UKchii212 what you are looking for does not exist. I to was drop dead handsome in my 20's and 30's, so I was told. I certainly didn't have any trouble picking up who ever I wanted in a bar. Now I am 50+ I could still could pickup guys. But they are not what I am looking for. Most of the guys i picked up in my 20"s and 30's left me sexually unsatisfIed. The Sex was the way they wanted it not me. Now I hire. I have hired a lot of well reviewed guys. Most of them have left me Wanting. No I don't live in Miami or Barcelona. Where there many handsome men available to rent. So I have changed my standards. I have a regular rentboy. A well known porn star. He is not every thing I would want but he leaves me sexually satisfied and we have a lot in common. He says we are alike, why wouldn't he, I am paying the bill. I guess chii212 you are not going to find all that you want. Save your money while you are young and have it all and play the field. When you get old, rent but you won't find it all. Life is a compromise.