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2 hours ago, ketut said:
some threads here, uses different variations of Vitali
Thanks
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Bump. Anyone have anything to share?
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I saw Chris based on prior year Best Of nominations. Best massage I had all year.
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They were in the Hartford area and I saw them a couple night ago. Great massage and a sensory overload. Their setup in the hotel was good. Really nice guys and their 4 hands were very well coordinated.
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I had an appointment scheduled and had to cancel a couple days before. He was incredibly accommodating. I haven't had a chance to go back. He came recommended from a couple people that I don't know well. Let us know what you think if you go!
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On 6/23/2023 at 7:34 AM, Thomhasnt said:
I'm heading out to Seattle next week for a long 4th of July holiday. I've booked a session with him and will let you know how it goes.
Had a fantastic session with him last week. Beautiful studio space in a great part of Seattle. He is extremely handsome and fit, even more so that comes across in his photos. I specifically went for a tantric coaching session, which involved both receiving and then practicing with him. Well worth the time. He's kind and encouraging and very skilled. I look forward to putting into practice the skills I learned.
DM me with any questions.
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Nothing in Danbury area to my knowledge. There are a couple of masseurs on rentmasseur.com that show as "local." I tried one and it was bed only and he just wanted to fuck. Others only do out calls, or don't have tables.
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I'm heading out to Seattle next week for a long 4th of July holiday. I've booked a session with him and will let you know how it goes.
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I've seen him. Great massage and some good extras. DM for more.
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4 hours ago, Chet said:
looking for recommendations in the Philly area. Prefer mature but all recommendations are appreciated! Spa suggestions also welcome. Thanks!
I'm booked to see Richard at classicmalemassage.com on an upcoming business trip. He's come highly recommended
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I reached out to him to inquire on Rentmasseur, as he lives near me in Ct, but he does outcall only. He quoted $200/60 min & $260/75 min. "The massage is naked and mutual touching and I can help you to release at the end." He also asked for new clients to care about personal hygiene.
Then he closed with "For sex or massage+sex I charge $320 outcall."
I currently only want to go to a studio, so I didn't give him a try. He's also on IG, if you want to DM me.
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May I suggest you read this thread? Providers will typically charge more for sensual/erotic vs. therapeutic.
I asked a similar question just last week:
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4 minutes ago, ketut said:
also here https://rent.men/EuroMuscleStud
Yes, which explains his comfort with where he went 😏
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Saw him, was a good experience. Great massage, more handsome than his photos, very satisfying and a few surprises.
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6 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said:
This is just my opinion...but to ME.. the minute you reciprocate, by touching your provider, you've gone beyond massage services and entered into escorting.
Hence the ask. No is an acceptable answer.
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8 hours ago, Vulgarii said:
What sucks about this line of work if you don't advertise yourself as erotic and if the client doesn't ask any questions beforehand, is that you don't know what the client wants. You don't know his real intentions and some just want a therapeutic massage and that's all. No genital stimulation whatsoever. I think a HE can be included in a therapeutic massage. Whether I want to do it or not is another story.
I love the tension. I love that moment when I see that an attractive client starts to relax his hands and let his fingers wander. He's in my realm, and that's nicer than saying he's in my trap and I'm going to have fun and get paid for it.I've learned to ask questions about draping and nudity. Do you mind if I touch you?
I'm there for a massage, but love the sensual/erotic components, too. If he can enjoy himself, that's a bonus.
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12 hours ago, Jamie21 said:
SNIP
I tend to have a wide definition of what is included in my massage. The crucial thing though is that my service is centred around my client receiving a proper massage. Lots of other escort type activities happen but there’s always a massage.
I have visited one masseur several times. He has always delivered a proper massage, which is my primary motive in hiring him. Over time, as he's sensed I'm more comfortable I guess, it's progressed in levels. First time he started shirtless, but lost his shorts midway through and rimmed me a bit, some MT with a HE. Second time, he started nude more MT. Third time, I blew him and there was a little bit of kissing. Last visit progressed to some penetration. HE always seems to be midway through and then, he finishes the massage.
Clearly, we're in erotic massage territory. Perhaps, according to some, we've always been. He seems to enjoy the experience, too. Or he's an excellent actor.
