azdr0710

please stay active here at CoM....there are several other providers also active here.....add your RM profile link to the "signature" in your CoM settings.......though most clients don't know of this site (they only know Rentmen), this site is full of sincere, smart, savvy guys (and a couple nice women) who know the deal and will honestly (too honestly?!) offer comment.....it's the best website of its kind by far, but don't take CoM too seriously (there are some grumps here).... look all around here for hints, ideas, secrets.....as said, NYC has hundreds of provider profiles and that might explain the dropoff in inquiries.......though expensive, you may want to try some of the promo offers that Rentmen has to get your profile further up front and visible (can be pricey).......to be honest, you obviously are in-shape and good-looking and that certainly helps (ha!)........be very careful about flaky clients who will mess with you (send you to a deadend alley or a wrong hotel door, etc.)......I don't know the answer to how to vet a client, but even many experienced providers get frustrated by bad clients.......look over the rest of the "Questions About Hiring" forum here in CoM....... be safe and careful.......no money-for-sex-act talk at the meeting in the very, very rare case of a sting.....developing a set of regular clients is the key to success!....below are some threads on first-time hiring for client newbies, but you may get something out of it as a provider (escort)......stay in touch.......
 
https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/142802-etiquette-for-initial-communication/
https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/130365-caveats-in-hiring-please-contribute/
https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/83821-advice-for-a-newbie-please/
https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/103088-newbie-question/
https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/13389-recommendations-for-newbie/
 

in pre-meet communication, tell the provider that....
1.  you are an honest person and will pay for his time at the end of the meeting
2.  you do not want to talk about money at the meeting
and than ask him to confirm this is ok......
you may have to flash the cash or similar at the beginning, I suppose, but always keep the money in your control (or in view in your wallet over there in your pants on the floor!)....... 

stick with well-reviewed providers (in this forum) for legal safety.....always be respectful and friendly....smile, talk slowly, be professional.....don't text/email too much before the meet....to-the-point and discreet......firm handshake, look them in the eye!....here are some newbie hints:
  https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/142802-etiquette-for-initial-communication/
https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/130365-caveats-in-hiring-please-contribute/
https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/83821-advice-for-a-newbie-please/
https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/103088-newbie-question/
https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/13389-recommendations-for-newbie/

https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/142802-etiquette-for-initial-communication/
https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/130365-caveats-in-hiring-please-contribute/
https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/83821-advice-for-a-newbie-please/
https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/103088-newbie-question/
https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/13389-recommendations-for-newbie/

definitions for "BFE" will be as many as the number of people you ask......ha, I once told a provider that I want to meet for two hours with a little chitchat and he was astounded since he evidently was much used to the one-hour wham-bam crowd......
as always, pre-meet communication is the key......tell the provider exactly what you want (and don't want) and ask if he understands it and is willing.....be polite, friendly, professional, and to-the-point.....avoid giddy daily texts/emails......experienced, somewhat-older providers with good comment here on the forum will know exactly what you're saying!.....
you'll probably want a minimum of a two-hour meet and maybe much more to get the "BFE" thing.....expect to pay a full rate........make sure the provider is trusty and well-reviewed if you host......be yourself, talk slowly, firm handshake, look him in the eyes, keep the meeting moving so you get what you want........start with an easy back-and-forth massage, then go from there.....nothing is expected of you if you host except a clean place and some bottled water!......
 

RM Premium members also get to see the semi-private pictures (flame logo) and see a couple additional stats (forget which ones). Plus it may look good to some providers that you appear "serious" and legit.