Thx 2 this thread I bit the bullet and finally met up with Trav. I was so nervous. but i had a very sensual rewarding time. He is everything you all said and more. he has great ability to put people at ease and to get into the moment. T was fully in the moment with me, very attentive and making me feel like a million bucks. and he never looked at his phone and never looked at the clock, and really listen to me. This is something rare. I hope I can see him again. Thanks for giving me confidence here.