So, I was not really surprised to discover that he has an escort ad on rentmen.
Hopefully this not inappropriate for this forum.
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Gentlemen: Thank you for not raking me over the coals for not finding the threads that had more of this discussion. I appreciate the humor and frankness in your responses.
I want a massage that is fully therapeutic, but love the building of sexual tension as well. Wasn't sure if there was a generally accepted line between the two. Thanks!
3 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:
Often discussed.
Never agreed upon.
Many threads on the subject and everyone has a different opinion.
2 hours ago, Simon Suraci said:There is no clear-cut, definitive answer to this; it’s different for everyone. I recommend asking for exactly what you want and see who provides it. Or simply hire any of the vetted masseurs with positive comments from other clients posted here on company of men and see what they do. Evaluate a few and keep hiring the providers who best fit your needs.
1 hour ago, pubic_assistance said:It's a giant gray area with no agreed upon LINE between the possibilities.
In general a massage is just a massage if it's THERAPEUTIC
SENSUAL can ( but does not NEED to ) include a bit of more personal touch therapy, maybe nudity, some titillating teasing and even the possibility of a happy ending, but NONE of that is guaranteed under this definiton.
EROTIC for most people does mean there is more likely nudity, more personal touching and the expectation of an orgasm, but again this is different from provider to provider, so everything needs to be navigated.
Most important thing to remember is that a masseur is NOT an escort. So you should not ASSUME that sexual favors are part of anyone repertoire, until you discover that your masseur IS ACTUALLY AN ESCORT advertising as a masseur.
It's all very confusing and unfortunately NO ONE can tell you for sure where the lines are drawn. You just need to start exploring and be happy when you manage to cross a line somewhere and enjoy the results.
Good luck.🥳
1 hour ago, Vulgarii said:I've asked clients to describe what they want as an erotic and sensual massage because everyone has a different expectation, and I always get a different answer.
What I find odd, is that nowadays I'm hearing directly from new clients that sensual means just a slow, soft Swedish massage.
To me, a happy ending is sexual. Anything stimulating the genitals whether or not an orgasm happens, is sexual. It is sensual and it is erotic. I love it when potential clients want to argue that a happy ending isn't sexual or erotic. Whatever.
59 minutes ago, Jamie21 said:This has been debated at length previously (I can’t find the other discussions though!). Hence my tongue in cheek earlier post about the RUB&TUG group.
I think the best thing to do is ask your masseur what they include in the massage. I describe myself as a sensual masseur but judging by some of the comments on here I’m an escort.
I tend to have a wide definition of what is included in my massage. The crucial thing though is that my service is centred around my client receiving a proper massage. Lots of other escort type activities happen but there’s always a massage.
I’m not bothered about being described as an escort but I think for some clients it’s preferable for them to be visiting a masseur rather than an escort.
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HI:
So relative newbie here, who has just discovered massage. Is there a general definition for "Sensual" vs. "Erotic" massage?
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On 3/20/2023 at 2:13 AM, Your Coach said:
It was a great massage. His intern was pretty horny and I loved it.
Heading to Philly on business in early May. Think I'll see about booking an appointment. Did you get the 4 hand?
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He's also on Masseurfinder here: https://rentmasseur.com/Yogi_Ray
I had a 90 minute session with him in December, when he came to Connecticut for a couple of days. He was great. Here's my review from the site above:
"I had the pleasure of spending 90 minutes with Ray a few days ago. Starting off with several yoga postures to warm up the body, it was followed by a exceptional massage that left me incredibly relaxed yet energized. Perfect for heading into the holiday weekend.
Ray is personable and handsome, and has a welcoming energy that made me immediately feel relaxed and at ease. We were in a hotel room, but he had adjusted the lights, brought music and a diffuser, and a warmed massage table. He also worked with me to adapt as needed throughout the yoga and massage. At one point, recognizing that my feet were cold, he brought over hot towels to cover and keep them warm."Fantastic tantric massage and incredible release at the end.
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Anyone have any experience with Euro_Masseur in Stamford?
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Anyone have any experience with Andbittencurt?