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First, the swarthy stud sounds hotter than Hades. Also, nice to hear how he responded to your inquiry. A professional victim would have had a screeching meltdown. But a normal, well-adjusted adult simply answers the question.

Beyond disingenuous, you're being flat-out dishonest. It was quite obvious who you were referring to in this thread. By the way, have you been able to come up with a definition of "supremacist"? You called me that a few posts back yet still haven't said what it is.

@pubic_assistance, because José Soplanucas couldn't come up with an argument, he stooped to name-calling. First "supremacist" (which he cannot define), now "racists." In Victimhood (the language of the wokety-wokes), "racist" means "anyone who disagrees with me."

Sorry, I don't speak Victimhood. What's a "Supremacist"? I'm guessing it means "anyone who disagrees with me."

Of course it exists, some awful people will always be amongst us, but on a systemic level? I'd point to other factors *coughsinglemotherhoodcough* but don't want to get too political. Sad to say, for far too many Americans victimhood is social currency. Forget fancy degrees, income, net worth, or even cock size, the ultimate in prestige and social status is victimhood. That's why Harry & Meghan scream "racism!" every 3.5 seconds. There is no chic like victim chic.

This sums up the Cult of Victimhood: the knack for taking any possible situation and figuring out how to make yourself a victim.

Gay activists and gender studies professors drive an agenda in the US, and obviously the same is true in Brazil. Their very livelihoods, their means of paying their mortgages and feeding their families, depend on pushing a specific narrative. Fair-minded people see this narrative with some skepticism. But members of the choir embrace this narrative as gospel.

Yeah, I don't get it either. If you're with your mistress or drug dealer, OK, but other than that, no big whoop. That's just it, the "manufactured crisis" is exactly what Whinge & Ginge want. If their precious celebrity ever fades, lucrative offers will dry up. Without $multimillion Netflix and book deals, they might have to suffer unspeakable hardship, like flying commercial instead of private (eek!).

The Whinger & the Ginger's sole source of income is their celebrity. Yes, Harry did inherit a good amount from his mother, but money goes awfully quick when living the glamorous life. So what choice do they have but to tirelessly prime the pump?

So would I. The HBO drama Oz made prison sound hella fun: tons of smokin' hot guys, great sex nonstop, maybe meet the love of your life. Pretty sure the reality of prison is quite different. Get it over with. But interestingly enough, whenever presented a choice between death or life without parole, almost all convicts choose the latter. Given how relatively few convicts are actually executed (22 in 2019, 17 in 2020, 11 in 2021, 18 in 2022), I'm guessing the same thing, that the death penalty is more an ace up law enforcement's sleeve than anything else.

Allow me to share what happened to someone I know (no, not "a friend," literally just someone I know). "John" and "Sam" meet and fall madly in love, or at least John does. In his mid-30s, John thinks he has finally found true love. Of course John introduced Sam to his 2 best friends, his adopted family since he wasn't that close to his biological family. After a few times out to dinner & drinks, John's 2 friends tried to warn him that something was off, that Sam's body language just didn't feel right. John just shrugged it off as Sam being less demonstrative or less comfortable with PDA. After all, he and Sam had mind-blowing sex every night, which was far more important to him than some vague intuition. Then when Sam asked John to lend him $20,000 (to start a business or some such), the 2 friends rang all the alarm bells, but too late. The last 6 months with Sam had been the happiest of John's life. As soon as the check cleared, so did Sam (oh, shock!). John got a "Dear John" letter from Australia, where Sam had gone to join his true love. Sam was terribly sorry (uh huh), but don't worry, he promised to pay John back every penny of the $20K (more uh huh). @Statham, I realize some elements of this story differ (significantly) from your current situation, but I notice that most of the advice given is all about just the 2 of you and how you should deal with things. Why not get a 2nd (3rd, 4th) opinion? Trusted friends or family members will get a far more objective read on this guy. Maybe they'll get to know him and think he's awesome and you're hella lucky. Or maybe not.

The Cruise Critic message board has meet-up threads for almost every cruise. While the threads are not LGBT-specific, you can always post saying you're looking to meet other LGBTs on the sailing. Here is the meet-up thread for Wonder of the Seas July 16-23, 2023: Sorry, you do not have permission for that! BOARDS.CRUISECRITIC.COM Oops, forgot, you have to create an account on Cruise Critic to be able to access the thread.

