IamAdamRose

1 hour ago, Marc in Calif said:

So why don't you want to change your profile to make it crystal clear that you don't want to top other men?

I’m not against of course if im getting paid for it lol… just i find it bizarre why they they ask me of all the providers in my city

1 hour ago, BtmBearDad said:

I’m with @KensingtonHomo - in this hobby, I like to be sure I want to be sure I’m getting what I want ie; a top. As such, other than the link here, your profile wouldn’t be one I’d look at, or that would show up in my searches. 

As to why some gents may hire you to top them when your ad gives off serious bottom energy, I think what others have said are some valid reasons. There are also some gents out there who want a more femme guy as their top because it lets them still be “the man” so to speak - even tho he is bottoming. 

As the saying goes, there is a lid for every pot! 😉

 

BBD 

Its pretty funny weird & funny at the same time lol

1 hour ago, The Big Guy said:

Your good looking 

Thanks hunty 😌

46 minutes ago, kevininsa said:

Hey Adam,

I'm guessing here, but could it be your size?  There's not a lot of tops that are smaller than 7" in SA.  Some guys might want to btm but can't handle the larger size.  Maybe they're just attracted to your look.  The size was the first thing that came to my mind though.  My only other suggestion would be to ask.  Wait till you're wrapping up the session and just say, "out of curiosity, why did you choose me?"  It's a perfectly valid provider question.   🙃

That makes sense, good analogy

1 hour ago, Xavitv said:

I think you’re assuming that femme/non binary = bottom. It’s not always the case. 

Well its the case with me 😂

37 minutes ago, KensingtonHomo said:

I'm a bottom, and without disrespect, I wouldn't even linger on your profile. I look for tops or tops/vers. If a provider even has a lot of ass shots or hole pics, it puts him lower on my list. 

This has nothing to do with masculinity versus femininity. I like tops of all kinds, but I want to know what I'm getting if I'm hiring. 

No I completely understand you, i dont know why someone would want an obvious typical gay bottom to top them lol, me personally im 1000% bottom in my personal life, im bi & i only like to penetrate actual woman or trans woman….. i’ll only top a man if im being paid for it. But like i said, it blows my mind when clients ask me top them

1 hour ago, keroscenefire said:

In my experience in talking to escorts, the vast majority of clients want to bottom when they hire. One of my regulars actually is more of a bottom and has vers/bottom as his description on RM. Even so he told me that 70% of his clients want him to top.

To me it makes sense. I am not sure how is in other cities, but Denver has way more bottoms than tops. If I want to top, it's quite easy for me to find someone on the apps. But I very seldomly can find a good top on the apps.

That's when I find a great true vers escort....that's the best!

I think its platforms have alot of to do with it, I’m a femme/nonbinary provider so im also on some Trans escort sites as well & those clients are mainly str8 men who book me to bottom…. RM clients are the ones who book me to top but i guess its because those clientele are mainly gay

52 minutes ago, wayout said:

When I see versatile/bottom and I am attracted to the pics and other info on the profile, I will reach out to see if they are willing to top as I interpret that description as being that the escort is very much versatile but has a preference for bottoming.  How strong that preference is different for different escorts so I feel it is fine to ask when I see that.  I assume at the start that in some situations and/or at some times they are willing to top.

And yes there are some clients who enjoy having someone who is clearly mostly a bottom be a top.  Call it what you will, like a fetish, but it does exist.

As others have said, if you can't describe yourself as truly being versatile to some extent then change your ad and avoid the whole discussion.

Interesting answer

I ment to put “book obvious bottoms” btw

32 minutes ago, nycman said:

…except for your ad….which lists you as "versatile / bottom".

I know that but…. Look at me why would someone want ME TO TOP 😂…. It just doesn’t make sense lol.

Here’s my profile just incase some are wondering what i look https://rent.men/AdamRoseXo

Just i always wondered why some clients book me to top them, its always crossed my mind when everything about me screams bottom & some people book me to top 😂😂😂 is it some kind of kind or fetish?

9 minutes ago, IamAdamRose said:

Yours Truly

https://rent.men/AdamRoseXo

 

Fake ass, fake lips, as Fem as it gets 🤷🏻‍♀️

3 hours ago, ttm269 said:

Super into guys who’ve done butt liposuction, butt fat injections or butt implants. Slim waist, hourglass figure. I’ve found a few on Rent Men such as Amir and Latinboycake (both based in LA). Does anyone know any other providers like these (preferably based anywhere in the US)? Fem dudes who’ve had plastic surgery with big butts and also have facial fillers. If so, please let me know. Not really into natural bubble butts. Just guys who look like they’ve done plastic surgery, liposuction BBL. Thanks.

Yours Truly

https://rent.men/AdamRoseXo

4 hours ago, ChasingGirth said:

Unfortunately new clients get easily manipulated and that’s sad. At the end of the day we are the boss and they should put an effort sometimes.

