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Bit the bullet. I texted him I saw him on RM, he asked if I wanted in or out call. I said "in". In call was done at a medical facility, complete with new client form that asks for a lot of your info, which I would've rather avoided. It asked how I found him, but I did NOT mention RM there. He did say to get comfortable under the sheet, and then he'd come back to discuss my "wants and desires". That sounded good, but I didn't bite, considering the setting. It was entirely therapeutic, but that could be my fault, because I treated the place professionally, as it was presented.*** It was an excellent massage, and he found issues that I knew about, but didn't report to him. When I was paying, I asked the difference between his in call and out call massages. He said that he would text me later, and then went into a very professional detailing of what he found and worked. Looking forward to his text. Either way, I'd definitely see him again for therapeutic. *** I did feel mildly bait-and-switched, considering i found him on RM, and it says that he offers therapeutic and erotic. That could totally be on me, because I didn't give any signals that I wanted anything other than therapeutic. See my thoughts on this:

Usually when I've seen rates that low, it ends up being for a 30 or 45 minute session, but I don't see that listed on his.

Happy Accident Before meeting for the first time, I asked a masseur if he was comfortable massaging my glutes, because a lot of spas and studios won't, and mine were a mess from squats. He said that he didn't mind, however, considering the area, he wanted me to know that I had to be extremely hygienic. I worried about being clean enough, so let's leave it at me being clean "inside and out". He told me he was going to start my glutes, said that if the pressure wasn't right, or I was uncomfortable with anything he was doing, to let him know, like when his finger slid passed my crack he asked if the "pressure" was okay. I just said it was great. He spread my feet apart, and moved up, also really spreading my cheeks as well. Unlike my other experience where I felt a couple flicks, this time I became more of a meal for someone that must not have had food for a week. So glad that I was so thoroughly clean.

The Ghost Masseur When in San Diego, I try to go to a particular Chinese place, for a legit full-body. Typically, I get a younger to middle aged guy, brush cut or flat-top, all fresh-off-the-boat, limited English. I was in town, stopped by as usual, and I got this very... he looked like a late-30s to early-40s, starting to grey, Chinese surfer dude, complete with slightly wavy, near shoulder-length hair. Gave me a leg-shaking, up on my knees, all around the hole--including hot breaths and possibly tongue flicks on it, massage. He was milking me from behind, whispering in my ear, with NO accent, "Is this pressure working for you?", until there was a droplet, when had me get on my back, one hand reaching up to alternately tickle or apply pressure to the crack, while the other delivered the HE. Asked him for his name at the end, and wrote it down for next time. I went back about a month later, asked for him, and they had no idea who I was talking about. I continually asked on the next couple visits, even asking them to look up my history, where they confirmed the name, but no one knew him, although they did have someone by that name at a different location, and they were especially confused when I described him. One receptionists joked that it may have been another customer on his way out, but she couldn't find any info on the guy.

I'm wondering if I'm alone in my mini-rant. It bugs me when I support the site for private gallery access, and I see that a masseur has private pics, but when I click on the 3 that are there, those same 3 are already part of the 6 in the public gallery, or better, when there's 1 private pic, and it's of an empty room, showing his massage table. I guess my question would be, why bother having a private gallery at all, if it's not at least a different pic of him, even just a different angle?

I'd sign up for that myself!

Ok, ok, let's not be so hasty about ruling out options.

I'm relatively new here, but posted the question because in several chats that I've had, I thought, "I bet they'd be a riot to grab a coffee/drink with."

I'll be headed there in the next month or two, and when I searched on RM, only two hits came up for the entire city, everyone else was 50+ miles away. Would love to hear any reviews or suggestions for the area.

Have you ever chatted with other members here, read something that they wrote, or maybe just because of their name, and wanted to meet them? If you have, have you ever ended up meeting someone from here?

There's also the whole realm of private GHs. Look on DoubleList, Sniffies, etc., and you'll find guys at homes and hotels, some with something permanent, like the GarageGH above, and others with a curtain stretched over a doorway. Why go? As the feeder, it could be because your significant other won't give oral, or you've heard guys are better at it (there are some female suckers, but so few cis-women, that you should still assume it's a guy). You don't want any small talk, you just want a quick mouth, etc. As the mouth, it could be the chance to suck guys who wouldn't normally let you, or any guy, suck them. Have you ever been sent the most beautiful dick pics, but all the rest of his pics killed any attraction? GH offers a solution to that. Same avoidance of small talk as above. As either, whoever is on the other side, can be anyone you imagine it to be. I had a friend who had me set up a curtain to try it. We texted to set it up. We never spoke, or saw each other, so as far as we know, anyone was on the other side. Maybe he arranged it, but sent a friend from work. Only think I know was that he was watching straight porn, and struggled to hold in any identifying noises while his legs were violently shaking. EDIT: What I do know of public ones (ABS, etc), is that typically the mouth puts his finger through the hole, making a "c'mere" gesture, if he wants to suck.

For me, there are three categories: masseur; masseur with extras; escorts. I don't assume every masseur is an escort. I can see how when people do, that it would be offensive, but I don't think we're really that uninformed, and it seems a bit too sensitive to me. If someone presents themselves as a certified massage therapist, of either gender, I don't know anyone who instantly assumes "escort/hooker". If you're a CMT, and strictly therapeutic, I don't expect to find you on rentmen, or even rentmasseur. I'd expect to find you in a spa, through a gym, or medical venue. If I'm looking for extras, I'm not making a massage appointment at my chiropractor, and expecting the four-hands treatment and a spit-roasting. Similarly, even if he listed massage and CMT training on his profile, I wouldn't book Austin Wolf to work on a spasm near L4/L5. I understand being offended if assumptions have been made, but I also firmly believe that where, and how, you present yourself, is really the determining factor of how you'll be viewed. Regarding the OP, honestly, most escort ads intimidate me, and I'd rather hook up on my own merits, while I still can. Masseurs with extras though, I like that I'm actually getting a massage, but knowing it can go further if I like the vibe, and I do go into the appointment hopeful that it will go farther, which I wouldn't do if he was strictly a "masseur".

On the flip-side, what your rate for having yours sucked?

I think I understand why masseurs want me to come back. I had no idea what was expected, and still fairly new at this, and apparently WAY overtipping.

89 views, but no one has tried him? Other names he may have used?

https://rentmasseur.com/Dennymass Reasonably starts at 120. Any info?

Now also as https://rentmasseur.com/MassagebyBilly

There's plenty more to see in his private pics.

Is that an RM thing? I'm by the beach, but RM posts my location as WeHo too, which also annoys me. It's like 8 miles away.

I can vouch for Victor as well. I think he's YMMV

I'm a little (LOT) surprised that he can be that specific (explicit) about the therapy that he offers.

Rates look good. Anyone tried him? https://friendboy.pro/boys/DeepDudePROMassage

Maybe re-watch Eastern Promises, before taking the leap. 😜

He must not have been getting bites, because RM now lists him at $200 for both and and out calls.

Sounds about right. He's very quiet. Met him when he first moved to LA from upstate NY, pre-escorting. He was a friend's roommate. It's massive!