Massageguy99

The answer is yes and no. What I mean is for some providers you will be, but that is more about them. If you are trying to find an 18-22 young person they probably will not be fully into you. They will be more transactional than a seasoned professional. I personally no longer higher people in that age bracket because for me they tend to lack the skill set I am looking for. If you look for providers who are closer to the 30+ mark I think you will find much better experiences that are less transactional. They tend to be providers who are in it for more than just cash. Even if you do find a disappointment in someone in that age bracket don't let it get you down. Providers are like everyone else and can have bad days, and some can just be jerks. None of those things speak to you as a person. "You are good enough, you are strong enough and doggone it people like you"

I don't mind them being on sites and listed as therapeutic as long as it is clear what they are offering. For me personally I don't want to hire a therapeutic massage only from the two main sites on my area. Mainly because if I want a therapeutic massage I prefer a spa environment. Many providers in my area do not offer a spa like feel. While that is not to say it is is not a relaxing environment it is not the environment I want. Also cost is a factor I can and have had many Therapeutic massages in a spa setting that are cheaper than a MT offers on RM or MF. I do have friends who prefer to hire based on looks, being in a home rather than a business etc and who want Therapeutic only. For those people MT advertising on MF or RM are exactly what they are looking for. On the plus side I would absolutely hire Simon or Jamie. They are just so freaking nice. Sadly in my current market the only one who fits that bill moved and retired from the industry. In another market I had 4 regulars that all got that bill of professionalism and quality.

All I can say is after reading many postings from OP I would never consider hiring him. He has actually visited two cities I have been in and both times I hired someone else based on what I have read here. Have I had bad hires in the past absolutely. Have I had great experience at low price points, absolutely. Do I think price automatically means you are hiring quality? Not at all. The reality is every time we hire it is a gamble and the provider can post all that they have learned, how many hours of massage they have done etc. None of that means much because each person forms a different connection and related to the massage differently. I have seen providers recommended by others and not enjoyed the experience, likewise I have seen people not recommended and had a great time. This hobby/business is a funny one and on both sides there are flakes and time wasters.

I send a very direct message of exactly what I'm looking for. I send early on during the day.

This is a question for you guys. Have you noticed an uptick in people just not communicating. It very well could just be my area but I reached out to several providers today. Almost none text back. Then went onto RM and messaged them there. Some responded back but then just never follow up. I have noticed it seems more and more difficult to book same day now. I sadly can't book in advance due to my work schedule so I generally wait until my day off and once I know I'm not getting called in.

This is me. I have checked out guys multiple times because I absolutely do not remember what they looked like. I finally have started blocking providers whom I am not attracted to so I don't keep clicking on them. I did have one block me on the same day I viewed his pics. Literally I looked at his pics and planned to reach out when I got home. Went in to look again and he had blocked me. I never spoke to him or gave him any details and I assume me looking at his pics and not immediately reaching out bothered him. Funny I later text him because I could see that from a 2nd profile I had and immediately realized we were not a good fit. Guess he did me a favor by blocking me.

Tried him simply because he was about 10 min from where I was at the time. Positives. Very Nice guy, didn't feel rushed, very clean and easy to get to location. Nice table. I personally found him sexy even if he doesn't match his ad description. Cons: Pictures are old probably by 5-7 years. He is no longer fit. Stocky would be my best description. Didn't bother me but will some. Massage was a B- to a C+ long strokes but often used his forearm to push and I don't mind a little of that but he did it 80%. He focused on my back so long I literally got bored. Then he rushed through my legs, and arms. Overall I would not go back even though I did think he was sexy, stocky and slightly hairy. He is also if I had to guess Closer to 40 than 30.