& those are the ones you have to get a deposit. In my eyes, every new potential is a flake till proven otherwise. Me for example, if a client request for me to wear make up, not doing so till I receive a 20% deposit or if its a repeat customer i know who wont do me wrong

First of all, this is why i have a personal & a work phone but clients, please don’t send explicit pictures to a providee before even discussing anything…. Its pretty irritating & inconsiderate & i’m pretty sure i just dont speak for myself as a provider… its common courtesy 

8 minutes ago, Trick said:

Not taking anyone’s side here, but what he said was that you threatened to call the cops and he handed you his phone and told you to do it.

Thats a lie lmfao, i’d take matters into my own hands if i felt threatened, dude needs to lay off whatever drug he’s on because he’s making stuff up

& btw, any client who wants to book an overnight, YOU SHOULD ALWAYS PAY THE PROVIDER A 20-25-“% DEPOSIT…. just my opinion, me personally anyone can say they want to book an overnight to me but i wont take them seriously if they dont

3 hours ago, Trick said:

@IamAdamRose can you provide links to the derogatory comments about your looks?  I’ve only seen one topic about you and it’s not much about your looks.  It’s more about the fees you charge and the bottoming you allegedly refuse to provide at the meeting.

This

 

Btw. The guy making said allegations about me refusing to bottom, even claims to have called the cops on me & paid me $100, that alone shows he’s making up delusional lies, and believing his own lies, I would never expect anything less than $200 from a client and I collect money before we even get to doing anything, so this dude is making everything up

11 hours ago, NYXboy said:

I've noticed this when travelling and asked my regular boy about it - he showed me his phone and he had SEVEN bookings in a row that were canceled. he is a bottom so he had showered, not eaten that day, prepped and cleaned out - only to have them cancel sometimes 30 minutes beforehand. 

He now says for new clients they can send deposit - anything from $5 or $20 just something.  if they are not comfortable with that - they can contact him on the day and if he is still available he will see them, but without deposit he wont lock anything down in advance.  Same day appointments only. 

"When I book a table at a restaurant, doctor  or to see my hairdresser they take my CC details in advance and charge me cancelation fee if i don't show- I'm not doing that - just making sure people are serious about my time" he said. 

I think either loads of fake bookings - or perhaps clients are hedging bets and booking two or three boys on the same day and taking the best one from that. Or maybe even other providers are setting up these fake bookings? who knows.  Either way, seven days of cancelations in a row is a lot.  I know in my job if i had that i would be looking at changing my business model. 

 

When travelling i wouldn't mind locking in a booking with a $50 deposit- IF they have favourable reviews on RM and on here. 

Yeah thats alot of cancellations, im a drag queen as well & sometimes i get clients request me in drag, that forsure i charge a deposit & want at least 25% of my

rate which for drag i charge $400 an hr

2 hours ago, Trick said:

@IamAdamRose can you provide links to the derogatory comments about your looks?  I’ve only seen one topic about you and it’s not much about your looks.  It’s more about the fees you charge and the bottoming you allegedly refuse to provide at the meeting.

This

 

If you search, there’s another subject on here about me, but it’s also on the RM platform that I get these unecessary messages, I’ll be honest, i dont claim to be trans i claim nonbinary, but the people seem to catogerize as trans and it’s mainly transPhobic comments they make, I wish I had screenshots because I would post everything I’ve heard on here lol

4 hours ago, Pd1_jap said:

Hi, Bitter Nancy here 👋

In general toxic masculinity runs deep in our culture. I'm not sure why you would think this site would be unaffected?

Many of your photos heavily feature your lips so... Gurls gonna gossip hunty. Is Taco Bell angry that people make fun of the food and the gastro intestinal after effects? No. The publicity is what keeps the brand alive. 

I'm a strange person, I have a congenital deformity, and atopic dermatitis on my face. Many providers treat me like garbage and if they are nice they rarely listen to what I want and just end up doing what they want. I've had really great experiences with maybe ten providers. 

Accounting for all that, clients need to vent their frustrations. You need to learn to be okay with that. Let them laugh in an Internet forum while you laugh all the way to the bank. 

Tchuss

Sorry you’ve encountered that….. seems like you need an experience with a REAL Queen 💁‍♀️

On 1/4/2023 at 9:07 AM, Harryinny said:

Too much of a lady for me.

Such a lady actually 💁‍♀️

On 1/4/2023 at 10:17 AM, Bravesoul said:

Stay away from this dude. He’s truly crazy. 

Lol if i’m “crazy” this guy is bat shit delusional from the things he’s claiming, calling law enforcement on me 😂😂😂 bro lay off the Tina

3 minutes ago, CuriousByNature said:

Probably because you seem to be pretty confident and happy with yourself, which is a very good thing.

I am, not gonna lie I accomplished my goal of being a sex worker fast…. I got 3 SD’s out of it lol but I’m gonna retire from the business in the next year, a provider of my niche has a timer on them, instead  of that as a muscle top would… I have my real estate license so i plan on getting back into that business 

2 minutes ago, CuriousByNature said:

That is so rude.  Where is common decency these days?

Not a clue, its pretty funny tho, I get a kick out of people taking time out of their day, just to make derogatory comments at me, kind of strokes my ego in a weird way