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I think to each his own. I engage because I am looking for a certain type of man. It takes the frustration out of "searching and dating" I can skp across the madness and get right down to business. I don't have to play games with guys that are not who they say they are (aside from the catfish games that come with this). I have one confidant that I can share the ups and downs of it with and that works for me.

I'm next!

I'm a little late to respond but I met him.

I've known a guy for several years and have known him by the name he told me and advertises as. I've called the name out in the heat of passion on many occasions. Well with the advancement of technology, I recently paid him via CashApp instead of in cash and there was his real name. Mind you I am talking atleast 5 or more years under his pseudo name and even though I knew in my gut that wasn't his real name, I forgot about that aspect years ago. When his real name came up on the app, I showed him to confirm that I was sending money to the right person. He confirmed and then said, now you know my real name LOL. I still call him by his pseudo name during the heat of the moment cause I like that name better LMAO.

depends on the mood....occasionally underwear, nude, pajamas

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Sorry to hear this. I have chatted with him twice but we haven't connected yet. Makes me wonder.....hmmm

$400

I don't like to know that a guy has multiple appointments going on the day I am seeing him, but you can almost bet that is the case with an out of towner. For those that I do connect with on a regular basis from out of town, they know my wants and desires and usually schedule me at the end of the day to give me their best. The best is what I get. "Splash" included. I usually hear, "this is the first time I have "cum" all day and I have been looking forward to this. I believe in developing that good chemistry with my escorts so that they really want to give you their best. Makes you wonder though what someone prior to me has been getting. Were they satisfied, happy, pissed to know he may have another session afterwards?? It's a dog eat dog world we live in I guess.

After reading the full ad....I was exhausted from all the demands. When I get my strength back I will look at someone else LOL

Thought about it, but have never come to a point where it has come up with some of my close besties. I did meet a friend who lives in another state who reached out to me on RM to inquire about services of someone I rated. He offered that I could call him after my first response because he said I was being politically correct LOL. We ended up talking on the phone and we spilled all our juicy details in a long therapy session. We had nothing to lose because we didn't know each other. That was 3 years ago and we are still going strong....talk and text daily (and not just about escorts). I feel as if I know him just as well or better than some of the besties. I will say it's nice to have someone to share the ups and downs of the escort escapades with and I am so glad we met. We have yet to meet in person and sometimes forget that, but I know that we value the "friendship".

Seems to be a common theme running here but my way of thanking them is to hire them again LOL. If I really like and connect with you, I've been known to buy gifts (shoes, clothing, jewelry, car LOL....just kidding)

Twitter or OnlyFans

I've been sticking to one guy for most of the pandemic because we communicate and feel comfortable with what each other is doing during the pandemic (moving in small familiar circles and not much movement). We've both been tested and for that moment it adds another layer of comfort. I have had an encounter with another regular guy or two later in the pandemic but again there was communication and a trust that was there. During the beginning, I was staying away from everybody. There have been many times that I have gotten as far as ready to give my address to a new guy for an appointment and then my better senses kicked in so I declined and decided to wait until I could see my regular guy. It just wasn't worth the "buyer's remorse" for lack of better words. I feel like I am in a confessional booth LOL

Yes I have known Tyler for years. I think his ad is giving a negative impression which I understand but I also know where he is coming from. Black men do feel objectified by white men this is true, but how your present yourself will determine how you are treated.

Not sure what you read on his page but I follow him on Twitter and he like big dick tops but does not bottom. I think he like playing around with dicks (go figure), but there a plenty of vidz on there where he is doing the topping.

Set your sights on something attainable and move on to the next. You're only going to embarrass yourself more.

I like sexy underwear. Something with a hole or easy flap In the front makes it really fun to play around with.

I think people get on in cycles. I have a lot of Colombian boys saved and as I was going through the list I noticed they have been on in 4 or 5 months but they come back LOL. Don't count them out yet!

I agree 100% So much better to give it to them in person when they are catering only to you!

side angled camera views (anything other than head on) aggressively asking for tip or threating to sign off the fact that they don't know all their videos are available online to download

I'm usually rolling my eyes:rolleyes:. I'm a trooper so I work with the guy hoping that something will kick in and he will be all that he is supposed to be but after a while, I tell him to get dressed and get out LMAO?

It's definitely crossing the line to ask for details blow by blow (no pun intended), but I think it's ok to ask: is he a clock watcher?, was he present and engaged?, can he keep it up? Those are basic questions just to give you a starting place with the escort. Your experience with them will be your private experience which may or may not work for you even after knowing those basics. But to reply and say, "I had a good time" or "I would stay away from this guy" does not help at all and I have received many of those responses. I always try to give someone enough to make a wise decision in hiring.

Ummm….I kinda beg to differ on that....I only mess with the 9+ crowd and they can get and keep and erection without a problem or any enhancements. I think it's more of if there is a connection between two people.

I've actually seen this before LOL