Let me begin by saying, just as I’ve occasionally indicated in providing stellar feedback of a provider on this site, I am a unique client whose desires for meetings differ significantly from most clients. What I mean by that is that “the big three” (anal, oral, and kissing) mean absolutely nothing to me, nor have I engaged in any of those acts even one time in my 21+ years of hiring.
The mindset (and that’s a key word for me) that I seek for a meeting is being able to roll back the clock to my college years (that’s now 41+ years 😀) with a prospective hire being a frat pledgemaster who makes VERY liberal use of a frat paddle (I always bring several) to haze me, his pledge, through him paddling me. As I make clear in my own RM profile, that, along with being afforded the “privilege” of worshipping his feet and the “privilege” of serving as his seat cushion (face sitting), is ALL I seek from a session, and my RM profile makes it clear that I only seek those three acts and that I will “take care of things after I’m back alone and can relive the session.”
Having said that, I tend to always hire only for an hour because it is amazing how long that is just to engage in those three activities. So, with that disclaimer out of the way, here are my screening criteria:
# 1) tattoos = OUT (inconsistent with the preppy style which is my dream but which I find extremely rare now — twink is a decent substitute for preppy).
# 2) smoker = OUT (see above).
# 3) college age (actually in college big +) or above with provider still passing for college age. [Note: Dimitryy is a PERFECT example of, though actually about 34-36, still having it “going on” and could come close to passing for college age, and we met four times as he was near NOLA last year, and I’m anxiously awaiting his return next month 😀].
# 4) verbal skills make for a HUGE added bonus from the vantage point of not degrading me but rather an emphasis on the provider’s simple inherent superiority to other guys in his age range [Example: In our third meeting, Dimitryy had a large mug of coffee as he entered my hotel room, and he said, “Go ahead and lie down on the bed, and I’m going to have a seat on your face as I finish my coffee. After all, I have to sit on something.” I’m aroused just typing these words and recalling how much happiness he delivered to me in that meeting.
# 5) financial responsibility is a huge +. Dimitryy and I visited before he left one of our meetings while watching CNBC as the DJIA broke through 40,000 last year. We own stocks in common, and Dimitryy even minimizes his overhead in travels (staying with friends, etc.) so he can maximize his ability to invest. I don’t know when he may retire, but I LOVE the fact that, when he does, he can live comfortably the remainder of his life because he was so intelligent and responsible in managing his money derived from this arena. There’s nothing worse (to me at least) than knowing you’re providing money with which a provider opts to purchase drugs. Luckily, I have come to know of drug use on a very small number of providers with whom I’ve met, but when I do, I discontinue meeting with them. Not only does it totally destroy the “mindset” I’ve outlined above (to me, there’s no “superiority” attaching to a drug user), but my own ability to hire is based on my own financial responsibility going all the way back to making $2.90/hour at McDonalds. I have no issue at all with now paying over 100 times that amount to get to live out my fantasy as outlined above, but I want no part of having the knowledge that the money is being used to feed a drug habit as I then view myself as an enabler by making the funds simply way too easy to obtain.
Great question, and I know my answer is unique, but as they say, “It is what it is.”
I met him last year, think he'd just arrived in London. Met him for a massage - think it was something like £110? - and was very very sensual. He's very sexy, not great English but nice guy. I contacted him again and he'd put his prices up so didn't see him again but would recommend, it was a good experience.
You should check out Jay Brit - he's a lovely lovely guy, a great masseur, gorgeous, and very generous with his body.
https://rentmasseur.com/JayBrit
Pinto is amazing as well, a little expensive but great service, very sexy and mutually rewarding.