together at a well-known massage parlor in NYC a few years back, before striking out on their own. They are friends. It is tempting to organize a 4-handed massage with them but I haven't pulled the trigger yet.

Never with anyone outside this forum. I have discussed my exploits with forum members over the years, via PM. Of those, I ended up meeting 3 gentlemen 'live' for a morning coffee or a lunch. Great guys! I enjoyed meeting with them, sharing stories and recommending escorts and masseurs to each other. One of the guys was well-connected with off the grid providers. That is how I got to hire JustinHerringgg a year before he put up his escort ad. Back in the Club 20 days, I did once meet with a group of forum members. That was great fun as well, although I got pretty tipsy and spent more time getting lap dances from the strippers. I have not done the Palm Springs event yet.