JamesB

From what I can tell, three conditions must be met for rates to appear in RMen:
1.- The provider must be located outside the United States. There might be other countries but this is the only one I know of.
2.- The client must also be outside the United States or use a VPN to simulate a non-US location.
3.- The provider must complete the “rates” fields in their profile.

Extra hours usually come at a discount. For example, if the first hour is $300, two hours often go for around $500, and three hours land somewhere between $600–$700. That said, I’ve noticed some providers, especially masseurs, set rates that don’t really add up. Sometimes a 90-minute session costs more than 1.5 times their 60 minute rate. I take that as a pretty clear sign they’d rather stick to shorter sessions.

You’re definitely overthinking it but that’s totally okay. When it comes to what to wear, just choose something that makes YOU feel comfortable and in the right mindset for the experience. One tip: skip the jewelry. It often just gets in the way and isn’t worth the risk of losing it. Also, it might help to let your provider know you’re feeling a bit nervous; he'll likely be understanding and supportive.
Go enjoy yourself, you’ve got this!

Always remember that you are paying someone to play a role. While having some type of connection can enhance the experience, it’s crucial to never forget that it's a fantasy you’re paying for. Don’t worry about how much is genuine and how much is an act, just enjoy it for what it is. If you lose sight of this, you might end up paying both emotionally and financially.