The syndicate records the phone number you use to text with the massager. It is put into a database with notes about you. If you tip, if you are a danger, a dine n dasher, etc.. The massager always runs your texting number through the database before actually giving you their room number at the hotel. If your number has positive reviews or no history, they will meet you. Always use a free text app with a burner number.
Apparently they dont like it when you walk back to your car because the massager didnt match the profile pictures. Thats why my actual phone number is black listed / do not meet warnings.