New to escorting

[LivingnLA]

@FigureSkater, welcome to the forum! I second the recommendation to review posts by @VictorPowers and also suggest @FTM Zachary Prince because both of them seem to be consummate professionals and have built successful businesses. Some thoughts:

 

1. As with any branding situation, decide what your "brand" is and what you want it to be about. Since you've grabbed the tag, FigureSkater, that's clearly an athletic/jock presentation. That you're Asian is also part of your brand. The assets you've displayed in your pics are intriguing and could certainly apply to a "jock top" or a "jock bottom" or "versatile jock." It all depends on what you want to be professionally and what you're comfortable doing with clients.

 

2. Part of any successful business is "finding your niche" and nailing it. In other words, once you find a success brand/niche/kink for yourself, be the best damn version of that that you can be and you'll attract and retain the clients who are into that brand/niche/kink.

 

3. Even though your communication style plays into your brand--such as Fin Doms who call their clients fags or other derogatory names--it's always important to be on-time and consistent with your communication. There's nothing more frustrating than flaky communicators.

 

4. Be safer because escorting and men who have sex with men are both high-risk demographics for STD and STI transmission and there are highly resistant strains of nearly every known sexually infectious agent in the world now. It's important to know this stuff well and protect yourself. Get your vaccinations, use condoms, consider PrEP if you're engaging in anal sex, especially as a bottom because condoms do break.

 

5. Consider your boundaries and be firm about them. The nature of this work and the "roles" we play in interactions can sometimes blur the lines. Don't put yourself at risk needlessly. That means, if you don't want to have public face pics, don't. You're an Asian in Oklahoma, a very "red" state. Being outed is a real risk for you. Plan accordingly.

 

Have fun! As a client, this is one of my favorite "hobbies" and I'm privileged to have had some incredible experiences. I've certainly learned a great deal about myself.

[FigureSkater]

@ButchAtl, @Nickf66 and @JEC thank you for your kind words! I definitely have Boston in my bucket list of cities to explore since it’s very walkable. I’ve heard Atlanta is very fun too! I travel very freely and spontaneously, at times, that I could end up in any city for exploration when time permits!!

 

Also, @LivingnLA and @Frequentflier for the kind words and advice. I’ll definitely look into my niche and perfecting it!

[+ freecahill1965]

Well, Buffalo is not too far from Boston. just saying...

[FigureSkater]

Well, Buffalo is not too far from Boston. just saying...

I am going to buffalo for vacation later in June! But will probably travel up to Canada

[+ freecahill1965]

I am going to buffalo for vacation later in June! But will probably travel up to Canada

Cant blame a guy for trying.

[AJ Doyle]

Thanks for all the great tips! Triple salchow is a figure skating jump haha. As for gushers, I’m assuming that’s the restaurant attached to Habana Inn? I’ve never been into either so I wouldn’t know lol.

Gushers is actually alot of fun! Use to go there after a night of drinking for their late night buffet. Not sure if they still do that? The service was slow, but it was a fun way to sober up before going home.

[Gadfly22]

I am going to buffalo for vacation later in June!

I won 2 tickets to Buffalo in a raffle once. Do you know what second prize was?

A: 4 tickets