I could not resist chiming in here! A while back- I'd made an arrangement to see an escort: time, etc. had been arranged in advance and agreed to. On the evening of the meeting, he failed to show up at the designated time; I rang him and at the time he stated that he was at dinner and would be late; the time was stipulated. Well, he was later than he should have been, for when he came into my hotel room, lookin' too hot to pop, and began removing his jacket, I responded that since he was so late, the play time has been canceled. He put back on whatever he'd removed and left very disappointed. That was 2 of us, and to this day, I'm glad that I took the initiative to cancel and to stand steadfast in my position.