Over the years I have occasionally found mutual rim buddies who are connoisseurs of both giving and receiving anilingus. The focus has been on the talent of the rimmer, not on the age, looks, race, build, etc. of the participants. Taking turns licking each other into bliss is one of life’s great pleasures. Sharing one’s mouth, lips and tongue with another man’s anus and rectum is such an intimate act! I call it “the ultimate kiss.” Rimming can express affection, dominance, submission, gratitude, respect, and so many other feelings.