Keenan

I love skiing and been skiing since I was a kid. Keenan

First it's important that the client and escort communicate about any potential issues before the appointment. With that said it's my job as an escort to make sure the client enjoys his time. If he wants to top me then making that happen is important. I have had customers that are really big and the way I handle it is 1)lots of lube, 2)control the situation and by that I mean if there is an easier way for me to bottom for someone bigger then I'll let them know the position (typically I like missionary so I he or I can stroke some while he is inside me). If anything is hurting or he is going to fast I will communicate and make sure he is aware. Some guys go in to fast and taking it slow is key with bigger guys. Overall controlling the situation is key and communication, Keenan

The escort should have let you set the pace instead of setting the pace for you in my experience. Keenan

To add to what I said earlier when I go to see I customer I won't initiate any contact or getting undressed. This is to protect myself just in case the customer is in fact with law enforcement. If they want to see me naked or kiss me they have to make the first move and communicate. Keenan

I feel communication is key. Clear details from what you are looking for makes my job easier. We can't read your mind. While we are there for you I feel both client and escort need to set the pace together. Example, when the escort arrives depending on how much time you have booked with him you may either want to sit down and talk some or you may want to offer to help the escort feel more comfortable. Overall just make sure you communicate and then things should feel less awkward. Keenan

I go there from time to time. Keenan

Yes I am from Baltimore.

If its the same guy he paid me in counterfeit money. While he stayed dressed and played with me in various states of undress I later found out that he had videotaped the entire session and posted it to xtube or a similar site. This was a few years ago and to say the least I wasn't happy.

After a long hiatus from the escort world this past year I am back to working again. I guess the scenes I filmed over the past year helped but the encouragement of clients to come back also helped. So now I am back and this time working full time. Keenan

I do similar. It shows appreciation and keeps clients coming back. A few years back I worked in Australia and there it was a work live situation since brothels are allowed. There the client would get the room for free every 10 times but the escort would still get paid the fee. Keenan

At least in my case can't leave in the middle of the shift but after the shift is done can meet. Keenan

I advertise as safe only and clients see that but I've had a few clients take it upon themselves to either let the condom slip off or remove the condom and then to proceed going bb. It angers me because some of these clients don't think about the health of the escort, just the enjoyment they want to get for themselves.

Clients falling in love with an escort, it happens from time to time, vice versa, not as much. Can such a relationship work? Not likely though it depends on the client. What most clients have an issue with is that the escort still needs to make money and will still be working as an escort. Many clients will get over protective and that will lead to the demise of the so-called relationship. Keenan

Not true of all escorts. I've been a sexworker/escort since my senior year in high school starting as a nude male stripper at a club and eventually moving into escorting. I have found that creating a connection with the client/customer and allowing them to get to know me somewhat and me getting to know them helps with repeat business. It really should be the job of the sexworker to make the connection as many times the client/customer can be nervous around us. Keenan

I couldn't agree more with your post. Just to add to this while one may think with many guys lusting over your body you may be happy, it's actually the opposite. As an escort many guys don't even try to get to know me, they see my body, they see the end result and then they are off. The job can actually be quite lonely.

Thanks. And if you are looking for a room for MAL for next year you better book soon, the hotel is already more than halfway sold out. http://www.leatherweekend.com. As they did this year it will be very hard to get into the hotel in the evenings unless you have a run pass for MAL (starting around $150-$175) or are staying at the Hyatt.

First MAL 2020 is the weekend of January 17th - 19th. I already booked an 800 sq. ft. suite at the Hyatt. Second while I have tried to make it to the DC meetup brunch in the past and while I was there last year I have decided to start pulling out of this community for a number of reasons. I will come onto these message boards from time to time but no longer plan to "work" as a provider. Not only over the past year have I become involved with the leather community but I have also become involved in the pup community too and am pledging a local pups and handlers group. These groups create close tight knit communities which is very important for me. If you see me on here feel free to say hello otherwise I am out.

I'd say "if" sex does happen since it doesn't always happen that after initial introduction and other parts that it's probably about 20 minutes +/- some. This doesn't include the foreplay. Keenan

I will usually take appointments up to an hour after the bars/clubs close. Preferably though I like to setup appointments in advance. Keenan

I'd say as a rule of thumb even when an escort has the "available now" status on it's best to assume that they won't always see the message immediately or be available right then and there. At minimum I'd say expect in general an hour or two but the escort may not be available until the next day. It's always easier I feel to schedule a day or two in advance. Keenan

I always prefer to meet the client in the lobby. I find it provides more security at least on the escorts end. I've had some situations where I went directly to the room and had some issues with the client. Keenan

While I started escorting in the USA I spent a year in Australia while studying and by far the best I could find. Brothels are legal in parts of Australia and the one I worked at also provided housing for those working there. Not only did it provide a level of safety from the perspective that customers were screened when they came in but living and working with other escorts provides a level of camaraderie. The only downside I found was basically being on call 24/7, customers could come in and request you and you'd be working whether or not you wanted. Keenan

Never had a client want to reenact a scene but I have had clients have scenes I have been in playing in the background on TV while we are doing our thing. Sort of awkward. Keenan

It was cancelled at the last minute. They weren't able to get enough dancers (only 1) so they are holding off until May 5th and regrouping. Keenan

I've done it a few times and found that the clients really enjoyed it. Keenan