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Huh? Are you seriously judging others whose sexual needs don't conform to your very specific and formuliac standards? We've got the likes of Jerry Falwell and Franklin Graham on one side and you on the other. WTF?

I finally watched The Cakemaker and liked it quite a bit. It was a quiet yet engrossing.

Tried to watch Black Panther but quit half-way through the movie. I typically don't like superhero, comic book style movies but there was so much hype around Black Panther, I figured it would be an exception. Nope. Just confirmed that movies of this type bore me. On the other hand, The Cakemaker looks interesing. I just added it to my Netflix list.

There was no single moment for me. I had a serious case of hero worship over a male classmate in grade school. It was not sexual at first but then, as we got older, sexual attraction gradually crept in. I can't say at what point I recognized my feelings toward him as sexual. But I'm sure it was long before he became fuel for my wet dreams.

Technique and practice is definitely important, but don't forget enthusiasm. Personally, I know that my technique is not perfect, but I hope that my enthusiasm makes up for my technical deficiencies (at least partially).

Great movie. I knew the ending beforehand, but was still moved.

I loved this movie. Every bit as good as Brokeback Mountain (IMO).

I wanted to see Green Book but screwed up on its start time so when I got to the theater it was 30 minutes into the movie. The Favourite was about to start so I decided to see it instead. But I wish I had turned around and gone home. Yes, Olivia Colemen as Queen Anne was terrific and the 18th century costumes were entertaining, but I found the rest of it tedious. And the ending sucks. A movie doesn't always need a happy ending to be good, but the ending of this movie is just... yuck.

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Alex and Jason, twins and models from South Africa.

I finally saw the movie today and loved it. I went into the movie liking Rami Malek and left liking him even more. All I knew of Freddie Mercury before the movie was that he was a fabulous singer, had big front teeth and died of aids (and wore his pants way too tight). As for Queen, I knew their biggest hits of course, but not much else about them. So the movie and Malek's performance had no impossible benchmark for me to measure it against. I enjoyed every minute of it.

One movie review said that watching Roma was like watching paint dry. I watched on Netflix streaming yesterday and completely agree. An hour into the movie I started checking the time, hoping it would be over soon. I suppose the cinematography was beautiful, but not beautiful enough to overcome the tedious, plodding story-line.

So far I like the new design and features. Thanks for making the site available sooner than planned (albeit a test version)!

I agree. If I were to get a negative emoji on my post, I'd want to know why? What exactly is it about the post that elicits the dislike or anger or sad emoji? On the other-hand, if I get a positive emoji, I'll just be happy about it and not care so much why. I think it boils doing to what engenders respect versus animus. An affirming emoji needs no explanation. A negative reaction to a post should be in the form of a reply that includes an explanation.

Sorry, @sam.fitzpatrick, but this made me chuckle. A totally inappropriate reaction I know, but I couldn't help but imagine walking past an examining room and looking in to see someone bent over the examining table with their pants down and asshole exposed, waiting to be probed.

I tip my barber 31.6% with each haircut ($19 rounded up to $25). I give nothing extra at Christmas.

So a forum member must live in an escort's home city or be interested in hiring him in order to participate in a 411 thread? Are there other valid reasons to participate in a 411 thread?

Thanks for sharing your experience with us @Wolfer . I've been in your shoes -- not exactly the same situation, but certainly the same dynamic. I think (hope) I'm wiser now, but it's helpful to be reminded that when the libido is involved, expectations can easily outpace reality.

Hey Smurof, I'd first make sure that the girl's night out that excluded you was not a one-time fluke. Maybe the self-described man-hater organized the outing and simply did not invite you. She may or may not have explicitly stated that she didn't want you there. The next time you want to go out, include your original three friends. You can even tell your long time friend that's she's welcome to invite her new man-hater friend (don't make your long time friend choose between you and her new friend). Just because this person says she hates men, it doesn't mean you have to hate her. This is her problem. Don't let her make it yours.

It seems that FunNicolas used several stolen pictures in his original RM ad. This included pictures of porn star Benjamin Godfre and model Steve Boyd. The picture in the pinterest link is Steve Boyd and has since been deleted from the ad. Others posting to this thread claim that current pictures are all of the actual escort. I tend to believe them at this point.

It seems that this thread serves no purpose other than to criticize this escort (thank-you @Epigonos for being the exception). Why do people go out of their way just to criticize?

Me too! (not to be confused with #metoo)

I have to admit that my initial skepticism about this escort has been worn away by the rave testimonials (and his new RM pictures!). A few of those pictures make me want to buy knee pads for my next trip to NYC. Yum.

Reminds me of some of the hustlers hanging out in the park across from our hotel in Havana. Apparently they inject peanut oil into their upper arms to simulate muscle bulk. We called them the Popeye Guys (although Popeye had oversized forearms, you get the idea). http://www.math.pitt.edu/~bard/bardware/popeye/popeye_half.gif

I think that for some straight escorts, a client can have characteristics, other than gender, that make him or her more or less acceptable (or even appealing) as a sexual partner. It's things like being clean and respectful -- especially being respectful of the escort's idiosyncrasies and boundaries. It's also important to remember that it's not necessarily the client's face or body that turns an escort on. Instead, it's the sexual energy that the escort can create with his client. It's the escort's knowledge that he's getting his client hot as hell. I've had a straight escort tell me that he loves how turned on he can get me. He's not saying how turned on I get him. It seems that what's hot for me is hot for him.