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I’ve never fallen in love with an escort, but I have fallen in lust.

Thanks for the info. I haven’t seen much about him, but he looks like the type of guy I would like to hire for a session. And we all know you can’t trust the reviews on rentmasseur.

I definitely like to chat, if they’re not interested in a little small talk, I feel like it’s just a transaction. Having a little conversation to me is just being kind to one another. One provider that I really enjoyed, said that he likes to get to know his clients and likes to chat over a beer or two before getting into the main event. So when he came to my apartment, we had a couple beers and then got into the fun part. And after, he stayed a little while longer, had another beer and chatted with me naked before leaving. I paid for an hour, but he was there for an extra 20 minutes, and it felt more like a friend with benefits type situation than a business dealing. When I’ve hired massage therapists, I discuss with them my physical problems, aches and pains, so they can work on that before the massage. And we still talk about whatever comes to mind. I went to one message therapist who really didn’t want to talk much, was a terrible conversationalist and I would never hire him again.

Good idea, thanks!

Sexy guy, and a great personality to boot! He has some newer pictures in his profile.

It depends on the provider and what they can get. My next provider who I’d like to see asks around that much, but he has rave reviews and everyone on here says he’s worth every penny. I live in NYC and there are many who ask for less, in the $150-180 range. It’s probably the same where you are in California.

His attitude was definitely “You need me more than I need you,” in both his communication and his attitude during the session. Still, I thought he might be worth a try because we had fun anonymously before we actually met.

I had already put the cash in an envelope before I got there and then there was no discreet way to take it out, and I didn’t know what time it was until I walked out his door. I had read previous threads about this provider which are locked because they date from 2018, and the client wrote that he experienced the same thing. Lesson learned!

So glad it’s back! This site has been an invaluable source for information about providers and all the protocols involved!

I’ve hired 2 masseurs in the past 4 months. One charged $150 for one hour, plus tip, I tipped an extra $90 because he was really good with the sensual stuff, and a really nice guy. I actually had fooled around with him at my gym’s steam room and I asked him in advance of our meeting if he was okay with that, and it was cool with him. He’s not really much of a massage therapist, but the extras were amazing. The second guy I hired was also a guy that I had casually “met” at a Korean spa, and his rate was $180, and he made sure that “tipping is highly appreciated.” He was quite vague about what the session would entail, and his texts were on the cold side, not especially personal and more like he just sends you a form letter. Still, I went through with it because I think he’s hot. Upon meeting him, I mentioned the Korean spa encounter and he denied ever meeting me. The massage was okay, but he went into the extras very quickly and seemed like he was in a rush to get it over and done with. I tipped an extra $100, because I didn’t know what was appropriate in this situation, and when I left, it had been 35 minutes, not the hour I had paid for. Probably wouldn’t repeat.

I’ve only ever hired for non-penetrative services, with both escorts and for erotic massages, so there’s a market for it. When I’ve hired an escort, I pay the same rate as for escorting and not massage, and I’ve usually been very happy.

I’m surprised that no one answered, but they found a match for him, and so far, he’s doing well. He’s back on RM and has a couple good reviews. He has a picture on his profile of himself with his sexy silver beard and you can see a faint scar on his abdomen. Glad he’s okay!

I’m not so sure Argentina is still as cheap, the combination of inflation and the stronger peso have changed prices there in things like restaurants, hotels, groceries, etc., so I would assume escorts would be more as well.

I too have had difficulty processing this terrible news. It is those young skaters that touched me the most as well. Those kids ranged in age from like 8 or 9 to 16, and were so talented. It’s heartbreaking. I’ve shed a few tears reading about their too-short lives. I heard about it about 45 minutes after it happened and then had trouble sleeping because I was praying they’d find survivors.

Beer is cheap, I was happy to get it for him. Whatever he would have wanted, I would have bought.