I’ve had many sensual massages. I’ve always respected the therapist. But I’ve touched them plenty. Touching does not imply disrespect. I suppose unless he specifically doesn’t want to be touched. Then bye Felicia.
I was only once asked for an upfront payment. The guy said since I was a first time client he asked for the money upfront. I said ok, gave it to him, and everything went fine. Totally good experience.