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A guy and I once spent an entire evening pissing on one another. After we were done I walked in on him while he was pissing in the toilet. He shooed me out because he was (wait for it) pee shy!

Oh my gosh, you are right! Let me go back and correct that omission..

Re-reading the thread in detail, it seems we have not addressed the following topics: Did he or did he not recycle Innie or Outie (thanks @Gar1eth ) His policy on using cents-off and buy-one-get-one coupons His proclivity for using the express lane when he CLEARLY had more than twelve items Whether he brought his own bags or used plastic The average price he paid for underwear Cher or Madonna Ginger or Mary Ann Mr Howell or The Professor (oh, wait...no, we discussed that one)

I'm struggling to understand the correlation between "active conversation about escorts" and "there aren't many reviews?" The purpose of The Deli is to ask questions about escorts. It operates as a companion to the reviews. Additionally, reviews are static and describe one person's impression of a meeting with another at a specific point in time. They are really not a good indicator of another person's experience. Think about restaurant reviews. If I like pork chops with a side of broccoli, my raving review of that dish does you absolutely no good when you like grilled chicken and string beans. However, by asking questions about the restaurant (do they take reservations vs are they first-come-first-serve, how tidy was the dining room, had the serving vessel been thoroughly cleaned, did they live up to their promise of large portions, did they serve cream with the coffee) you can glean information about the experience in general. Same principle applies to escorts. Agreed. Action starts at home. How many reviews have you submitted?

Fortunately, you were on the right side of the fence.

The scariest place I've had sex was a guy's apartment on a nice street in San Diego's North Park neighborhood. The complex was a little run-down, but it was the condition of the apartment that scared me. He had this creaky trundle bed shoved into a bay window. Clothes and crap strewn everywhere.I expected a little demon Zuni warrior like the one in Trilogy of Terror to come running out any second. Now, the time a guy fucked me in the pitch-dark woods behind his apartment complex with a clear view to the I-294 Tr-State Tollway was HOT! The time a guy fucked me on a conference room table in the Montgomery Ward headquarters was hot, too, despite the security guard trying the door.

Welcome, @final_impact. Here are my thoughts: I use my real first name. I also use my cell phone number, although I am transitioning to a Google Voice number, mainly because after switching from an Apple MacBook Pro to an HP laptop I can't get texts on my laptop. You need to do whatever makes you comfortable. In the past I used a fake name, but I'd usually slip up and use my actual first name at some point. It is just easier to use my actual name. My very first hire was at my place. This was pre-Internet and I had absolutely no problems. Since then, I've hosted guys at my home, visited them in their homes, hosted at my own hotel room, and visited them at their hotel room. Again, you have to do what feels comfortable to you. Some clients do, others don't. I typically do not tip, although I have bought small gifts for guys, such as some body products a guy liked and a gift card to a guy's favorite store. Both times were after a stellar session. Both were extremely grateful. One escort I hired fairly frequently once told me that at $250/hour he does not think tipping is appropriate because the rate is already high. A couple of things are important, IMO: Be clear with an escort about what you want. I usually say something like "Hey, [insert name of escort here] your ad caught my eye and I wanted to see if we are compatible. I'm into [describe what I like]. How does this sound to you? rvwnsd" Be clear with yourself about your own personal limits. If there is something you don't want to engage in, don't let yourself get pressured into doing so. This includes PNP, bareback sex, dirty talk, BDSM, breath control, and rough play. Be comfortable with walking away. If an escort says or does something that raises a red flag with you, walk away. It is OK. Do not pre-pay. 'nuff said. Use the Forum as a resource. If there's an escort who interests you, search for them or ask about them here on the Forum. Use your own judgement. If you get a "funny feeling," politely decline to continue contact.

Keith Richards will live forever. After the Armageddon, he and a colony of cockroaches will be driving around in a Dodge minivan.

Have you ever heard of "bear" porn? Spoiler alert: the men are typically not what one would call a "jock."

There is a way to boost one's confidence in RM reviews. When you display all of the reviews, check out the reviewer's name and the date they joined RM. When a reviewer joined in, say, 2015, and is reviewing an escort in 2019 it is pretty unlikely that the reviewer is one of the escort's buddies especially if the reviewer has reviewed multiple escorts.

