I've been with my share of guys. There are *nice* guys, and there are *hot* guys, and when we're really lucky we find a guy that ticks both boxes.
The older I get, the more I find it's important to be with a nice guy. Friendly, chatty, warm, smiles a lot, considerate of you, etc. Where you've felt your time together was more than a transaction.
Who are some of the NICEST guys you've hired? I'm in the NYC area, but travel a fair amount, so I'm curious about all locations.