Ok something odd is going on. When I first looked it up they had the same verbage and very similar pics. Now one has totally different pictures but similar verbiage. I'm thinking they are sharing the profile. I have seen that before but rarely. Usually with traveling people.

https://rentmasseur.com/Aleksey_rm/reviews/ So this is what he actually looks like now. I found this profile after I met with him. It was not listed in my location at the time. Only his other profile was but it is the same person. If you look at his review the price paid is all over the place so basically he is someone who upsells.

https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/46525/ He used to go by a different name. I decided to try because all my regulars are out of town for a while. In text he said his massage was sensual MT. Quoted rate matched website. Then at the end he offered he for an additional 140. Another review mentioned this after I found his second profile. I paid him 80% of his rate since he gave 80% of what he offered up front. Also his pics on his profile do not match. His pics on his rent men ad do. His massage was a b- to a c+ at times. At least he used good quality oil.

https://rentmasseur.com/Fraancofranco His quoted rate is 240 for a massage. Sounds to me like he is an escort advertising as a massage. He has great reviews on his RentM profile but again I am looking for a massage.

Hi. Just thought I would share because he has no reviews in Massage only under escort side. I have tried to reach out to him several times and he never responded. He finally responded on his massage add and quotes the following. 220 for 60 min incall. That is too steep for me since he has no information in here except his other ad. I am assuming that his massage is secondary to his other focus and that is not what I am looking for out of a masseur. https://rentmasseur.com/OtterRiver

Anyone seen him?

The best is the O'Reilly commercial. Man that will jar you out of relaxation.

This reminds me of a time in my younger days where I hooked up with someone. He lived with family but said no problem he was alone for a while etc. got the feeling he was discrete,.not closeted but on the dl. Anyway we are hooking up in his room and all was good. I heard a noise like a car door. He runs to check and says oh everything is fine no big. When we get done he stays in his room and I walk to my car. Parked right next to my car was what I assume to be a family member possibly older brother sitting in his car. Dude gave me a look of total disgust and if looks could kill I would be dead. I felt absolutely so uncomfortable.

Not always for me. At one point I had met two different who were fantastic. This one just wasn't.

https://rentmasseur.com/Iurii Just letting others know. I would skip this guy. His massage a b- to a c. He had no sensuality at all to the massage. Felt very mechanical. The price point was ok but not worth it. He has several reviews on RM but as I have learned those are useless now.

Yeah I have recently run into this and I just won't do it. I am not putting my info out there to send you a vehicle. Now if you want to take a ride and expect a higher rate due to travel I'm totally fine with that as long as it is upfront.

Most I have seen I would not call buff. More lean guys than anything. I would venture to say it is 80% gay for pay.

I'm just curious to get peoples thoughts. I currently live in an area that has an influx of Venezuela guys. I have seen about 10 new ads on RM. They all seem to be pricing to the 3-400 range for an hour. No reviews. Some only do outcall. Difficult to communicate via text. I'm just curious who is taking the dive for them to keep a listing active. To me there are just to many unknowns to make it worthwhile. They are beautiful but beauty is not enough for me. Would any of you take the dive under this scenario?

This is one thing that irritates me. I wait 24 hours. Past that I am done. I can't stand people who have their listing set to active in my city but are actually out of town for 2 weeks. Or, they are currently with an extended client, or sick or whatever but they still show their listing. Why not put an auto reply on your text that says you are unavailable, or change your listing. It is just dumb because people who reach out while you are away just assume you are a flake.

I can't quite remember because he doesn't show his face but based on pic 1. I think he was on my avoid list. Very mediocre massage if I remember.

Wow

So I mostly hire sensual massages. I have only a few times hired for deeper purposes. With that said I have reached out to providers on Holidays and always ask them if they are working or have prior commitments. I have had many. Often due to work the Holiday that lands on a Thursday, Friday etc may be my only day off and I want to enjoy. However I would be completely understand if a provider wanted to take the day off. I do wish it was easier to know providers schedules. In the past I had a few that had a calendar link and blackout dates. That was nice. It made planning so much easier.

This happened recently to me and after many years of hiring I can't believe I was this stupid. I spoke to a guy who was traveling and staying for the week in my area. Spoke when he first got in town but it took 3 days before our schedules lined up. On day 1 he sent me his hotel and address. Well on day 3 I checked in to see if he was available and told him ok looks like you are 25 min from me. On my way. I get to the hotel and suddenly he text and says it's the Hyatt. I thought wait there is no Hyatt over here. We both then quickly realize he had moved hotels. Normally I would always verify the address but I did not think to this time and he didn't realize he never told me the new hotel. Thankfully he had no bookings and I drove and additional 25 min to reach him.