It does vary based on each of. Personally, I think it’s okay to say something like “what is your definition of sensual and erotic?”. For the most part is fairly obvious what clients are looking for. If I can tell they don’t know the difference, I just say, “Definitions vary and everyone has different expectations. What are your expectations? Here are my definitions:
Sensual- focus on you and your experiencing of the five senses through massage. The attention is all on you from beginning to end.
Dress code is you naked, and me in something of your choosing.
Erotic- both nude, mutual touching permitted
The main focus of an erotic massage is the massage. It’s all about the importance, excitement, and intensity of human touch. We’re both nude for the massage, and mutual touching is permitted (of course respecting the comfort levels of one another).
*Penetration is not traditionally a part of this massage style. Though it does happen on occasion. Those occasions are always based on timing, comfortability, mutual consent, discretion and trust
