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On 5/6/2024 at 5:02 PM, pubic_assistance said:

My first time in Morrocco I hired a professional guide from the Mamounia Hotel where we were staying. Initially we just wanted him to get us to the best sites and some insight to avoiding scams. He was also instrumental in keeping all the trinket sellers away from us when we'd walk through the souk and got us into some incredible private restaurants that were off the regular tourist route. We asked him to join us for dinner one evening and he was talking about how he always works with Dolce and Gabbana when they are in town. And how he always gets them "anything and everything" they could want. So without trying to get him to divulge in exactly what his clients were up to we simply said that sounds amazing. We'd love to see some more of your secret locations. So he took us to a beautiful lounge where there were a lot of beautiful young men serving drinks who were available to take back to one of the small rooms upstairs from the lounge. That guide was worth every penny.  We got to see a whole underground economy of Marrakech.

We'd love to see some more of your secret locations. So he took us to a beautiful lounge where there were a lot of beautiful young men serving drinks who were available to take back to one of the small rooms upstairs from the lounge. That guide was worth every penny.  We got to see a whole underground economy of Marrakech.

Great info and great story.  I guess a takeaway is just letting one thing lead to another with a little bit of steering.  Morocco is close to the top of my bucket list!

On 5/4/2024 at 3:26 PM, pubic_assistance said:

Back to the subject... I've been to Morocco, Senegal, Gambia, Kenya, Tanzania, South Africa and Lesotho.

I would say South Africa, particularly Cape Town is the easiest place to find a male escort who isn't going to give you any problems.

Morocco in Marakesh has an underground "anything goes" tourist culture where anything you want can be had for a price...but always at your own risk when something goes bad. If you want to procure quality company, hire a professional guide who can introduce you to the best providers in adult entertainment.

Other places I've traveled have legions of poor young men willing to make a few bucks by letting an American suck their dick..but again at your own peril. Local laws throughout much of Africa criminalizes homosexuality, but turns a blind eye when it's a tourist. Doesn't mean you can't get caught up in some drama and required to pay a bribe to make it go away.

 

This is all excellent information.  Thank you.   I am intrigued by your suggestion of involving a professional guide.  Would such a person be the male guide also accompanying the traveler on typical tourist excursions or a person to particularly seek out for assistance with procurement?  I am trying to envision how I might be successful in such an effort.  Decades ago, while traveling in Thailand, I found tuk-tuk drivers always wanting to find me a woman.  I quickly learned to say in Thai "I do not like women" and "I like men."  As I remember, I then was successful in finding male companions.  But I rarely saw that tuk-tuk ever again, so I might have been less timid about saying asking for help with what I wanted.

I can testify to the massage excellence of one of the providers here.  Another member here tipped me off to him.  My massage was therapeutic and an example of how those masseurs trained in Eastern Europe can be among the best.

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FWIW I conversed with him in July 2023.  Did not book but have kept his info.  At that time he was ThomasFlex.  Stated to me that he only does outcalls and limits himself to the city.  Communication was prompt and to the point.

On 3/24/2024 at 5:42 PM, Whippoorwill said:

Love this thread. 

I was in Kochi a couple of years ago for the Kochi-Muziris Biennale, where my driver was an absolutely stunning 20-something year old Indian wearing a lungi. Wanting to get friendlier, I asked him "What are you wearing under your lungi?" He was taken aback, and said, "Why my trousers of course", by which I suspect her meant something like boxers. I had an elaborate hotel suite, and he slept in his car, as hotels in India don't allow drivers and other servants to sleep in their "master's" room. Too bad. I would have loved to have had him for some overnighters!

Great story!  For the past several years I have attempted to get to the K-M Biennale and have not yet made it.  I have always fantasized that there is nothing worn underneath a lungi, but I guess there is another layer to navigate after the lungi loosens and falls to the ground.  I find Indian men so damn sexy and the dark-skinned Tamils in south India in particular.   The "native" dress I like is.a white t-shirt and lungi.  After Kochi it would be on to Chennai.

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2 hours ago, hopeman said:

Just thought I'd throw my 2 cents in. At my stage in life, it is really more about the kissing and tactile stuff then fucking. I had one of the World's Best Lovers and lost him to AIDS. Don't get me wrong. Fucking's great too. Butt (!) I've got toys for that, in the meantime. I know...that communion will come again. The whole enchilada when I click with the next right guy. I've been lucky to have found a few guys on rent.men who are Masters Of The Boyfriend Experience. The talking, touching, slow kissing, slowly undressing one another. The lite nipple play. Lite ass exploration. And then a nice mutual j/o while kissing. I keep my mouth in great shape. I make it clear up front kissing is on the menu. I've been lucky. Have found many great kissers out there! DM if you want more intel. Happy Spring men. 🙂

I'm a BFE kinda guy.   What you describe makes the decision of the person to hire less about top/vers/bot/safe/ask me/anything goes much less important than the provider's total package.

I feared that this discussion had trailed off and am glad it has not.  Thank you Lewisuc for not letting a bump in the road derail you.  

I can say this discussion allowed me to have a private discussion with Lewisuc where I felt respected by him and I believe he did of me.  I am impressed by the amount of time and care Lewisuc has put into his participation here.  It surely has provided me a more personal connection and sense of who he is for time spent in the future. 