Does it cost that much more to keep a person in a mental health facility vs. prison?

That "dumb two-minute video" is now up to 78.1 million views. Again, no point in pissing back & forth. Let's revisit Tucker Carlson's situation in 2 years when we'll have some cold hard numbers to look at. We can also look at the election results on November 6, 2024 to see if MAGA is "toast." Note who we're not talking about: the subject of this thread Don Nadie, er, Lemon.

One of the best moments I had in Boston was seeing the Old North Church for the first time, when it hit me that Paul Revere was a real-life person, not just some story I heard in grade school. I was surprised by how short the steeple was and doubted that you could actually see a couple of lamps all the way over in Charlestown until I noticed that it is indeed quite a bit taller than all the surrounding structures. The pews are tiny -- were people that much smaller in the 1700s? Anyway, even though I can't really say I'm a history buff, I really enjoyed all the history to be discovered and enjoyed in Boston.

Let's revisit this thread in 2 years and compare predictions to hard numbers. Note that Don Lemon is such a zero that in a thread about his termination, all we can talk about is Tucker Carlson.

Bill O'Reilly was never a force in American politics, never led a political movement. O'Reilly, a self-described traditionalist independent (whatever that is), had no following of fellow traditionalist independents, because no such movement exists in this country. "Tucker wields no power or influence "?? He single-handedly got Donald Trump to do a 180 on his Covid policy by browbeating the president at a party. Without even speaking to Trump in person, Carlson succeeded in jettisoning shadow president Jared Kushner from the Trump White House. Wow, I wish I were so "powerless." Love it or hate it, America First nationalist populism, a.k.a. MAGA, is a force in American politics, and Tucker Carlson is its spiritual leader. Just as Rush Limbaugh thrived 100% independently from Fox News and any other establishment media, Tucker will (eventually) build his own platform. Because you dislike Tucker, you're wishcasting his future irrelevance. But the 76 million (and counting!) views Carlson got on his last tweet indicate that he's just getting started.

Morgan Freeman disagrees ...

I've lived in both NYC & Boston. Humidity is a tick or two higher in Boston, but not a huge difference. I think you notice the heat more in NYC, especially when you go into subway stations. As someone pointed out in another thread, Boston's gay scene is surprisingly small for a city its size. Maybe the SF gay scene ain't what it used to be, but it's gotta be better than Boston's.

Can you recommend an LGBT forum with an active Politics subforum? The other site's Politics section is all but dead. I started engaging in political discussion in Men's Tennis Forum (not LGBT obviously but it has a ~20% gay membership). At first it was kinda fun because conservatives actually outnumber liberals at MTF, but I quickly grew bored because the liberals cave so easily, no challenge at all.

"Lemon did not" ... yeah, and water isn't wet. Lemon openly hated Trumpers, championed the victimhood narrative, etc. The difference is that Tucker Carlson rubbed you the wrong way whereas Don Lemon did not. The other difference, as previously stated, is that Carlson wields serious power in American politics whereas Lemon is a total nobody. Lemon's career will go the way of Chris Cuomo, now an "independent" journalist, a euphemism for "producing his own videos that nobody watches." Tucker, on the other hand, will build a following even larger than Rush Limbaugh's. Of course it will take some time, especially since he'll have to navigate a way around the non-compete clause of his Fox News contract. But eventually Carlson will be followed by tens of millions whereas Lemon will be (very) lucky to reach tens of thousands.

Love him or hate him, Tucker Carlson wields great power & influence. Trump didn't kick into gear about Covid until Tucker cornered him at a party and read him the riot act. Jared Kushner was basically a shadow president in the Trump administration until Carlson excoriated Kushner on his (now defunct) ahow, for a few reasons but most of all because Kushner actually hates Trump voters. Shortly thereafter, Kushner was ushered out. Second only to DJT, Tucker is the most powerful figure in the MAGA movement. Don Lemon, on the other hand, is a zero in American politics. Lemon himself thinks he's awfully important, but nobody else does.

If this doesn't melt your heart ...

Tucker Carlson is a national treasure.