Well interesting topic to be sure. As one who really one has done weekend or longer stays I understand completely.....
I really only see guys I know quite well as I have grown tired of searching out how many different ways I can entertain a new guest lol. I often felt I was providing the vacation, seems like something gets lost in translation....
Wisdom prevailed and one thing to remember they are being paid, and typically once the money stops, or they move on to other things the “friendship” tends to be over as well... It is rare to meet a guy that is a genuine person in that the connection was made and a friendship remains.
Your real friends are the ones you don’t pay ?