Marc in Calif

I hope you say "Indians" if you speak with any of them or even with a museum employee. Let us know how that goes!

Your notions about Barcelona are kinda stuck in 2017-18. It's still a very lovely city, with many quality-of-life indexes higher than in Madrid. But I'm glad you agree that Barcelona is a city that offers large numbers of quality providers -- which is the topic of this thread. In Bangkok, if you've never heard Thai people use the terms Tinglish, Thainglish, or Thaiglish, you're not listening very carefully. Or perhaps you meet only one type? Referring to such terms does NOT mean that Thais have no idea what they're saying. Where did you get that idea? Do pochos in Mexico and the US not understand what they're saying? FYI... "Mashup" terms like Thainglish, Singlish, and Manglish are well known by locals in those three countries. Listen up -- not everything is on Wikipedia! ☺️

You too, sweetie! 😘

Well, I was there last October and had my usual fill of friends, men, and lads. The term "ladyboy" has always amused me. It's a Thainglish formation that they seem to love because it's all for you and not for them. So if you love been pandered to, go for it! 😂 In Europe, the closest thing to being in Bangkok is indeed Barcelona. However, that lovely city doesn't have the huge number of gay massage parlors as in the Land of Smiles. But in terms of escorts and providers, Barcelona is still #1 on the international circuit of Deli boys.

If he's working on me on his table, I don't want his eyes glued to the camera. 🙃

No, that simplistic reasoning is still off the mark. Even those Southeast Asian countries that suffered under European (Christian) colonization have always had much more permissive and tolerant societies in matters of sexual expression. As you know, both Hinduism and Buddhism have permeated the region for more than a millennium, long predating any strong European Christian influences on society. And here's another, much more complex example: the various traditions of transvestism and gender pluralism in Asia and the Pacific -- which predated European contact. According to Peter Jackson, a scholar at the Australian National University in Canberra, gender was not differentiated in Thailand until the 1800s. Before then, Thai princes and princesses dressed the same, with matching hairstyles. But in the 19th century, to impress the British, the Thai monarchy decided that women and men should be clearly differentiated with unique clothing and hairstyles. So Thailand embarked on a strategy to make its women look like women, and its men look like men, based on a very British model of gender. By the early 1900s, Rama V, the king of Thailand, imposed Western notions of dimorphic gender, and forced the crystallisation of what a woman and a man should be; all subjects thereafter had to be clearly female or male. For Jackson, this is when gender pluralism began to increase. When gender is not strictly mandated to follow a binary, there is no need for individuals to be transgender because there is nothing to transverse. So in fact the Western gender system created ‘transgenderism’ – crossing from one gender to another made no sense in Thailand when there weren’t two strictly defined genders. Hence the most well-known transgender in Southeast Asia: the kathoey, often referred to by the derogatory term ‘ladyboys’.

Wow. That's a pretty myopic explanation -- euro-centric as well as a huge stretch of cultural extrapolation!😂 It's not the absence of Catholicism. It's the Buddhism, Historically as well as today, Buddhists practice tolerance and understanding in matters of sexual relations. Just start there when trying to explain "access and attitude."

Don't you just mean "neat" and "tidy" rather than "scruffy"? Wholesome-looking rather than sleazy? To many people, "clean cut" really does mean clean shaven -- no beard, mustache, or fuzz on the face.

https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/44868

Entire portion copied verbatim from the internet. But can you provide a verified source showing that this exact scene was "unheard of" and "very controversial"? Verified quotes from that time?

Recommend for what exactly? Please be more specific: type of guy, type of massage, etc.

Most providers (and clients) seem to consider "sex" to be oral or anal penetration. Hand-y-work is not in the same category. And I think that an "erotic" massage, to most masseurs, can be many things -- even just erotic touching.

My recommendation is to beware and be cautious! Any new RM ad that begins as follows is highly suspect due to the reputation of many Eastern European service providers. Plus -- NO reviews yet. Welcome! With nearly a decade of experience as a masseur in Eastern Europe...

Is that oil, lotion, or lube that he's holding in photo #5? 😊

There's only one city there: Tangier. ☺️ It's much more European than other places in Morocco, and the prohibitions on alcohol are much looser. I find it a bit boring compared to more traditionally Moroccan cities.

For you 🙄

A scammer is not the same as a "bot"! You can rest assured that a real person (not a bot) is responsible for his profile. But he may or not be the same person in the photos.

Yes, he's had that policy for years. And he justly deserves his free time like the rest of us!

You must be a regular! Or maybe you're an official PR guy? You posted the same advice here about two months ago. ☺️

You've started another topic with the same title -- in the same week? Have you had an appointment with Karl? What would you like to see that you didn't see in person?

Do it in person only. If you're concerned about compromising his license, you definitely don't want to make your special request before the appointment. Your best bet is to use RentMasseur to choose a guy who offers Erotic massage. Confirm that before booking. When the erotic part of the massage starts, you'll be in a much better position (yes, pun intended!) to determine whether oral contact will happen. When it does, you just state your wishes and desires. (Asking before you get on his massage table might throw him off if he's not willing or able to do what you want.) Would you be prepared to pay extra for this particular service? He might ask for it at that time.

And any other provider would also have blocked you for that! 🙈

On Twitter, this is a way to get more eyes on an account. They don't care if it's not consistent!

Don't expect to meet this particular guy. The profile photo he uses is typical of what we call the "Chinese Syndicate" -- a group of masseurs who post photos of professional models. You'll never know who you'll meet at the door for an appointment. They rotate around the US and probably other countries as well.