Mattess

I agree with @mike carey. Don't make too many assumptions or try to overthink. Ask him instead of assuming.  If he questions why you are asking so many questions - tell him you want to make sure he has a good time while visiting. Explain that if he does not communicate his desires (does he want you to show him some of the local sights) you can't prepare (some spots require reservations).  It is okay to ask if he would be okay staying at your place. Be tactful but direct. Maintain a positive vibe and make it work!  😉

Go into it with your eyes open. Assume that he wants to engage you in another appointment and plan on that basis. If that's ok, do it (if you're happy with that). You could ask him what the ground rules are. If he just wants to meet, whether that involves sex or not, that's sort of a bonus. Don't assume he just wants a meeting off the clock.