Posted now.

6 hours ago, bichiguy said:

although on a scroll of his twitter he's a 8.5" top so maybe some day he'll branch out to other services offered 🤞 lol

What is the his twit name?

19 hours ago, StLouisOct said:

Spent 2 hours with him today. It’s hard to imagine a time with Basstiann where I wouldn’t give him a 5 rating (or 10 if that rating is available). He’s a nice, considerate, handsome and charming guy who’s equally skilled as a top and bottom and he’s a pleasure to talk with. Although his photos are good they don’t accurately show his finely shaped ass and toned body. And he has a deep voice with a sexy Latino accent. Good kisser too! I’d recommend him highly to all manner of clients - from the less experienced beyond.

And oh his hairy armpits!! 😍

On 2/15/2024 at 4:19 PM, JEC said:

I love Hammam, but have never tried it in Morocco.  My best Hammam experience to-date has been the Grande Mosque in Paris.  Would love to hear about your experience!  BTW watch the movie Steam......if you have not.  

Sadly now the hammam in the Grand Mosque in Paris is only open to women.

I have alerted everyone who contacted me who requestied additional details about my communication with him.  I however thought it would be best to post here as well:

I discovered a discussion on The Deli concerning: news that last summer HottieOtter was charged with attempted rape of a minor in a sting operation.  Evidently in his porno past he has gone by Mitch Matthews.  On RentMen he is HottieOtterChi.

• https://str8upgayporn.com/gay-porn-star-mitch-matthews-arrested/
• http://www.gladstonedispatch.com/news/breaking_news/3-face-charges-from-operation-targeting-child-sexual-exploitation-during-nfl-draft/article_89530c51-4e05-54dc-91c1-cba8709a55cc.html

Comments from the Deli page:

If the charges are real they're quite terrible....at the same time, LGBT and especially sex workers have always been targets to exploit false charges against.

I believe in innocent until proven guilty and I haven't seen anything further come out publicly on this.

All that being said I would personally pause on hiring him until the dust settled too

From another member on the Deli regarding his profile:

He has only one pic with no face pic. So I asked for more pics of himself and it  really mitch matthews 

I reported the ad

Thanks for the question.  Any responders with info, please DM me.  I would thank you also.

14 hours ago, J-Mo said:

Saw him recently while visiting Chicago and had a pretty bad experience!  Very late start and the massage was all over the place.  Had to get up and leave which I have never ever do.  Happy to share more but I would not recommend.  Hopefully he was just having a bad day. 

It is always disappointing but helpful to know when one of us has a bad experience.  Yours in fact sounds like a bit of a nightmare.   I believe PP has a presence here.  Maybe he will take note of your report.  It surely is a cautionary tale.   Chicago has many good masseurs.   Hopefully you will find success on your next visit.  Thanks for your report.

I regret I have little experience to date but have surely benefited from those who have in my quest for such.

On 12/19/2023 at 8:15 PM, ChelseaWest said:

Recently had a 2nd massage with provider. Better than the first. Seems like he might lean lower bunk, or straddle the two bunks. [end]

Please let him know that if he plans to travel Chicago will provide him with a warm welcome.

23 hours ago, Spikeguy said:

Why are there kids in the ad?

I have notified a Moderator to ask if this posting should be removed.  If you scroll down to the bottom of a page of a site that features Cesar (who surely is beautiful and sexy) you will see a solicitation with a picture of third world children:

He messaged me 12/30 to say he is scheduling clients again.  The message contained specifics on a full range of services.  DM if you are interested to make an appointment and would like additional details.

On 12/15/2023 at 9:39 AM, Snow said:

Just met him yesterday. I’d say he looks better irl. Massage wise is okish, not the best I’ve had but the part after that was hot. He does charge extra for those kinda stuff. If you’re into Korean guys than he’s a good choice. 

Now says RM profile no longer available.  Do you have a link you can provide?

Messaged him on Nov. 14.  Message unread.  Has not been on this site since Nov. 15.  Any more intelligence than what is currently here?  No phone number supplied so not reachable by text.  Thanks.

Lots of info on BigDickDill here and I believe an abundance of caution:

Surprisingly generous special rates for weeks of November 5 and November 19

Perhaps my comment was misconstrued.  I simply recorded my initial response to what seemed like a provider's oversized reply to my question whether he kissed.  With his exclamation  that  "99% " of those who would ask such a question would present with horrible oral hygiene, I assumed he would likely include me in this group.  Clearly he was triggered by the question and responded strongly and self-protectively.  

I now better understand kissing from the perspective of a provider but will still ask the question when I consider whom I hire.   And I am now better prepared for whatever response I receive.  With a recent hire there was kissing during our play.  I rinsed with mouthwash before his arrival and  provided mouthwash to him and myself after our play.  He seemed to appreciate this.   

Glad we are having this discussion as kissing greatly enhances my hiring experience.  FWIW, I meet with a dental hygienist every three months for a cleaning.

On 10/12/2023 at 10:32 PM, TorontoDrew said:

It's his choice. 

I had a provider go off on me recently when I asked if he kissed.  His opinion was that "99%" of the people who ask the question have hideous oral hygiene.  I not surprisingly was offended by his blanket statement.  He would not promise to kiss and would do so only after seeing if he felt the vibe and was comfortable with the other's oral hygiene.