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  1. 19 hours ago, thechosenmagi said:

    So here's what happens. I meet him at his facility (it is one of those spa places where you can rent a room so you'll find independent hairdressers, barbers, massage, etc) and he asks if I have any problem areas. He then leaves the room for me to undress and get on the table under the sheet and blanket. I've started to undress with him in the room before (just shirt and socks and shoes) and he didn't flinch. I have also tried to have my full back undraped when he comes in the room but he just covers me up. I get he has his rhythm of rubbing through the sheet, then uncovering, then covering back before moving to the next place. Having said all of that, I  don't know when I would bring up forgoing the drape. Maybe just mentioning that I am hot and then say something like what you wrote above.

    Also, you guys KNOW the first place I am going if something does happen! RIGHT HERE!

    I think a drape is required for spas - although I have had some fun in them. I have also tried to be undraped to be covered up / some guys start using over the sheet first -- So there have been a few guys who keep it on but more often than not when I say I am fine without the sheet if you are, they usually are, and if he isnt you have you answer.

    I book sure things mostly but it is hot (i find anyway) if there is a will something happen. But move it along unless you are cool with just te massage and blue balls lol. And always jack off before the massage so u dont go as quick if you get hard! I have a therapist tell me that LOL

  2. 49 minutes ago, kniff said:

    Cesar (Chicago)  has moved out of Chicago (Jan 9th) and taken down his MasseurFinder ad. He told me he was going to be traveling, but did not indicate domestic or international. Prior to coming to Chicago years ago he worked at spas in Cancun area. He was a wonderful masseur and a beautiful person (and body). 

    My main go to for years. He usually takes off in January and although I know he went through some living situation changes. Assume he’ll be back — hope so. 

  3. 4 hours ago, thechosenmagi said:

    Ha! Love that he commented on your size. Did anything happen with that guy after you asked him that?

    After the massage that made me hard (I had apologized when it happened), as I was checking out he said basically don’t worry about it, he’s seen a lot in my years massaging and that he was kind of shocked when I turned over. “Be careful with that thing! Your gifted! He then sent me a text on my way home thanking me, saying don’t worry about it, and again saying I was gifted. Maybe he was afraid to lose me as a client if I felt awkward.

    Fast forward a month: massage, flip, massaging my thighs and blood flowing again… hard and nothing. Part of me wonders if I should have drawn attention to it again to open the door for dialogue. 🤷🏻‍♂️ We’ll see what happens next month. Or it’s just time to do more hiring from masseurfinder to supplement.

    if he's texting you that your gifted there is stikk a chance he wants to see it/ grab it

  4. 7 hours ago, thechosenmagi said:

    I wish I had set the standard or said something at the first or second visit about being covered. A little too late now. Maybe on a hot day I can ask for a smaller covering. But, I’m pretty confident my guy is in the 25%. 😵‍💫

    if he knows he's getting you hard there could be something there. If you aren't in a spa setting and you see him frequently just ask about not being draped, saying you are ok with it if he is. It is easier to work on you. He's probably not bi - but you never know, the married guy I sometimes see loves massaging beefy butts and drops his pants (for a nominal fee lol)

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