Given he last logged on August 31, 2019 and today is Sept 1, 2019 I doubt it. The charge for his ad renewal probably did not go through.

I doubt it is a trap. It sounds to me like careless, unscrupulous, not-following-the-law porn sites throwing up display ads that are skirting the law.

That is nothing! If the paparazzi went to Scottsdale Fashion Square on any given Sunday they would loose their minds. Women of all shapes, sizes, and ages wear what amount to bikini tops. No one bats an eye. My favorite is an elderly lady who shops at the Nespresso store. (See her all the time - she must drink as much coffee as I do). In two years of running into her I have always seen her wear a bikini top. In winter she might wear shawl over it. Essentially, that's what Katie Holmes is doing. Cashmere bikini top with a matching cardigan.

If the OP's colleagues openly displayed knives or firearms at work, we all would be telling him to find other employment. Non-tangible weapons such as homophobia are every bit as harmful as tangible ones. I agree with @Unicorn. If anyone feels uncomfortable with being themselves at work they need to start looking for another job at another firm. No one, including @Unicorn, is suggesting the OP quit his job Tuesday. One can remain employed while looking for employment elsewhere. On the other hand In the last ten years, not many. Certainly I know colleagues who hang out after work, but even that is becoming more rare because creating the illusion that there is an "in crowd" is often considered a form of workplace discrimination. This isn't "me too." It is common sense. Actually, every HR professional I know advises people to be asexual at work, regardless their sexual orientation. If you take an anti-harassment course you will find that leering, gestures, sexual innuendo, racy jokes, and giving unwanted compliments of a non-work nature are all prohibited. Making unwanted advances on someone in the workplace (whether they are of the same or opposite gender) is considered to be harassing behavior, particularly when there is a suggestion of quid pro quo.

She might not have had a chance to get a word in or she did and the hints went unnoticed. Incessant complaining gets old.

Which Luke are you referring to? Luke Marcum fits the physical description, gets stellar reviews (I've met him and he is terrific), but is about five years above your upper age limit. Neither his Daddys nor Rentmen reviews state or imply he has aged poorly. I've never hired Luke Jacobs, mainly because he doesn't strike me as being muscular. Perhaps the "Luke" you are referring to is Jacobs. The other guys I would recommend are all outside of your age range, but here they are anyway: Don, Anthony London, and Jack Dixon.

I wish the software allowed me to "like" this more than once. One additional thought about hookup apps (which Unicorn's message implies) - they are not appropriate conversation topics with a co-worker. Since you are new to the firm, you should read their policy regarding workplace conduct and harassment. If the company uses an automated training solution you will probably receive a required training course very soon. Pay close attention to it when you take it.

This is why most companies discourage dating among colleagues. Here's what I think. Keep your crush to yourself. Get to know him and see if he is someone you would like to be friends with. At the same time, make connections on your own. You don't want to pin all your hopes of finding friends on this guy. Also, keep the grindr thing to yourself. That could also make for friction between the two and, IMO, crosses a line. Lastly, it is hard for me to address whether you should tell him you are gay. I came out 22 years ago. I told people who I already knew, but from that point forward I just lived as an out gay man. When discussing what I did on weekends with colleagues I tell them where I went and what I did. No, I don't tell them that I had great sex with a guy I met on grindr, but at the same time my colleagues (gay and straight) don't tell me about their hookups, either.

About three weeks ago the Michael's here in Phoenix put out the Autumn and Halloween decor Our "Autumn" occurs in December. Likewise. Blech. (I do like pumpkin pie) It is 110 degrees at 8:40 PM here in Phoenix and a monsoon is kicking up. No, it isn't time for pumpkin spice anything. If this is who shows up sign me up to https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kuUl522_8jQ:21 any time of the year

Oh, I'm not criticizing! More of a kudos to the two of you for saying it first. But seriously, we discussed getting together, but that little voice inside said "No, no! Don't do it" So i didn't. It is unfortunate so many guys had a mediocre to bad time with him. Perhaps he couldn't keep up the facade.

Upon seeing this thread I started to reply "He dissolved in his own bile and vitriol," but you guys pretty much beat me to it.

Ha! Thanks! PS: I never saw the original thread. But, I know image quality and that dude needs to increase his megapixels.